Ever felt like your parents are holding you back? One college woman living at home is fed up with her mom’s controlling and sexist behavior. Despite her mom’s claims of being a feminist, she’s been stifling her daughter’s independence and treating her boyfriend like a supervisor. The daughter finally confronts her mom, but is she crossing a line? Let’s dive into this family drama and find out!
College Life at Home

Mom’s Control Issues

Safety Measures Aren’t Enough

Curfew Conflicts ⏰

Sibling Jealousy

Tomboy Transformation ♀️

Boyfriend as Supervisor?

The Handmaid’s Tale Trigger

Confronting Mom

Mom’s Feminist Facade

The Heated Argument

Stifled Childhood

Motherly Love vs. Control

Dad’s Support

Is Mom’s Love Really Just Control?
This college woman is living at home and feeling suffocated by her mom’s controlling and sexist behavior. Her mom claims to be a feminist, but she’s been stifling her daughter’s independence and treating her boyfriend like a supervisor. After a heated argument, the daughter wonders if she’s gone too far. But is she really in the wrong, or is her mom’s love just a mask for control? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family drama…
Commenters agree that parents should teach basic life skills to their children.

NTA. Commenter and reply agree on mom’s sexist behavior

College woman confronts mom’s sexism; plans to move out.
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Strict parents raise the best liars. Is this mom too controlling?

Mother’s overprotectiveness leads to daughter’s lack of independence. NTA.

Woman stands up to mom’s sexism, receives support from commenters

Challenging mom’s fear and discussing rape culture.
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Woman confronts overprotective mother’s sexism, sparks childhood memories.
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Daughter confronts controlling mother and sparks discussion on boundaries.

Supportive comment receives no backlash, encourages standing up for oneself.

NTA. Commenter empathizes with the struggle of being limited by sexist ideals and suggests therapy for the mother. Reply shares personal experience and desire for freedom.

Breaking free from internalized sexism and living life to fullest

Overbearing mom restricts daughter’s life; daughter plans to confront her.

Commenter struggles to change mom’s cultural views on women’s safety

A blunt solution to a complex family issue

Empowering oneself is important, but safety concerns are valid too

Breaking free from gender stereotypes and controlling mothers

This woman carries a switchblade and isn’t afraid to use it

Breaking free from internalized misogyny and helicopter parenting
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Setting boundaries with parents is important for mental health

Controlling mom? Move out or don’t listen to her rules

Woman’s mom causes issues at work by sitting in restaurant ♀️

Mother’s extreme distrust of men, even gay friends, questioned. NTA.

Setting boundaries with an overbearing mother after moving out.

Commenter references iconic Matrix scene with playful banter.

Mom’s sexist views are outdated and not acceptable. NTA.

Fighting sexism, one call-out at a time. NTA wins!

Breaking the cycle of internalized sexism.

Mother’s sexism called out, writing down rules may help.

Breaking free from parental restrictions. NTA wins this round.

Encouraging therapy and setting boundaries for overprotective mother.

Facing the truth hurts, but it doesn’t make you a bad person

Calling out sexism: NTA is right, feminist hypocrisy exposed

Breaking free from overprotective parenting: a daughter’s perspective

Protect yourself from misguided opinions. Learn to set boundaries.

Mom’s overbearing behavior called out for sexism and hypocrisy

Understanding the root of her mother’s conflicting views

Asserting independence: College woman stands up to sexist mom.

A college woman calls out her mom for sexism. NTA.

Feminism is about choice, not control. NTA for calling out.

Mother’s past trauma may be causing her sexist behavior.

Calling out mom’s sexism: a chance for reflection
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Engaging response to a comment about using The Handmaid’s Tale to combat sexism.

OP’s mom claims to be a feminist but contradicts herself.

Empowering response to mom’s sexism, choose your own path

A family history of paranoia and racism explains it all

Breaking free from sexist beliefs: NTA for standing up.

Woman confronts mom’s sexism towards men.

Daughter stands up to mom’s sexism – NTA

College woman stands up to sexist mom, NTA.

A mother’s strict rules for her daughter’s safety debated.

Overprotective mom accused of sexism, NTA calls her out

Restrictive mother-daughter relationship: NTA’s similar experience and advice.

Empathetic response to NTA comment about possible personal trauma.
