We’ve all had our fair share of breakups, but this college student’s experience takes the cake! She tried to break up with her high school boyfriend, Jon, over Christmas break, but he just wouldn’t accept it. Despite telling him that she’s a lesbian, Jon insisted they had a future together. Fast forward to a surprise visit from Jon at her college dorm, several states away. Little did she know that her ex-boyfriend’s persistence would lead to a dramatic confrontation that would leave her questioning her actions.
The Breakup That Wasn’t
The Unwavering Ex ♀️
Persistent Texts
Surprise Visit
The Unwanted Guest
Panic Mode
RA to the Rescue ♀️
Aftermath
Jon’s Messages
Angry Ex
The Stranded Ex ♂️
Furious Accusations
Feeling Conflicted
The Guilt Sets In
Was She Wrong for Turning Him Away?
Despite trying to end the relationship, our college student was faced with a surprise visit from her ex-boyfriend, who refused to accept the breakup. She chose to focus on her studies and asked her RA to handle the situation, leaving Jon stranded with no place to stay. Now, she’s feeling guilty and conflicted about her decision. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA for not letting him in, but be careful. He sounds dangerous
Block him, go hard on protecting yourself, and don’t engage.
NTA. Ex becomes a stalker. Treat Jon as potential danger
Safety concern over ex-boyfriend’s uninvited visit sparks agreement.
Ex-boyfriend crosses into stalker territory. OP is NTA.
NTA comment and replies provide crucial advice on dealing with stalking.
RA goes above and beyond to protect student
Ex-boyfriend turned stalker, NTA. Document everything and stay safe
Stay safe and protect yourself from the uninvited ex-boyfriend
Don’t be manipulated! NTA did the right thing
Commenter receives support after ex-boyfriend’s abusive behavior. ❤️
Ex-boyfriend flies to different state uninvited, ignores OP’s sexuality. NTA.
NTA. Showing up uninvited has consequences. Safety measures recommended.
NTA – Cut all contact with ex, potential danger.
Ex-boyfriend in denial, harassed OP. Replies question his intentions
Ex-boyfriend’s behavior is unacceptable. NTA for protecting yourself.
Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings and condemns ex’s behavior ❤️
Breakup boundaries respected. NTA takes no blame.
Ex-boyfriend is a walking red flag. NTA. Block and document.
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Ex-boyfriend shows up uninvited, NTA gets advice on restraining order
NTA. Take legal action and cut off all contact with Jon.
Supportive replies to a lesbian woman who feels guilty about her ex.
Stalker ex-boyfriend? NTA, get a restraining order and change number
Ex-boyfriend won’t take a hint, NTA. Consider a restraining order.
Ex-boyfriend’s unannounced visit was a trap. NTA for standing firm.
Set clear boundaries and block him if necessary
Take legal action to protect yourself from unwanted visitors.
Ex-boyfriend shows up uninvited, but OP dodges a bullet. NTA
Breaking up doesn’t have to be mutual
️ Protect yourself! NTA urges after ex’s troubling behavior.
Ex-boyfriend’s creepy behavior was shut down. NTA
Ex-boyfriend shows up uninvited, but NTA stands her ground
Protect yourself! Get a restraining order with free university lawyers.
Cut off contact with crazy ex-boyfriend. NTA
Assertive response to unwanted ex-boyfriend visit
Don’t fall for the guilt trip. You were being stalked
Dumped ex-boyfriend shows up uninvited, commenter advises staying safe.
NTA calls out ex-boyfriend for stalking behavior. ️♀️
Protect yourself! Get a restraining order and report to authorities
Standing up to a stalker and taking control of safety
Ex-boyfriend’s behavior is scary-disturbing. NTA for staying away
Ex-boyfriend’s stalking behavior and lack of respect for boundaries.
Ex won’t take the hint? NTA shuts him down
NTA, but be careful. Don’t feel guilty for breaking up.
Taking a stand: Commenter not responsible for ex’s consequences
Ex-boyfriend tries to force relationship, shows up uninvited. NTA.
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Supportive comment suggests reporting ex-boyfriend to police for harassment.
NTA trusts RA and takes control of situation
Ex-boyfriend planned to manipulate and move in, NTA for leaving.
Dumped ex-boyfriend shows up uninvited, girl handles it like a boss
NTA calls for restraining order against scary ex-boyfriend
Establish a paper trail and get a restraining order. NTA
Ex-boyfriend’s behavior is dangerous. NTA for protecting yourself.
Commenter calls out OP’s ex-boyfriend’s behavior and offers support.
Don’t blame yourself, you were struggling with your identity
Ex-boyfriend denies breakup, travels from another state, NTA for refusing.
♀️ NTA stands up to scary ex-boyfriend. Stay safe!
