Picture this: you’re 18, just starting college, and your older sister has been driving you up the wall for years with her constant pronoun policing. It’s become unbearable, and one day, you just snap. You yell at her, and suddenly, you find yourself kicked out of the house and estranged from your family. Now, the holidays are approaching, and your family is demanding that you return home. But is it worth it? Let’s dive into this family drama and see what’s really going on.
Golden Child Sister

Pronoun Policing

Annoying Corrections

Dinner Table Drama

Enough is Enough

Breaking Point

Confrontation

Kicked Out

Holiday Dilemma

Family Values?

Questioning

Feeling Wrong

Edit: Update

Tolerating

Appreciation

Pronoun Police Sister vs. College Girl: Who’s the Real TA?
Our protagonist, an 18-year-old college girl, has had enough of her older sister’s constant pronoun policing. After years of frustration, she finally snaps and confronts her sister, leading to her being kicked out of the house. Now, with the holidays approaching, her family is demanding her presence, but she’s not sure if she wants to go. With her family’s financial support for college on the line, she’s feeling the pressure. Will she cave and return home, or stand her ground? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for not wanting to use pronouns, sister has superiority complex

NTA comment receives support to cut off toxic family member

Sister refuses to use pronouns, sparks family feud

Using correct pronouns, OP is NTA. Sister’s behavior is rude

Family values only apply *on their terms* according to commenters

Breaking free from toxic family dynamics

Sister corrects only OP’s pronouns, family’s odd behavior questioned

Family values or Hallmark ideals? NTA chooses campus over drama ♀️

NTA. Teacher confirms correct use of pronouns with helpful explanation

Supportive comment defends OP against unfair treatment by family

Petty revenge ideas against sister’s pronoun drama

Choose your own family and cut out toxicity
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Commenter defends girl’s response to pronoun drama with swearing

James Cameron reference sparks NTA judgement. Titanic victory!

NTA, ditch the family and do a friendsgiving instead

Navigating pronoun usage causes family feud. NTA stands firm.

Using someone’s name repeatedly in conversation is a manipulation tactic ♀️

Respectful use of pronouns is important, NTA for standing up.

Commenter supports the girl and condemns the behavior.

Commenter doubts OP’s story and calls for reconciliation with family.

Stand your ground and don’t tolerate rude behavior from family

Sister corrects pronouns like a child. NTA for distancing.

NTA shuts down sister’s unrealistic pronoun expectations with humor

Choosing not to associate with family over pronoun drama

Expertly shut down transphobic sister with a blank stare

NTA defends OP and criticizes family’s fake holiday facade

Family drama leads to college student finding new holiday plans
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Sister’s grammar policing is pretentious. Use pronouns without worry.

Sibling squabble over pronoun usage sparks comment humor
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Redditor predicts college girl’s future as a power tripping teacher

Curious about the full story behind this pronoun drama.

Preschool song explains pronouns better than sister, NTA wins.

Sibling support in old age: NTA sister wins family feud

Confusion over pronoun game in family sparks INFO discussion

Don’t let your anger towards your parents and sister ruin your relationship with your brother.

Enjoy your pronouns in peace and Schitt’s Creek. NTA

Spot on reaction to family drama, skip holidays, send mirrors

Sibling drama over pronouns. NTA suggests equally obnoxious responses.

Commenter questions family values after kicking out 18-year-old.
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Op gets advice on dealing with sister’s pronoun drama.

Financially dependent on family? Plan ahead for pronoun drama.

Respect preferred pronouns but also respect people. PC gone wrong
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Preschool teacher defends OP and criticizes ‘use your words’ phrase.

Standing up for yourself and your identity is never wrong . NTA.

Family kicks out girl, calls her a**hole for not attending events. NTA!

Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for setting boundaries. NTA

A creative solution for dealing with pronoun drama

Commenter sympathizes with OP and criticizes sister’s behavior.

Assertive response to pronoun drama earns NTA judgement

Stand your ground and set boundaries with your family

Sibling drama over pronouns: NTA stands up to bullying sister

Supportive comment defends OP and criticizes family’s actions

NTA. Hilarious ways to deal with an obnoxious pronoun corrector

User defends family values and supports OP’s actions. NTA

Family kicks out OP for expressing frustration over sister’s pronoun drama. Cognitive dissonance at its finest. NTA.

Encouraging comment to prioritize mental health and distance from toxic family.

Using pronouns is important, but using someone’s name for every pronoun is crazy

Sister’s pronoun drama at dinner table- NTA snaps back
