Picture this: your sibling is in a car accident that leaves them disabled, and their significant other was driving. Your mom blames the partner and bans them from seeing your sibling. Now, you’re left to make a tough decision when they show up at your door, begging to see your sibling. What would you do? This is exactly the situation one young man found himself in, and his choice has the internet divided. Let’s dive into the story…
The Tragic Accident

Mom’s Harsh Decision

Girlfriend’s Desperate Attempts

The Fateful Day Arrives

A Heartbreaking Plea

Standing His Ground

The Emotional Appeal

A Tearful Goodbye

The Aftermath

A Friend’s Harsh Words

Defending His Decision ️

Caught in the Middle

The Struggle Continues ️

A Family Torn Apart

A Difficult Position

A Family Divided: Who’s Really to Blame?
In a heart-wrenching tale of love, loss, and loyalty, one young man is forced to choose between his mother’s wishes and his brother’s happiness. With his brother’s girlfriend banned from the house and his mother’s anger boiling over, he’s caught in the middle of a family feud. But is he really the one to blame, or is there more to this story than meets the eye? Let’s see what people have to say about this emotional rollercoaster…
Brother’s girlfriend banned from visiting after accident, family is abusive.

Commenter calls out abusive behavior towards dependent adult, receives support.

Girlfriend banned from visiting injured boyfriend, commenters side with her

OP’s mother is controlling and abusive towards brother’s girlfriend. YTA.
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Commenter calls out abusive behavior towards brother and girlfriend

Sibling’s girlfriend banned from seeing him after accident. Controversial opinions.
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Mom’s controlling behavior towards disabled son criticized. YTA called out.

Commenter suggests calling the police to free brother from captivity

Controlling a disabled person’s relationships is abusive. YTA and ableist

Commenter calls out OP for keeping brother from girlfriend. Supportive replies.

Family drama escalates as mom forbids brother from seeing girlfriend

Commenter calls out OP’s abusive behavior towards disabled brother.

Brother’s girlfriend banned from visiting him after accident – YTA

Commenter suggests involving adult protective services for neglected brother.

Brother wants to see girlfriend but controlling mom says no ♂️

Criminal mother and OP holding disabled brother hostage? YTA indeed

Commenter calls out family for controlling brother’s visitation rights.

Commenter calls out family for caregiver abuse and control.

Supporting brother’s wishes is important

Commenter accuses family of caregiver abuse and enabling

Mom forbids brother’s girlfriend from visiting him after accident

Brother’s girlfriend banned from visiting after accident recovery

Commenter calls out controlling behavior towards brother’s girlfriend.

Brother wants to see girlfriend, but mom and sister won’t allow

Commenter harshly calls out OP for enabling toxic behavior.

Commenter calls out OP and their mom for denying brother’s girlfriend visitation rights. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole in the situation.

Advocating for brother’s freedom, consider adult protective services

Brother’s girlfriend banned from visiting after accident – YTA comment

Sibling defends brother’s right to see girlfriend after accident. YTA.

Commenter calls out lack of empathy in family’s situation. YTA.

Family feud over control of disabled brother’s life

Commenter expresses shock at brother’s girlfriend ban.

Brother’s girlfriend unfairly blamed for accident, YTA for forbidding visit

Sibling drama: Commenter calls out OP’s controlling mother.

Sibling loyalty questioned as brother’s girlfriend is held hostage

Sibling’s girlfriend banned from visiting after accident. Commenter calls out OP’s mom’s controlling behavior.

Commenter calls out mother’s abusive behavior towards son.

Commenter calls out OP’s mother for controlling and emotional abuse

Family drama ensues as commenters take sides on brother’s care. ♂️

The brother’s wishes ignored in the midst of drama ♂️

Should a mother control her 25-year-old son’s love life?

Brother’s girlfriend banned from visiting him after accident. Commenter advocates for brother’s autonomy. YTA.

Sibling’s girlfriend banned from visiting after accident

Mom’s controlling behavior causes girlfriend to be banned

Commenter defends brother’s girlfriend, calls out caregiver abuse. YTA.

Commenter accuses family of abuse and enabling, hopes for escape.

Mom bans brother’s girlfriend from visiting after accident. YTA.

Commenter calls out controlling behavior in banning brother’s girlfriend.

Commenter accuses OP of abusing disabled brother.

Brother’s girlfriend banned from visiting him. Is mom wrong?

Commenter calls out OP and their mom for mistreating brother’s girlfriend

Commenter urges action against abusive family member.

Sibling caught between controlling mother and brother’s girlfriend. Soft YTA.

Commenter accuses OP of enabling mother’s abuse of disabled brother

Commenter calls out controlling behavior towards disabled brother’s girlfriend.

Commenter calls out abusive behavior towards disabled brother, advocates for standing up to the mother.

Advocating for a voiceless disabled brother

Commenter sympathizes with brother, calls out family’s behavior.

Commenter accuses mother of abuse towards disabled son.

Commenter condemns family’s actions, wishes brother well.
