We’ve all had our fair share of roommate drama, but this story takes it to a whole new level. A homeowner allowed his brother and his girlfriend to live with him rent-free while they got back on their feet financially. In exchange, they agreed to do all the chores, including mowing the lawn. But when the brother sprained his ankle and couldn’t do yard work, the homeowner asked the girlfriend to mow the lawn instead. She wasn’t happy about it, and now the internet is divided on whether this was fair or not.
The Rent-Free Agreement

Chores in Exchange

Not So Diligent Roomies

Brother’s Sprained Ankle

GF’s Turn to Mow the Lawn?

Sticking to the Agreement

GF Reluctantly Mows the Lawn

Attitude and Moving Out ⏰

Brother’s Opinion ️

Addressing Common Questions

Lawn Mowing Rules

Lawn Mower Facts

Their Ages

The Great Lawn Mowing Debate: Who’s Right? ♀️
So, was it fair for the homeowner to ask his brother’s girlfriend to mow the lawn when her boyfriend couldn’t? Or should he have stepped up and done it himself? The internet is divided on this one, with some saying it’s only fair since they’re living rent-free, while others believe the homeowner is being too harsh. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation – grab your popcorn and get ready for a wild ride!
NTA for expecting GF to do agreed upon chores, regardless of gender.

Commenter agrees with NTA verdict and predicts future extension request

Gender roles in household chores debated. Lawn mowing preferences shared.

Agreement upheld, but communication could have been better
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Women share their positive experiences of mowing lawns

Breaking gender roles: NTA calls out ‘toxic femininity’ in lawn mowing.

Gender should not be a factor in household chores.

Debate over injured brother’s GF doing all chores: ESH.

NTA. Women can mow lawns too! ♀️

Brother’s GF doing all the chores? ♀️ ♀️ If she’s keeping up with everything else, is the grass a big deal?

Agreement breached: Brother’s GF forced to mow lawn. NTA.

Gender should not determine household chores.

Commenter calls out ‘victimitis’ in NTA post.

NTA – Fair arrangement, options available. Don’t kick them down

OP is the a**hole for treating family like employees
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NTA comment shares personal experience with similar situation.

Sharing responsibilities is key to a healthy relationship

Gender roles challenged in lawn mowing dispute

Gender shouldn’t matter in chores. Brother enabling sexism.
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Gender shouldn’t determine lawn mowing.

Gender shouldn’t determine yard work.

Pregnant woman defends brother’s decision to make GF mow lawn

Gender equality prevails! Brother’s GF should mow the lawn.

Standing up to sexism and unfair expectations. Not the a**hole.

Teaching responsibility: NTA’s boundary-setting motivates brother’s GF to mow lawn

NTA! Brother’s GF needs to grow up

Gender roles questioned in lawn mowing agreement

Gender stereotypes and laziness debated in lawn mowing dispute

Mowing the lawn is a unisex task
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Gender roles challenged in rent-free living arrangement

Commenter suggests tactful approach to avoid conflict in ESH situation.

Gender doesn’t matter, chores need to be done. NTA.

Sibling enlists GF for yard work, commenters support decision.
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Commenter calls out sexist behavior and advises talking to brother.

Gender roles card backfires on ungrateful girlfriend. NTA wins.

Consider sharing the workload with brother’s GF. NAH.

Breaking gender stereotypes: NTA for women mowing lawns

Women can mow lawns too. They agreed, so NTA
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Ungrateful brother’s GF forced to mow lawn. NTA wins

Gender doesn’t matter when it comes to mowing lawns

60-year-old woman proves she’s NTA with a push mower
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NTA pays GF and BF to upkeep house, GF refuses mowing.

Gender shouldn’t be an excuse to avoid responsibilities.

ESH: Commenter calls out OP for passive-aggressive behavior.

Clear expectations were set, gender card played unfairly. NTA.

Gender stereotypes challenged in lawn mowing debate.

Breaking gender stereotypes, mowing the lawn is not gender-specific

Helpful advice for teaching someone to use a lawnmower

Keeping promises is key! Brother’s GF not in the wrong

Gender shouldn’t determine yard work. NTA for standing up.

Short person says GF should mow lawn. Gender not an excuse

Gender-neutral household chores, NTA for expecting equal contribution.

Did OP unfairly burden brother’s GF with extra chores?

Communication is key: Navigating conflicts with tact and empathy.

Female commenter defends brother, calls girlfriend entitled.

Commenter accuses girlfriend of internalized misogyny.

Breaking gender roles: NTA’s regret for not speaking up.

Gender stereotypes challenged in lawn mowing debate. NTA wins.
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Woman shares her experience with lawn mowing and supports OP
