Picture this: you’re at your own wedding, and your best friend’s boyfriend asks for your permission to propose to her during the reception. You’re thrilled to share the joy with your BFF of 15 years, and you agree. But then, your cousin’s boyfriend tries to pull off a surprise proposal too, without asking for your permission. What do you do? One bride found herself in this exact situation, and she’s asking the internet if she made the right call. Let’s dive into this juicy family drama!
The Engagement Request

Best Friend’s Boyfriend’s Plan

A Respectful Proposal

The Big Day Arrives

The First Proposal

Celebrations Begin

Cousin’s Boyfriend Crashes the Party

Drawing the Line ✋

Confrontation and Drama

Family Fallout

The Dilemma Summed Up

Double Proposal Drama: Who Deserves the Spotlight?
So, our bride allowed her best friend’s boyfriend to propose at her wedding, but stopped her cousin’s boyfriend from doing the same. Now, she’s facing backlash from her family, who accuse her of being biased and unfair. Was she right to draw the line, or should she have let both proposals happen? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation…
NTA. Best friend’s proposal was respectful, cousin’s was an asshole move.

Wedding turned open mic night, commenter supports bride’s decision.

NTA. Best friend’s fiancé planned it with you, cousin’s bf didn’t.

NTA saves cousin from afterthought proposal, sparks drama at wedding

Friend gets approval, cousin doesn’t. Simple as that.

NTA. Best friend’s bf asked for permission, cousin’s bf didn’t

Friend asked, cousin didn’t. Don’t stress, you’re NTA

NTA for allowing best friend’s bf to propose at wedding
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Respectful friend’s proposal wins over cousin’s inconsiderate move

Commenter praises OP for being NTA in a double proposal dilemma.

Wedding proposals at someone else’s wedding? Not cool

Bride’s friend’s proposal was inclusive and special, cousin’s was tacky.

Choose your best friend over your cousin for the proposal

Friend asked, cousin didn’t. Attention hog much? NTA wins.

Proposing at someone else’s wedding is AH behavior. NTA.

Bride’s double proposal dilemma sparks debate on wedding etiquette.

Commenter calls out cousin’s bad behavior, aunt’s support. NTA.

Wedding proposals at weddings: Tacky or romantic? NTA’s opinion.

Wedding power move , comment shuts down drama
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Wedding drama resolved: NTA groom asked permission, bias allowed.

Bride sets boundaries and stands her ground on double proposal.

Respectful proposal vs. inconsiderate proposal. NTA – your choice.

Savage response shuts down attention-seeking bridezilla

Friend > Cousin: Respectful proposal plan = NTA

NTA for friend’s partner asking, cousin didn’t.

Best friend vs cousin proposal: NTA and life’s not fair

Friend over cousin in double proposal dilemma. NTA wins.

Respectful proposal vs. reception hijack: NTA’s clear choice

Being biased towards close friends is okay. NTA

Bride’s BFF’s proposal approved, cousin’s BF’s unapproved proposal not cool. NTA.

Wedding proposals at the same event – cute or tacky?

Brave move! Shutting down the cousin’s proposal. NTA

Friend proposed, cousin didn’t. You’re not the a**hole!

Sweet proposal video seen by commenter, NTA for choosing best friend.

NTA comment shuts down rude behavior with no remorse

Bride’s bouquet toss wins approval as NTA move

Wedding permission drama: Best friend vs. cousin

Respectful friend vs. spotlight-stealing cousin. NTA

Not the a**hole, but who will she choose?

Proposing at someone’s wedding? Not cool. NTA.

Express permission is key, NTA comment approves.

Set your wedding rules and own your special day!

Proposing at someone else’s wedding is tacky and uninspired

Respectful proposal wins, but friendship and family matter most

Respectful proposal planning earns NTA’s approval

Bride’s friend not at fault, cousin and bf overstepped boundaries

One proposal okay, the other tacky. Friend’s boyfriend thoughtful. NTA.

BF’s respectful proposal vs. cousin’s unasked-for proposal

Tense double proposal situation handled gracefully. NTA.

Planning ahead is key, blindsiding the couple is not cool. NTA

Friend’s proposal was adorable, other had no permission. NTA.

Family feud over proposal still ongoing after 2 months
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Wedding etiquette 101: No proposing or baby announcements without permission

Wedding proposals at someone else’s wedding are a no-go

Family drama! Bride caught in the middle of proposal feud

Congrats on the wedding! Your day, your rules

Cousin’s proposal without permission? NTA, she’s the A-HOLE!

Best friend’s bf asked permission, cousin’s bf didn’t. NTA

Supportive comment defends bride’s decision, declares NTA

Best friend asked, cousin didn’t. Big difference

Respectful friend vs. dodgy cousin in wedding proposals

Bride’s friend gets permission for proposal, NTA for executing plan

Bride stands up against attention-seeking cousin’s disrespectful proposal at wedding

Bride’s friend and cousin planned their own proposal without permission. NTA

Bride’s cousin blind-sides her, best friend’s fiancé does it right. NTA

Respectful proposal etiquette matters, cousin missed the memo

Wedding proposals at someone else’s wedding? NTA vs. Cousin’s bf

Not the a**hole, but what’s the backstory?

Not the a**hole, but who will she choose?
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Wedding drama over bronze placement? Not the a**hole here

Cutting ties with entitled cousin’s boyfriend – NTA wins.

Supportive comment defends bride’s wedding decisions with humor.

Proposing at someone else’s wedding: tacky or acceptable?

Wedding day, wedding rules! NTA bride stands her ground

Bride’s best friend’s boyfriend asked for permission to propose. NTA.
