Picture this: you’re getting married in a few months, and everything seems to be going smoothly. Your fiancée has chosen her maid of honor, and everyone gets along great. But then, the maid of honor drops a bombshell – she wants to wear your fiancée’s wedding dress after the ceremony! Your fiancée is cool with it, but you’re left feeling… weird. Is it just you, or is there something off about this request? Let’s dive into this wedding dress drama and see what’s really going on.
The Wedding Dress Dilemma

MoH Wants to Wear the Dress

Uncomfortable Feelings

MoH’s Situation

Should I Keep My Nose Out?

Feeling Like an A**hole

Edit: Wedding Day Wearing

Just Trying It On

Edit 2: The Resolution

Not on the Wedding Day

Embracing the Weird

The Great Wedding Dress Swap
Our concerned groom-to-be is facing a unique situation: his fiancée’s maid of honor wants to wear the wedding dress after the ceremony. While his fiancée doesn’t mind, he can’t shake the feeling that it’s inappropriate and symbolic of someone else pretending it’s their wedding. The MoH, who’s already married with kids, simply wants to try on the dress because she likes it. After discussing the matter, the couple agreed that the MoH can try on the dress, but not on the wedding day. Instead, she can come over a few days later and give it a whirl. As the fiancée said, ‘yeah it’s weird, but MoH is weird.’ Let’s see what the internet thinks about this wedding dress swap situation…
Bride’s friend wants to wear her wedding dress…on the same day?

Expensive wedding dresses are for sentiment, not MOH funzies. NAH.
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Wedding dress sharing? Nah, that’s entitled and weird. #NTA

Bride’s friend wants to try on wedding dress, harmless or not?

MOH wants to wear bride’s dress on wedding day? NTA
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Is it really harmless fun or crossing the line?

Trying on the bride’s dress after she’s done? NAH

Maid of honor wants to try on dress, not wear it.

Bridezilla or reasonable concern? Let’s discuss

Is the bride being unreasonable or is it justified?

Confusing post leads to YTA judgment and a BFD
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Bridezilla alert! Let your BFF have some fun too

Bridezilla alert! Share the love and let her try it on

Let her wear the dress, it won’t hurt anyone

Bride’s friend offers to steal the show with wedding dress

Wedding dress drama: Friend can’t wear it on same day!

BFF wants to wear bride’s dress on same day! NTA suggests a private try-on day.

Bride’s friend wants to wear her wedding dress… on the same day?! Letting her try it on on a different day seems like a good compromise.
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Bride’s friend wants to wear her dress, YTA verdict given.

MOH wants to wear bride’s dress on same day? NTA wins!

Don’t be an a**hole, it’s her dress not yours
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Being self-aware is key, NTA. Grateful for helpful friends

Compromise suggestion for friend wanting to wear wedding dress on day

The commenter raises concerns about the MOH’s behavior and motives
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Bride’s friend wants to wear her wedding dress on the same day? NAH, but definitely a strange request. Fiance should ask her to try it on another day.

Trust your fiancee and say no to the MOH! NTA

Renting wedding dresses is common in some cultures

Trying on the wedding dress beforehand is reasonable and normal.

Protect your fiancee’s outfit, NTA prevails in this friendship

Wedding dress reuse depends on sentimental value. NAH.

NTA suggests a compromise to prevent wedding dress disasters!

Suggests a compromise for friend wanting to try on dress

Mother of the bride almost steals bride’s dress

MoH wants to wear bride’s dress on same day? NTA says wait

Friend wants to wear wedding dress on same day? NTA shuts her down

Friend wants to wear bride’s dress on same day? Weird!

The MOH wanting to wear the dress on the same day? NAH.

Trusting your instincts is key. NAH, go with your gut!

Grammar policing aside, commenter thinks NAH in this dress dilemma.

Sensible suggestion to avoid wedding dress showdown

Wedding dress drama turns into disturbing fetish accusation. Yikes
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Trying on a friend’s wedding dress at home

Bride’s friend wants to wear her wedding dress…no harm done?

Let it go, my dude! YTA for not sharing the dress
