When a bride-to-be wants to invite her dad’s former mistress to her wedding, it can cause some serious family drama. In this AITA post, a woman explains how her dad cheated on her mom with a 19-year-old, and how she and her sister blamed the other woman for years. But as she got older, she realized that the woman had actually been a supportive friend to her and her sister. Now, she wants to invite her to her wedding, but her mom is strongly against it. The author is torn between trying to mend her relationship with her mom and doing what she feels is right. What would you do in this situation?
Navigating family drama and inviting dad’s mistress to wedding

Former mistress still haunts family, causing wedding dilemma

Former mistress becomes family friend, bride wants her at wedding ❤️

Former mistress becomes father figure for bride-to-be

Bride wants to invite dad’s mistress to wedding against mom’s wishes

Navigating family drama before the wedding day ❤️

Navigating a complicated family dynamic on a special day.

Bride-to-be invites dad’s mistress to wedding ♀️
A bride-to-be is facing criticism for wanting to invite her dad’s former mistress to her wedding. Despite the mistress being blamed for her parents’ divorce, she was a supportive figure in the bride’s life, helping her through difficult times and even fighting for her college scholarship. The bride sees her as a friend and a fellow victim of her father’s behavior. However, her mother is against the idea and believes it will cause unnecessary hurt. The bride is torn between mending her relationship with her mother and honoring her bond with her ‘stepmom.’ It’s a tricky situation that raises questions about forgiveness, family dynamics, and the complicated emotions that come with divorce. But what will happen if the mistress attends the wedding? Will it bring healing or create more drama? Let’s take a closer look at this controversial decision and the reactions it’s getting from the bride’s family and friends.
Chosen family is sometimes more important than biological family ❤️

Bride-to-be torn between stepmom and mom’s feelings. NAH.

Former mistress invited to wedding, causing family tension. NTA verdict.

Invite them but keep them far apart. NTA, your wedding!

Bride-to-be’s view of her father’s mistress as a friend/sibling

Bride-to-be invites dad’s mistress to wedding and sparks family drama

Supporting the commenter’s perspective on the bride’s father’s infidelity.

Invite whoever you want to your wedding, it’s your day!

Invite who you want to your wedding ♀️

Be sympathetic to your mother, but it’s your special day

Commenter questions why the stepmom was the one to help her with bullying, replies speculate on the mom’s involvement

Invite dad’s former mistress to wedding: NTA, prioritize your happiness ❤️

Inviting dad’s former mistress to wedding, eloping or talking it out?

Bride-to-be wants to invite ex-stepmom to wedding; commenters say NAH.

Navigating a tough situation with three parents at the wedding

Invite who’s important to you, even if it’s dad’s ex-mistress ♀️

Bride-to-be considers inviting dad’s former mistress to wedding

Inviting dad’s mistress to wedding: controversial but acceptable

NTA stands with the girl, but the comment seems harsh

Bride-to-be wants to invite dad’s former mistress to wedding. Commenter advises NTA and reassures against mom’s comparison.

Don’t blame the mistress, blame the cheater. But be prepared for drama

It’s their wedding, everyone else is secondary. NAH

Navigating family drama is never easy ♀️

Bride-to-be wants dad’s former mistress at wedding – family drama unfolds

Navigating family drama at weddings can be tough

Former mistress invited to wedding? YTA for sure.

Bride-to-be’s dad’s mistress invited to wedding: supportive comment and criticism.

Heartwarming story of choosing family over blood. ❤️

Prioritizing the right people at a wedding ❤️

Put yourself first and your mother needs to respect that. NTA

Forgiveness and growth triumph over past mistakes

Bride-to-be caught between stepmom and mother, seeking advice on inviting dad’s former mistress to the wedding.
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Navigating family dynamics and past infidelity drama at weddings

Empowering message about women supporting each other

Celebrate your day with those who make you happy!

Defending the mistress and calling out the real issue

Wedding drama: Should the bride invite her dad’s ex-mistress?

Be the bigger person and reach out.

Wedding drama with a not-the-a**hole bride-to-be

Mature response to inviting dad’s former mistress to wedding ❤️

No a-hole here, but drama still invited to the wedding

Defending the bride-to-be’s decision to invite her dad’s former mistress ❤️

Invite dad’s mistress to wedding? One commenter says NTA.
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Supporting a victim of an inappropriate relationship.

Invite who you want, it’s your day

Stepmom’s age and actions don’t excuse dad’s infidelity

Invite stepmom, NTA. Parental alienation is terrible.

Celebrate your day with people you love ❤️

Don’t let your stepmom’s manipulation ruin your special day.

Take control of your wedding guest list!
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NTA for not wanting the mistress at your wedding

Compassionate response to dad’s mistress, seat separately at wedding ❤️

Invite your dad’s former mistress, it’s your wedding!

Invite ex-stepmom to the wedding, not dad’s former mistress.

Wedding drama! Bride wants to invite dad’s ex-mistress. Commenters approve.

NTA for inviting dad’s former mistress, mom is the AH

Former mistress invited to wedding? One commenter says NTA

Stepmom isn’t the only person responsible for dad’s infidelity. NAH.

Invite dad’s former mistress to wedding, mom can deal for day ✨

Putting past grudges aside for a special day ❤️

Invite dad’s mistress to the wedding? NTA but drama guaranteed ♀️

Don’t blame the other woman, blame the unfaithful partner #NTA

Former stepmom deserves to be at the wedding despite past drama ❤️

Step-mom deserves invite, but should apologize to mom beforehand

Invite your dad’s former mistress to your wedding ? Here’s one Redditor’s verdict

Stepmom proves to be the bigger person in family drama ❤️

Bride-to-be supports former stepmom, advises how to talk to mom ❤️

Wedding drama: inviting ex-stepmom, seating away from bio mom.

Invite whoever you want to your wedding! NTA.

Wedding drama: Bride wants dad’s mistress at the wedding, NTA wins.

Supportive comment reminds bride-to-be to focus on the real culprit.

When divorced parents clash at weddings, what’s the solution?

Celebrate with those who’ve helped. NTA for inviting her.

Stepmom invited to wedding over dad’s mistress. Heartwarming

Wedding drama: Bride-to-be not responsible for her dad’s past.

Navigating family dynamics for a wedding can be tricky

Former step-mom deserves an invite for being a true support ❤️

Invite who you want Your wedding, your guest list.
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Stepmom invited, dad’s former mistress too? NTA, bride-to-be
