Weddings are supposed to be a time of love, joy, and celebration. But for one bride-to-be, it’s turning into a family feud. She’s engaged to her former boss, and they’re planning their big day for next year. Her sister was set to be her maid of honour, but after hearing the speech her sister had prepared, she decided to drop her from the role. The speech was filled with inappropriate jokes about the bride’s work history with her now-fiancé. With family and friends divided, the bride is left questioning her decision.
The Love Story Begins
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A Surprise Reunion
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Workplace Romance ❤️
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Wedding Planning Begins!
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Sisterly Duties ♀️
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The Controversial Speech
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An Unwanted Topic
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Sister’s Stubborn Stance
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A Potential Drama Bomb
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Fiancé’s Opinion
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Sister Gets the Boot
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Family Backlash
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Accusations of Oversensitivity
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Even Brother Sides Against Her
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Is She a Bridezilla or Justified? ♀️
The bride-to-be is left wondering if she’s being too sensitive or if her decision to drop her sister as maid of honour is justified. With her family and even her usually supportive brother siding against her, she’s feeling the pressure to reconsider. But with the potential for drama on her big day, it’s a tough call to make. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA saves the day by avoiding a disastrous wedding speech
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