Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to have a friend’s boyfriend ask if he can propose to his girlfriend during your big day. That’s exactly what happened to one bride, who found herself in a sticky situation. She was thrilled for her friend but didn’t want the proposal to steal the spotlight from her own wedding. Now, she’s left wondering if she was wrong for saying no, and her friendship hangs in the balance. Let’s dive into this wedding drama!
The Request: A Proposal at the Wedding

Bride’s Response: Thrilled but Uncomfortable

The Boyfriend’s Shock

Bride’s Stance: Not on Her Big Day

The Fallout: Maid of Honor Goes Silent

The Truth Comes Out

Bride’s Apology

The Final Verdict

Wedding Drama: Was the Bride Right to Say No? ♀️
Caught in a whirlwind of emotions, this bride had to make a tough decision. She wanted her friend to be happy, but didn’t want her own wedding overshadowed by a surprise proposal. Now, her friendship is strained, and opinions are divided. Was she justified in saying no, or should she have let love take center stage? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this dramatic situation…
After 11 years, proposing at someone else’s wedding is lazy and inconsiderate. NTA

NTA. Commenters suspect groom is using wedding as excuse for not proposing.

Proposing at a wedding: NTA or selfish? ♀️

Weddings are about celebrating love between two specific people ❤️. Proposing at someone else’s wedding is lazy and tacky .

11 years and a wedding later, he still couldn’t propose?

Proposing at someone else’s wedding: tacky or justified? #NTA

Bridezilla? Commenter defends groom’s delayed proposal.
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Proposal at a wedding? NTA says comment, rule #2 broken.

11 years together and he proposes at her wedding? NTA.

NTA commenter and replies call out proposer’s selfishness and attention-seeking

Proposing at someone else’s wedding is tacky, even if the bride and groom are on board.

Public wedding proposals are selfish and parasitic. NTA for refusing.

Did he ask her at the wedding to get an excuse?

BF proposes at wedding, ruins MOH surprise. Commenters agree NTA

NTA. No proposals at someone else’s wedding. Red flag disturbing.

NTA rejects proposal at wedding, commenters criticize MOH and bf’s behavior

Friend’s proposal at my wedding: blame on me? ♀️

Wedding proposal at someone else’s wedding? Definitely not okay! NTA!

Wedding day is about the couple, not the MOH’s boyfriend. NTA

NTA. Weddings are about love, not stealing someone else’s moment ❤️

Wedding day proposal? NTA shuts it down.

Bride’s friend and boyfriend were both classless and selfish.

Avoid public proposals to prevent ruining your special day. NTA!

Lazy proposal at someone else’s wedding? Definitely NTA

Don’t propose at someone else’s wedding, it’s rude and selfish.

Bride defends her decision to say no to proposal at wedding
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Choose friends who celebrate you, not make your day about them

Don’t feel awful! NTA. It’s not okay to hijack someone’s special event.

Bride rightfully rejects public proposal at her wedding

Weddings are for celebrating love, not someone else’s proposal. NTA

Commenter calls out groom’s selfish proposal at bride’s wedding ♀️
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Bride rightfully rejects proposal at her wedding, groom is TA

Straightforward rejection with a touch of humor

Wedding proposal at someone else’s wedding? NTA says comment

Wedding day is about the couple, not someone else’s proposal

Partner’s proposal at someone else’s wedding – justified NTA response

Wedding proposals: romantic or inappropriate?

Proposal at wedding? Definitely NTA, wait for the right moment

A clever suggestion to avoid future wedding proposal mishaps

Bride sets healthy boundaries and deserves better friends.

Commenter supports bride’s decision, uses strong language.

Engaging proposal alternatives suggested for skint guy. NTA.

Wedding guests shouldn’t propose. NTA comment agrees.

Support your friend through a tough breakup

Relationship crumbles as bride rejects proposal at own wedding

Wedding day proposal rejected, bride not in the wrong

Anxious commenter wonders if bride’s rejection led to retaliation.

11 years of dating and he chose her wedding? NTA

Announcing your proposal at someone else’s wedding is tacky. NTA.

Bride rejects proposal at her wedding. Commenter defends her actions.
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11 years together and he proposes at her wedding? NTA

Don’t steal the spotlight on someone else’s big day!

Commenter defends bride’s decision to say no to proposal at her wedding, calls out the selfishness of the proposer. #NTA
