A woman spent a fun-filled day with her boyfriend’s kids while he was away on a work trip. She decided to post a video of the kids playing in the snow to surprise her boyfriend, but things took a turn for the worse. Upon his return, he was furious about the video, accusing her of overstepping boundaries and invading their privacy. The situation escalated when he threw her phone away, and now she’s demanding he pays for a replacement. Was his reaction justified or an overreaction?
Meeting the Boyfriend and His Kids

A Fun Day with the Kids

Sharing the Fun on Social Media

Boyfriend’s Furious Reaction

Heated Argument Ensues ️

Demands to Delete the Video

Phone Thrown Away ️

Confrontation Over the Trashed Phone

Demanding a Replacement

Arguing Over Responsibility

Still No New Phone

Justified Anger or Overreaction? ♀️
A woman’s attempt to surprise her boyfriend with a video of his kids playing in the snow backfires when he becomes furious about the invasion of privacy. The situation escalates when he throws her phone away, and she demands a replacement. Was his reaction justified, or did he overreact? Share your thoughts and reactions.
Boyfriend throws away phone, blames OP, and shows abusive behavior. NTA.

Boyfriend throws out phone over social media video, deemed a**hole.

Support for OP leaving abusive boyfriend.

Boyfriend’s over-the-top reaction to social media post raises red flags

Boyfriend destroys phone, commenters suggest pressing charges and dumping him.

NTA comment suggests boyfriend is married or cheating. Comment replies confirm suspicions.
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Partner’s overreaction to posted photos raises red flags. ESH.

Dump the control freak boyfriend ♀️

Abuse is never justified. Communication is key

Posting someone else’s kids on social media without permission is wrong. ESH.

Boyfriend’s overreaction to privacy violation is a red flag.

Run away! ♀️ NTA for sure.

Boyfriend throws out phone, commenter suggests break up and charges.

Posting videos of other people’s kids without permission? ESH.

Posting pictures of children online can have serious consequences. ESH.

Boyfriend throws phone over video, commenters say dump him.

Posting videos of his kids without permission = ESH.

Dump him and report the theft to authorities

Taking and posting pictures of someone’s kids without permission is wrong. Both parties need to replace the phone and rethink their relationship.

Posting kids’ pics without permission is wrong, but destroying property is worse.

Dump the overbearing boyfriend and sue him for a new phone

Posting a video of his kids without permission is wrong. NTA.

Posting videos of someone’s children without permission is not okay. Boyfriend’s reaction was excessive and scary. NTA for demanding a new phone.

Posting partner’s kids online for likes = ESH, but phone throwing = too far
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Commenter calls out immaturity of boyfriend, sparks agreement.

Posting without permission leads to phone throwing ESH situation

Dump him! NTA, don’t tolerate abusive behavior.

Abusive boyfriend throws out phone, commenter calls for police intervention.

Posting someone else’s kids on social media: ESH

Protect your property and stand up for yourself!

Posting kids’ pictures without permission is wrong. Boyfriend crossed line.

Breaking your phone is a red flag . Posting other people’s kids without permission is wrong.

Posting pictures of other people’s kids without permission is unacceptable. #RespectPrivacy

NTA, time to dump him.

Posting videos of kids without permission is wrong, but abuse is worse

Posting pictures of other people’s kids without permission is wrong.

Posting videos of his children without permission was wrong, but his reaction was controlling and unacceptable. Run ♀️

Posting pics of his kids online? ESH in this situation

Posting videos of other people’s children without permission is wrong. Boyfriend overreacted.

Posting his children without consent? Both are in the wrong ♀️
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Posting without permission is wrong, but his reaction was abusive

Posting photos of other people’s children without permission is wrong.

Posting without permission: ESH, throwing phone: not justified

Agree with NTA comment, time to move on

Partner’s overreaction leads to phone theft and damage. Red flag?

Posting pics of other people’s children without permission is a huge invasion of privacy. ESH.

Setting boundaries is fair, but extreme behavior is concerning. NTA

Dump him! This screams control freak and disrespect. #selflove
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Leave him ASAP!

BF’s anger issues and violation of privacy lead to ESH.

Red flags and warning signs of an abusive relationship
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NTA for keeping private videos, but communication is key

Sharing a fun day with friends on social media. NTA.
