Ah, the joys of parenthood – and the unsolicited advice that comes with it! One new dad found himself in a heated situation when his sister-in-law (SIL) criticized his wife’s decision to bottle-feed their baby. But when he noticed the snack she offered her own child, he couldn’t help but call her out. Read on to find out what happened, and whether the internet thinks he went too far…
The Birth of Baby and Bottle-Feeding

Formula Feeding to the Rescue!

Family Visit and Unwanted Opinions

SIL’s Unsolicited Advice

SIL’s ‘Great Love’ for Her Child

Defending the Wife

SIL’s Accusation

SIL’s Snack Choice

SIL’s Final Jab

Calling Out the Hypocrisy

Brother’s Reaction

Parents’ Disapproval

Apology Standoff

Bottle-Feeding Battle: Who’s the Real Hypocrite Here?
So, our new dad found himself in quite the predicament, defending his wife’s decision to bottle-feed their baby while his SIL criticized her and even accused her of being selfish. But when he saw her giving her own child Cheetos as a snack, he couldn’t help but call her out as a hypocrite. The situation escalated, leading to a family feud and demands for apologies. But what does the internet think of this bottle-feeding drama? Let’s dive into the top responses and see if they believe our dad was in the right or if he should be the one apologizing…
NTA defends wife’s choice to use formula, shut down ignorant SIL

Formula-fed baby drama: SIL needs to mind her business.

Breastfeeding shaming is unacceptable. Fed is best!

Standing up to a bully for your family. NTA

Standing up for what’s best for your baby. NTA wins!

NTA shuts down SIL’s insults during baby bottle-feeding drama

Defending wife during vulnerable time earns NTA commenter praise

Supportive comment applauds mother’s decision to prioritize her health.

Breastfeeding shaming? NTA defends formula feeding and healthy choices.

Fed is best! NTA stands up for baby-feeding choices

Breastfeeding shaming is misogynistic. NTA for calling out SIL

Standing up for a friend with cancer and defending formula feeding.

Breastfeeding guilt is real, but fed is best

Breastfeeding vs formula debate shut down by pediatrician success story

Standing up for yourself and your choices.

Standing up for formula-feeding and shutting down the breastfeeding shamer

SIL’s hypocrisy exposed in child-rearing, NTA stands up.

Breastfeeding struggles and unsupportive partner. NTA for standing up.

Defending wife against SIL’s judgmental behavior, NTA. Breastfeeding facts.

Standing up to a sanctimonious hypocrite sister. NTA

NTA receives support after bizarre cow’s milk comment
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Calling out hypocrisy like a boss!

Breastfeeding advocate supports stepsister’s decision to bottle-feed. SIL shamed her.

NTA and SIL gets called an idiot

Mom-shaming at its finest. Let’s support each other instead

FED IS BEST! Supporting spouse with PPD, NTA, pacify SIL.

A witty comment calling out SIL’s hypocrisy with a cow emoji.

Cheetos-giving commenter defends against hypocritical SIL, NTA

Doctor shut down mom’s bottle-feeding with cow analogy

Not the a**hole. Drama-free comment section

Clarification on the feeding method with helpful information.

NTA for calling out SIL’s hypocrisy on formula feeding
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Breastfeeding vs bottle-feeding debate: NTA defends bottle-feeding with analogy

Don’t let your SIL’s drama get in the way of parenting!

Defending wife with post-partum depression from jealous SIL. NTA

Mother shares her breastfeeding struggles and switch to formula

Setting boundaries with family for the sake of your spouse.

Supporting a new mom’s choice to bottle-feed.

Defending his wife from hypocritical SIL earns NTA judgement.

Formula vs Cheetos: NTA wins the baby feeding debate!

NTA commenter supports not apologizing to hypocritical SIL.

NTA stands up for his wife in bottle-feeding drama

Breastfeeding shaming? Not cool. NTA shuts down hypocrite SIL.

Breastfeeding vs formula debate with hypocritical SIL, NTA comment.
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Unique perspective on formula feeding with a touch of humor

Fed is best! SIL owes apology. Who gives toddlers Cheetos?

Breastfeeding struggles are real and formula-feeding is a personal choice

Formula-feeding advocate shuts down breastfeeding shamers with positivity

Breastfeeding isn’t always possible, formula is a good alternative

Commenter advocates violence against SIL, concerning lack of empathy.

Formula is a valid choice, fed is best! Don’t mom-shame

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries! NTA wins.

Not the a**hole, drama-free section

Defending formula feeding and calling out breastfeeding shaming.

Not the a**hole, drama-free section.

SIL’s sanctimonious attitude towards breastfeeding vs bottle-feeding is called out. NTA

Breastfeeding vs formula debate gets a supportive NTA comment

Support for feeding choices and criticism of SIL’s hypocrisy.

Breastfeeding vs. bottle-feeding debate shut down with NTA response

NTA commenter calls out SIL for being judgmental

Standing up against bullies is NTA, don’t blame the victim!

Déjà vu? Redditors spot repost of suspiciously familiar AITA story

Formula vs Cheetos: Nutrient density debate gets heated!
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Breastfeeding vs formula debate shut down with logical points.

Not the a**hole, but what drama unfolded?

Mom gets called out for feeding baby formula instead of Cheetos.

Sil’s rude behavior called out, breastfeeding vs formula not relevant.

Defending formula feeding and calling out SIL’s hypocrisy.
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SIL gets called out and told to suck a bag of dicks
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Commenter calls out SIL, drama ensues

SIL criticized baby’s feeding, but who’s the real a**hole here?
