Betrayed by Boyfriend: He Revealed Her HIV Status to Friends

Imagine having a secret that you’ve only shared with the person you love and trust the most, only to find out that they’ve betrayed you by revealing it to others. This is exactly what happened to a woman who is HIV positive. She had always been very private about her status, given the trauma it caused her. However, she decided to be completely open with her boyfriend when they first met, hoping it would be cathartic. Little did she know that her trust would be shattered at a party.

A Difficult Past

Party Introduction

Drinks and Confessions

The Truth Comes Out

Unwanted Attention

Confronting the Boyfriend

The Other Friend’s Reaction

Clarification

Trust Shattered: Who’s in the Wrong?

After her boyfriend revealed her HIV status to his friends without her knowledge, this woman found herself in an uncomfortable situation at a party. Despite her attempts to educate the friend about her undetectable status and the precautions taken, the confrontation escalated. When she expressed her disappointment in her boyfriend, he refused to admit any wrongdoing. Now, she’s left questioning the trust in their relationship. Read on to see how others reacted to this heartbreaking story.

NTA. Commenters express disgust at boyfriend’s betrayal of trust and lack of remorse for disclosing OP’s private medical information without consent. Encouragement to leave and warnings about potential future harm.

Betrayal of trust and safety. NTA. Disclosing HIV status is dangerous

Commenters show support for OP and condemn boyfriend’s breach of trust

Boyfriend betrays girlfriend’s HIV status, calls it ‘none of her business’. NTA

Valid to seek advice from friends, but boyfriend should have communicated.

Break up with him. He betrayed your trust and privacy.

NTA. Boyfriend betrayed OP’s trust, friend badgered her. Take care.

BF violated her privacy by revealing HIV status to friends

Ex-boyfriend betrayed her trust by revealing her HIV status

Sharing someone’s HIV status without consent is outrageous. #NTA

Respect privacy! NTA for wanting to keep HIV status private

Don’t let anyone violate your privacy. You’re NTA

Dump him! He broke your trust and disclosed private info

Sharing private medical information without consent is not okay

To disclose or not to disclose on the first date?

Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends. Commenter defends OP as not the a**hole for being upset and boyfriend’s actions.

Can we really trust anyone these days?

Your health is your business, not his to share. NTA

Sharing someone’s private medical information is not acceptable

Commenter sympathizes with OP and condemns boyfriend’s actions. Reply shares personal experience of abuse.

Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends

Dump him! NTA deserves better than someone who betrays trust.

Your status, your business. NTA for being upset.

Ex-boyfriend violated her privacy and showed no remorse. NTA.

Outing someone with HIV is a crime and discrimination

Ex-boyfriend? Spill the tea, sis!

Deserve someone who values you, educates themselves, and shows compassion.

Disclosing someone’s HIV status without consent is a crime

Partner betrayed trust by revealing HIV status. NTA. Relationship advice.

Boyfriend betrays girlfriend’s trust by revealing her HIV status. NTA.

Your health status, your choice to share. Trust broken.

Commenter stands up for themselves and tells ex to f**k off

Your medical condition is your business. NTA for being upset.

Standing up for oneself and medical privacy. You go!

Dump that a**hole ASAP, he doesn’t care about you ‍♀️

Don’t let anyone make you feel like your health isn’t important ❤

Dump him! You deserve better. NTA.

Dating someone who reveals your HIV status is unacceptable.

Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends

Dump him! You deserve someone who respects your privacy.

Dump the ex-boyfriend!

NTA. He betrayed her trust and privacy. No excuses allowed.

Dump the slimy, manipulative boyfriend who betrayed your privacy.

Betrayed by boyfriend for revealing HIV status without permission. Seek support.

Protect yourself! NTA for feeling betrayed and harassed

Being open about HIV status is important, but betrayal is unacceptable.

Why did the boyfriend reveal her HIV status?

NTA. Boyfriend betrayed trust by revealing HIV status to friends. Leave him.

Dump him! His betrayal is a major red flag.

Seeking advice from friends instead of a doctor? Not cool. NTA

Don’t look back, just run!

Dump the douchebag

Heartbreaking betrayal of trust. NTA, you deserve better

Partner’s betrayal and lack of empathy towards HIV status.

Betrayed by boyfriend who revealed her HIV status to friends

Your personal medical business is private. Break up with him.

Respect privacy. Partner and friend are A-holes. NTA.

NTA: Trust violated, red flag waved. Leave for health’s sake.

Double standards? NTA for keeping your private matters private

NTA stands up to unsupportive BF in HIV status reveal

NTA stands up for privacy rights in HIV status betrayal

Betrayal of trust. NTA. Consider ending the relationship

NTA, you have the right to privacy and safety. Run! ⛳️

Dump him and run, bbg! You deserve better.

Respect yourself and cut ties with the big-mouthed ex

Relationship over. NTA for ending it.

Dump the motherf***er already

Your health information is private and he betrayed your trust

Protect your privacy and leave him behind. You deserve better.

Dump him and find someone who respects your privacy

Betrayed by boyfriend: sharing HIV status is a total breach

Dump this loser QUICK! You deserve better. NTA.