Living with roommates can be challenging, especially when you’re trying to navigate each other’s boundaries. In a house of four minimum-wage earners, one roommate, Trent, revealed he was autistic and preferred not to be engaged unless he initiated it. But what happens when a simple touch to get by turns into a full-blown meltdown?
The Autistic Roommate

Trent’s Boundaries

Communicating with Notes

The Doorway Incident

A Simple Touch

The Aftermath

Roomies Weigh In

Different Perspectives

EDIT: Fatphobia and Misogyny ♀️

Touching Drama: Who’s in the Wrong? ♀️
A simple touch to get by in a doorway sparked a heated confrontation between roommates. Trent, the autistic roommate, exploded with anger and made hurtful comments about the protagonist’s weight. While some believe a different approach could’ve been taken, others think Trent overreacted. As the dust settles, we’re left wondering who’s truly in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Autistic roommate’s explosive behavior not excused by condition. NTA.

Roommate’s explosive behavior is unacceptable, but is he worth keeping?

Respect boundaries, even if someone is blocking the way

NTA comment gets support from commenter’s sister

Respectful boundaries are important for everyone, even those with autism.

Agreeing that the comment was out of line

Setting boundaries with autistic roommates

Commenter is NTA for accidentally touching autistic roommate; roommate overreacted.

Standing up to ableism and setting boundaries is NTA

Roommate insults and explodes over touch, NTA for standing up.

Respect boundaries and communicate clearly

When your roommate’s touch aversion gets too much

Identity used to be a jerk? NTA comment sparks debate.

Texting might be a better way to communicate with him

Navigating communication with an autistic roommate: compromise and boundaries

An autistic person shares their perspective on the explosive reaction.

Navigating personal space with roommates can be tough

Stand up for yourself and communicate directly with your roommate

Finding a good roommate is tough , but leaving may be tougher

Roommate blocks doorway, gets personal. NTA deserves apology

Understanding autism doesn’t excuse fatphobia or bigotry

Commenter expresses dislike for Trent with strong language

Don’t let his autism excuse his AH behavior. Stand up!

Not the a**hole for what? We need context!

Understanding autism and setting boundaries for respectful behavior.

Not much context, but this comment is straight to the point

Being NTA is always a good feeling

Navigating neurodiversity and social expectations in shared living spaces.

Roommate’s inconsiderate behavior leads to explosive confrontation. NTA.

Living with an autistic roommate can be challenging, but rude personal remarks are uncalled for. NTA.

Autistic roommate needs to be accountable for his actions. NTA

Standing up to abusive behavior towards Autistic individuals

Don’t use Autism as an excuse to be mean

Roommate uses autism as excuse, blocks doorway, and body shames. NTA.

NTA stands up to rude roommate with anxiety-triggering touch

Standing up against verbal abuse from an autistic roommate

Roommate with autism blocks doorways and explodes over touch

Autistic roommate prefers to be a wall, not a door

Commenter defends actions and receives support.

Autism is not an excuse for abusive behavior. NTA.

Living alone might be the best solution for this situation

Standing up against verbal abuse. You go, NTA!

Respectful communication is key, even when accommodating disabilities.

Respecting boundaries is key. NTA for being accommodating

Standing up for yourself in your own home. NTA

Commenter blames autistic roommate for touch explosion
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Living with disabilities can be challenging for everyone involved

Respectful physical encounter or excuse for being a dick?

Navigating touch sensitivity with an autistic roommate

Insightful explanation of autism and NTA verdict

Respect personal boundaries, even for those with autism. Seek therapy.

Misleading TikTok changes entire context, NTA for defending yourself

Not the a**hole, but what caused the explosion?

Roommate’s autism not an excuse for being rude

Commenter believes person is not at fault

Setting boundaries with an explosive roommate

Navigating boundaries with an autistic roommate

Understanding autism: NTA, roommates should educate themselves

Roommate’s behavior goes beyond autism, NTA for wanting out.

Commenter shares personal experience and suggests possible explanation. NTA

Respectful boundaries are key, even for those with autism

Respect personal boundaries, but blowing up is not okay. NTA.

Setting boundaries with neurodivergent roommates can be tough

Setting standards is important, but being disabled isn’t an excuse

Commenter suggests retaliation against autistic roommate. Not cool.

Air horn idea for dealing with explosive autistic roommate.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out roommate’s behavior.
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Being autistic doesn’t excuse being a jerk

Playful response to autistic roommate’s touch sensitivity.

Commenter agrees and expresses confusion with shocked emoji

Roommate blocking access and spouting toxic comments, NTA.
