We all know how important it is to respect other people’s belongings, especially when it comes to expensive or sentimental items. But what happens when a younger sibling crosses the line and destroys something precious? In this story, a 20-year-old artist finds her expensive watercolor pencils ruined by her 14-year-old sister, leading to a dramatic confrontation and a ban on using her belongings.
A Passion for Art

Sister’s Access to Art Supplies ✏️

The Devastating Discovery

Broken Dreams and Pencils

Confronting the Sister

The Sister’s Excuse

A Lesson on Stealing

Ban on Borrowing

Sister’s Outrage

Setting Boundaries

Mom’s Verdict ⚖️

Online Hate

Self-Doubt

Update: Consequences and Solutions

The Replacement Pencils

The Aftermath: Grounded and Making Amends ♀️
As a result of her actions, the sister is grounded, loses access to her phone and social media, and is forced to buy a replacement set of pencils for her sibling. While the artist still has doubts about her reaction, it seems like a valuable lesson has been learned about respecting others’ belongings. Will the sister change her ways? Only time will tell.
NTA. Lock box/cabinet needed. Sister is a spoiled brat.

Sibling rivalry reaches new heights, bunk bed not safe

Sibling boundaries and animal welfare discussed. Locks and passwords suggested.

Sibling steals and destroys artist’s property, only artist is NTA

Setting boundaries with destructive sister: enforce consequences

Artist’s sister destroyed expensive pencils. Commenters suggest locking supplies.

Watercolor pencil debate: NTA’s pencil didn’t break easily, confirmed by reply

Sister breaks pencils, OP angry. NTA, sister may resent rules

Protect your art supplies! NTA, get a lock
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Spoiled youngest sister destroys art supplies, NTA for being upset

Lock up your pencils! NTA sets boundaries with entitled sister

NTA sets boundaries with entitled sister who destroyed expensive pencils

Teaching responsibility: 14-year-old destroys expensive pencils, NTA comment agrees.

Sibling rivalry taken to a new level

Teaching responsibility through consequences.

Respect your siblings’ belongings. NTA for setting boundaries.

Commenter questions parents’ involvement, supports OP’s boundaries.

Supportive comment and reply. Refreshing to see good parenting

Setting boundaries with entitled sister who destroyed art supplies

Expensive art supplies destroyed by sister, commenter sympathizes.
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Protect your pencils like your kids, NTA mom approves

Sister destroys pencils, but NTA and mom supports OP

Teaching a lesson: destroying property is not acceptable at any age

Expensive pencils destroyed by sister, commenter says NTA.

Commenter believes destruction of pencils was deserved.

Commenter suggests moving out to avoid sister’s destructive behavior
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Sibling entitlement and lack of care leads to justified destruction.

Sharing coloring stuff with a 4-year-old who gets it

Defending NTA comment gets backlash. Confusion ensues.

Satisfying justice for a spoiled brat

Culture clash leads to entitled sister destroying property. Family dynamics explained.

14-year-old calls out immature sister’s behavior.

Sibling steals artist’s pencils, NTA for being upset.
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14-year-old breaks pencils: NTA, make her pay!

Sibling solidarity in the Balkans NTA prevails

NTA stands for Not The A**hole. SN likely means Special Needs.

Sibling entitlement in the Balkans – NTA for destroying pencils

Expensive art supplies destroyed by 14yo. NTA, sister acted immature.

Savage reply to immature sister’s destructive behavior

Lock up your art supplies! NTA’s sister needs consequences.

Sibling rivalry at its finest NTA stands their ground

Protect your pencils at all costs! NTA

Supportive commenter encourages OP to call out sister’s bad behavior

Commenter sympathizes with artist, suggests locker boxes for belongings.

Support for NTA and mother’s response
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Sister destroys artist’s pencils, commenter calls her a spoiled brat

14-year-old sister destroys artist’s pencils, friends attack, NTA.

Teaching responsibility and respect for belongings. NTA

NTA for not wanting to share with a destructive sibling

Lock up your expensive pencils to avoid future ‘accidents’

Expensive pencils destroyed by entitled sister, NTA seeks justice
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Sister destroys artist’s pencils, refuses responsibility. NTA for reacting.

Artist’s sister destroys expensive pencils, commenter supports OP’s reaction.

Artist’s sister destroys expensive pencils, commenter supports OP’s response. ✏️

Protect your property and pet from sister’s unacceptable behavior.

Sister destroys pencils, commenter says NTA, suggests earning money

Sibling theft and destruction of property: not cool!

14yo sister destroys expensive pencils, commenter says NTA

Commenter calls out parents in NTA comment with fiery tone

Control is important, NTA commenter compares to walking a dog

Sibling rivalry leads to artistic sabotage
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Sibling rivalry taken too far. NTA stands their ground.
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Sibling rivalry gets sketchy: sister destroys artist’s pencils. NTA
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Sibling rivalry taken to the next level

Protect your art supplies with a little social media shame

Protect your art supplies from immature sibling

Commenter calls sister a spoiled brat and suggests showing her this thread
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