In a world where family drama knows no bounds, one woman finds herself in the middle of a heart-wrenching situation. Living in a conservative country where abortions are kept hush-hush, she discovers she’s pregnant while still in college. With her sister’s stillbirth and funeral looming, she makes a life-altering decision. But when her secret is revealed, the fallout leaves everyone questioning who’s in the right.
The Hush-Hush Abortion Dilemma

Sister’s Tragic Loss

Seeking Help from a Friend

Devastating News

Funeral Plans and a Secret ️

A Race Against Time ⏰

Doctor’s Advice

A Mother’s Betrayal?

The Aftermath

Offering Help, Only to Be Confronted

Sister’s Anger Unleashed ️

The Adoption Argument

Silent Suffering

A Month of Silence

Whose Fault Is It?

To Apologize or Not to Apologize? ♀️
Caught between her mother’s insistence that she apologize and her boyfriend’s belief that she has nothing to be sorry for, our protagonist is left wondering what to do. She understands her sister’s pain but feels hurt that she was denied the chance to say goodbye to her godchild. Should her sister apologize for banning her from the funeral? Or is an apology from our protagonist in order? The internet weighs in on this emotional rollercoaster.
Lesson learned: never trust mother with private info. NTA

NTA for having an abortion, sister’s grief is not an excuse

Support for a woman who had an abortion amidst family drama
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Support for NTA’s decision to have an abortion amidst family tragedy

Mother betrays daughter’s privacy, but expects apology? NTA!

Compassionate response to NTA comment and supportive replies

Privacy breach causes heartbreaking pain for sisters

Empathetic support for NTA’s personal decision and sister’s grief.

Abortion is a personal choice. NTA for standing up for yourself.

Agree or disagree? NTA comment sparks debate

Abortion is a personal choice, but family trust is important

Mom’s cruel move backfires, blames innocent daughter.

Supportive reply to OP, calling out family member’s behavior.

NTA for prioritizing your abortion over sister’s unreasonable demands

Mom blamed her for abortion, NTA. Don’t share with her again.

Choosing to have a child just to avoid hurting feelings? NTA

Family drama and tragedy, but NTA. Light a candle

Choosing to have an abortion is a personal decision.

NTA for abortion, but mom is TA for breaking confidence.

Empathetic response to woman’s decision to have an abortion.

Mom’s cruel move caused unnecessary family drama. NTA.

Mom should apologize to you and your sister.

Banned from niece’s funeral due to abortion? NTA, but heartbreaking.

Trust violated by mom revealing abortion, boyfriend right, NTA

NTA for abortion, but AH if demanding apology from sister.

Mom’s the a**hole, not the commenter.
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Choosing not to carry a child after a family tragedy. NTA!

Trust broken, sister needs time to heal after abortion. NTA

Body autonomy reigns supreme, no need for permission.

Breaking promises is never okay

Sister lashes out after niece’s death, but who’s at fault?

Woman chooses abortion, sister shames her. NTA according to bf.
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Setting boundaries with family during grief.

Navigating family dynamics during grief: NAH, except for mom

Asserting bodily autonomy, commenter disagrees with seeking permission for abortion.

Medical needs come first, NTA

Mom tells sister about abortion after baby’s death, blames OP. NTA.
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Sister’s grief should not dictate your body autonomy. NTA

Supportive reply to a woman who got an abortion after a miscarriage

Mom reveals secret, commenter supports choice, sparks debate.

NTA for having an abortion, but sister and mom owe apologies

Supportive response to heartbreaking situation.

Empowering response to NTA comment about abortion rights.

Supportive comment to OP who is NTA for having an abortion.

Commenter sympathizes with OP, calls out OP’s mom’s betrayal

Cultural differences around giving away babies. Interesting perspective.

Support for not apologizing after abortion during family tragedy.

Standing up for oneself and making tough choices.

Supporting a grieving loved one is more important than being right. ❤️

Supporting a grieving sister, NTA for abortion decision.
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Woman defends her decision to have an abortion. #NTA
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Mother’s betrayal adds pain to grieving sister’s already tough time

Offering support after being banned from funeral.

Making a tough health decision: NTA or just self-care?

Support for abortion as healthcare in emotional situation.

Body autonomy and betrayal of trust. NTA.
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Not the a**hole. But why? Tell us more!
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Supportive comment encourages self-care and autonomy in difficult situation.

Pro-choice commenter receives support for early abortion decision

Betrayed by her own mother. NTA. Trust broken forever.

Supportive response to sister’s abortion amidst family tragedy.

Supportive response to NTA’s decision to have an abortion

Support for woman’s abortion, criticism of sister and mother

No need to apologize, NTA comment receives support

NTA for choosing abortion despite family pressure.

Supportive comment defends OP’s abortion and criticizes family members.

Abortion is a personal choice, NTA for not seeking permission.

Defending against family betrayal with a justified NTA verdict

Supportive comment amidst family drama and healthcare issues.
