Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Imagine coming out to your family, thinking everything is all good, only to have your mom start asking WILDLY inappropriate questions about your sex life! Our protagonist, a 23-year-old lesbian, found herself in this exact situation when she brought her girlfriend home to meet the parents. Get ready for a wild ride filled with shock, disbelief, and some serious boundary-crossing!
Coming Out and Mom’s Reaction

Introducing My Girlfriend to the Family

Mom’s Shocking Question

My Stunned Reaction

Calling Out Mom’s Inappropriate Question

♀️ Defending My Privacy

Mom Turns to My Girlfriend

♀️ Making a Quick Exit

Confronting Mom’s Disturbing Behavior

Expressing My Disbelief

Mom’s Persistent Texts

Mom’s Disturbing Phone Call

Mom’s Bizarre Claim

️ Explaining Homophobia

Confusion and Speculation

Tempted to Turn the Tables

Mom’s Obsession with Daughter’s Lesbian Love Life!
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got a classic case of a mom who just can’t mind her own business! Our protagonist thought she was in for a nice family visit with her girlfriend, but instead, she got hit with a barrage of inappropriate questions about their sex life. From demanding to know who “the man” is in the relationship to claiming she heard them getting it on (spoiler alert: they didn’t), this mom just wouldn’t let up! ♀️ Despite attempts to explain why these questions were homophobic and invasive, Mom just couldn’t wrap her head around it. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this jaw-dropping tale of a mother’s unhealthy interest in her daughter’s love life!
NTA. Mother’s cringey and intrusive question is super AH behavior.

Same sex relationships don’t need a ‘man’ role. NTA

Mother’s cringeworthy question causes reader physical pain. NTA response.

Privacy works both ways. NTA for setting boundaries

Respectful response shuts down invasive mother’s questions

Intrusive parent? NTA for setting boundaries and leaving

Coworker’s ignorance on gender identity and sexuality is astounding. ♀️

Homophobic mom crosses boundaries, commenter says NTA ❤️

Helping parents communicate with queer children

Standing up against bigotry and setting boundaries with family

Support for a gay daughter against inappropriate questioning

Setting boundaries with closed-minded parents

A humorous comment leaves no room for YTA accusations.

Shutting down heteronormativity with a clapback

NTA calls out failed attempt at homophobia with sarcasm

Shutting down sexism with sass and logic. You go girl!

Mother’s creepy question to daughter about sexuality is inappropriate and NTA

Standing up to homophobic family, NTA wins this round

Childhood innocence and acceptance is often lost in adulthood.

Breaking gender roles breaks their brain NTA wins with sassy reply

A sarcastic suggestion for an uncomfortable question about sex roles.

Respectful boundaries and acceptance.

Respect boundaries, not orientation. NTA ️

Invasive questioning about lesbian sex is common, but not okay. NTA

Respecting boundaries is key. NTA

Mother’s inappropriate question warrants asking about her sex life.

Creepy question from a mother raises eyebrows

Breaking gender norms and stereotypes with a witty response

Mother’s creepy question crosses boundaries, NTA for feeling uncomfortable.

This NTA comment had me laughing out loud

Insightful reply to a well-meaning but ignorant comment

Fighting homophobia from family. NTA takes a stand.

Clever ways to shut down a mother’s homophobic questioning. ♀️

Misunderstood mom tries to project acceptance, but ends up weird.

Teaching a lesson: Let coworkers decide if question was okay

Unrelated comment, but ok ♀️

Simple and effective clapback shuts down inappropriate question.

User suggests a funny response to homophobic question.

Respect your privacy and stand up for yourself
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Mother crosses the line with offensive and cringey question

Mom’s entitlement leads to controlling behavior

User suggests educating mom instead of assuming homophobia

Surviving a narcissistic mother as a gay woman

Homophobic dad’s creepy question crosses all lines. NTA.
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Supportive comment calls out homophobic mother for hurtful behavior

Mom’s awkward sex talk fails miserably. NTA for being upset

Setting boundaries and calling out homophobia
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Protective comment defends daughter against creepy and homophobic mother.

Intrusive question sparks tax debate in NTA comment section

Setting boundaries and calling out double standards in sex education

Homophobic question leads to confusion about lesbian relationships.

Setting boundaries with a cringe-worthy mother.
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Suggests trolling mother with cringe-worthy fake details

A spicy comeback to an inappropriate question

Parental boundaries respected, but awkwardness still lingers

Gay commenter empathizes with OP, suggests mom’s possible subconscious homophobia

Respect boundaries and sexuality. NTA.

Respect is key. Don’t ask about sex life or gender roles
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Inappropriate question about sex. NTA claps back with chopsticks.

NTA’s mom is obsessed with her sex life

Biphobia and BDSM stereotypes called out in NTA comment

Invasive parenting at its worst . Definitely NTA.

NTA. Suggests using examples to make mother understand the gravity

Lesbian couple shuts down homophobic mother’s argument

A witty comparison to a set of chopsticks and a frustrated response to an intrusive question.
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Awkward parent-child sex conversations NTA handles it like a pro
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Daughter calls out mom’s creepy sexual question. NTA.

Breaking gender norms with confidence and pride

Intrusive questions about LGBTQ+ intimacy are unacceptable
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A supportive parent vs. an invasive one. NTA

Woman suggests giving outrageous answers to insensitive mother

Setting boundaries with parents. NTA, but siblings treated differently?

Mother asks creepy question, daughter seeks validation from internet friends

Handling mother’s intrusive question about sex in a calm manner

NTA. Creepy mom gets what she deserves

A mother’s unhealthy fascination with her daughter’s personal life
