This Couple’s Household Quarrel Might Leave You Questioning Who’s in the Right

Are you in a relationship with someone who never puts anything back where it belongs? One Reddit user has had enough of her boyfriend’s messiness and is taking a stand. She’s stopped cleaning up after him and is now wondering whether she’s in the wrong. From leaving the cat food scoop in the wrong place to never replacing the toilet paper, her boyfriend’s untidiness is driving her up the wall. But will her refusal to clean up after him cause more issues in their relationship? Read on to find out if she’s being unreasonable or if her boyfriend needs to start taking responsibility for his own mess.

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Who’s in the right in this household quarrel? The girlfriend is frustrated that her boyfriend never puts anything back where it belongs, including kitchen utensils and cat food scoops. The boyfriend, on the other hand, is annoyed that the girlfriend keeps moving things to different places. The arguments have escalated to the point where the girlfriend has resorted to bringing her own toilet paper roll to the bathroom and not replacing the qtips. The boyfriend, in turn, shoves all the grocery bags into the fridge, freezer, and pantry, leaving the girlfriend to do all the organizing. The couple has been fighting about this for a while now, with no resolution in sight. But who is really at fault here? Is the girlfriend being too controlling or is the boyfriend just being lazy? Read on to find out more and share your thoughts in the comments.

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Stand up for yourself! You’re not the a**hole.

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Think twice before starting a family with this guy.

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BYOR (Bring Your Own Roll) to the end of this relationship

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