Man refuses to break personal rule at girlfriend’s family event

A man’s personal rule against drinking alcohol puts him at odds with his girlfriend’s family tradition. Despite his refusal, they insisted he partake in a shot. The situation escalated, resulting in him leaving the party and being called out for being selfish. Do you think he’s in the wrong for not drinking during the family tradition? Read on to find out.

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Man refuses to break personal rule at girlfriend’s family event

A man was put in an awkward situation when he refused to break his personal rule of never drinking alcohol at his girlfriend’s family event. The family had a tradition of taking a shot to honor their dead relative and everyone was expected to take part. Even though the man politely declined the offer, he was judged by the family and his girlfriend’s cousin even called him selfish. Eventually, the man and his girlfriend had to leave the event. But was he really in the wrong for sticking to his personal rule? Let’s take a look at some of the reactions from people online.

Respect people’s boundaries! Don’t push someone to drink alcohol. NTA.

NTA. Teetotaling is a personal choice, and should be respected ❤️

Don’t break your personal rule. NTA!

A morbid yet humorous exchange about a shot at a funeral

Respect for personal boundaries at family events is important

Cheers to personal choices!

Standing firm on personal beliefs, and questioning harmful traditions. ✊

Stick to your principles . NTA for not drinking.

Sneaking in non-alcoholic drink: a clever solution

Respect someone’s choice not to drink

Respect for personal choices should always be a priority!

Setting healthy boundaries without guilt.

Respecting personal choice: NTA for not drinking alcohol

Proud of OP for standing ground on drinking at event

Standing up for personal boundaries and beliefs.

Setting boundaries is important, even at family events #NTA

Respecting personal boundaries is key

Stand your ground against peer pressure to drink. #NTA

Dealing with pushy people at events with a clever tip

Respectful non-drinking choice leads to pushy and problematic family.

Respecting personal boundaries and choices at family events.

You’re in the clear Family events can be tough

No a**hole move at girlfriend’s family event

Stick to your choices and don’t apologize for them.

Girlfriend apologizes for him? NTA, but communication needed.

Standing firm in values, avoiding potential sabotage.

Not the a**hole, but what’s the rule?

Standing firm on personal rule earns NTA and kudos ✊

You’re not the a**hole and did the right thing

Why make a fuss? Just give them juice instead

Girlfriend should have been insulted, not apologetic

Respect over understanding: NTA for sticking to personal rule

Cheers to sobriety!

Pregnant woman pressured to drink, defends personal choice. #NTA

Standing up for personal beliefs at family events.

Commenter defends personal choice not to drink at events

Respectful boundaries: NTA stands firm at girlfriend’s family event

Respect for personal choices at family events

Standing by personal rules, even under pressure. #NotSelfish #NTA

Respect personal choices, even if it’s just one drink

Cheers to personal boundaries

Don’t be a bully, respect others’ personal choices

Standing firm in personal beliefs at family event

Respecting personal boundaries should never ruin a family gathering

Drink or not, still a part of the celebration!

Respectful boundaries win: NTA stands firm amidst family pressure

Respectful non-drinker stands their ground at family event

Support for personal rule on food consumption at event

Standing firm on personal boundaries, NTA shuts down peer pressure ‍♂️

Choose your own path ‍♂️ Stand up for yourself, NTA.

Respectful OP refuses alcohol at event, gets criticized. NTA

Respectful refusal of drink earns NTA and love ❤️

Respectful refusal at family event earns NTA judgement

Respect someone’s choice to not drink. NTA.

Standing firm on a personal rule at a family event

NTA for sticking to personal rule at gf’s family event

Defending sobriety: Commenter shares experience and questions location.

Teetotaler at in-laws, NTA.

Not breaking personal rule at girlfriend’s family event is NTA