A man visiting his brother’s girlfriend’s house for the first time finds out she keeps an urn of her late husband’s ashes in the house. He privately asks his brother if he’s okay with it, but when he doesn’t get a clear answer, he brings it up with the girlfriend. This leads to a heated argument, with the girlfriend feeling attacked and the brother calling the man an obnoxious a**hole. The man’s parents later tell him his comments were hurtful, but he insists he meant no harm. Read on to find out whether he should apologize or stand by his opinion.
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Navigating sensitive topics: discussing late partner’s urn with girlfriend

Man calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’, brother defends girlfriend

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Man apologizes for calling girlfriend’s late husband’s urn ‘weird’

Brother complains about late husband’s urn in girlfriend’s house

Is it weird to keep an ex’s urn?
A man visiting his brother’s girlfriend’s house for the first time was caught off guard by the fact that she kept her late husband’s urn in their home. He expressed his discomfort, stating that it was weird to have an ex’s urn in the house, especially since his brother had just moved in with her. This led to a heated argument between the man and his brother, with the girlfriend feeling upset and uncomfortable. While the man insists that he had no malicious intent, he is considering reaching out to apologize. What do you think? Is it insensitive to keep an ex’s urn in the house, or is it a personal choice that should be respected? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Insensitive comment about late husband’s urn earns YTA verdict.
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Insensitive boyfriend calls deceased husband’s urn ‘weird’. YTA.

Insensitive comment about girlfriend’s late husband’s urn, YTA.

Don’t be insensitive, respect her late husband. YTA.

Insulting late husband’s urn is disrespectful. YTA should apologize.

OP gets called out for insensitivity by commenters ♂️

Man insults deceased husband’s urn in girlfriend’s house, earns rightful backlash

Don’t judge widows for keeping urns. YTA for pressuring her.

Insensitive comment sparks family feud ♂️

Insensitive comment about late husband’s urn sparks backlash.

Insensitive man ruins relationship over deceased husband’s urn. YTA

Insensitive boyfriend calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’

Man calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’ in girlfriend’s house. Commenters react.

Don’t be a busybody! Mind your own business

Insensitive boyfriend insults girlfriend’s late husband’s urn. YTA.

Man calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’. Commenter calls him creep.

Don’t diminish the significance of someone’s late partner

Insecurity at its finest, apologize and let it go

Man calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’, girlfriend calmly explains. YTA.

Insensitive comment about late husband’s urn. YTA.

Insensitive comment on widow’s late husband’s urn backfires ⚰️

Don’t be a jerk, respect others’ grieving process
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Respect her late husband. Don’t be an a**hole

Respect others’ ways of coping with grief.

Respect her late husband’s memory or leave. ♂️

Insensitive comment about girlfriend’s late husband’s urn sparks backlash.

Don’t judge someone’s grief process. YTA according to Reddit.

Insensitive brother-in-law shames girlfriend for grieving late husband.
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Insensitive boyfriend criticizes late husband’s urn, gets rightfully called out

Insensitive man calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’

Insensitive man calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’

Man calls late husband’s urn ‘weird’, called YTA in response

Don’t be insensitive! YTA’s girlfriend can love them both ❤️

Man assumes brother’s feelings, calls girlfriend hypersensitive. YTA.

Don’t mess with a grieving partner. You’re the a**hole.

Insensitive comment about late husband’s urn receives YTA judgement.

Don’t erase someone’s past just because they’re gone. YTA

Insensitive comment towards widow’s boyfriend sparks backlash.

Don’t be culturally insensitive, keeping urns is normal ❤️

Insensitive comment about late husband’s urn earns rightful backlash.

Guest shames girlfriend for late husband’s urn, called out YTA

Commenter defends late husband’s urn, calls out suffocating behavior.

Don’t be a jerk, respect other people’s belongings

Don’t be a jerk, respect your girlfriend’s late husband’s urn ⚰️

Respect grieving process, YTA should have kept quiet.

Don’t disrespect the dead

Insensitive boyfriend receives backlash for calling late husband’s urn ‘weird’

Don’t be an a**hole, mind your own business

Insensitive boyfriend gets called out for disrespecting late husband’s memory

Don’t mess with grief. YTA owes apologies and boundaries.

User called out for insensitive comment about late husband’s urn

Insensitive boyfriend shames girlfriend for late husband’s urn. YTA.
