What would you do if your significant other had a problem with your best friend? That’s the dilemma one man faced when his girlfriend started making comments about his gay best friend living with him. Despite telling her to stop, she continued, causing him to take drastic action. Was he right to tell her she’s not welcome at his house anymore? Or was he too harsh? Read on to find out what happened and judge for yourself.
Setting boundaries with girlfriend’s attitude towards gay best friend.
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Roommates turned homeowners, but can their friendship last?
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A cost-saving living arrangement with joint responsibilities.
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Long-term straight/gay friendship proves possible and enjoyable
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New girlfriend may have caused Mark’s breakup according to context
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Roommate situation causing relationship drama.
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Girlfriend’s homophobic behavior driving a wedge between couple ️
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Girlfriend accuses gay best friend, Mark, of flirting with boyfriend
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Man defends friendship with gay best friend against girlfriend’s comments
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Respect for a gay friend causes tension in romantic relationship
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Girlfriend accuses gay best friend of hitting on her
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Breaking stereotypes: Educating girlfriend about gay best friend
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Man gives ultimatum to girlfriend over homophobic comments towards friend
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GF’s friends intervene in conflict over his gay best friend.
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Navigating boundaries with friends and partners
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Heartbreak: OP announces breakup after conflict with girlfriend over friend.
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Updates to viral post on gay best friend intervention
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Spread love, not hate! ❤️
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Homophobia and toxic behavior ruins relationship and living situation
One man’s girlfriend’s homophobic and toxic behavior has caused a rift in his living situation with his gay best friend. Despite being open about his living situation from the start, his girlfriend’s attitude towards his friend has caused tension and ultimately led to the end of their relationship. The man is now seeking judgment on whether he was too harsh in asking his girlfriend to change her attitude or leave the house. Let’s delve into the story and the reactions to his actions.
Homophobia has no place in friendships. NTA for standing up.

NTA. Commenter calls out girlfriend’s homophobic attitudes towards gay best friend.
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Relationship doomed after NTA comment and agreement in replies

Heartwarming support for a solid bro

Homophobic girlfriend kicked out. Relationship doomed.

Commenter supports OP and calls out girlfriend’s irrational behavior. ♂️

A heartwarming story of true friendship and loyalty ❤️

Gaslighting in relationships: Boomer calls out girlfriend’s behavior

Long-lasting friendship triumphs over prejudice. ❤️

NTA stands up against partner’s hurtful ‘joke’ with gay friend ️

NTA puts childish girlfriend in her place ♂️
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Supportive ally receives gratitude from LGBTQ+ community ❤️

Don’t let anyone come between true friendships

Supportive comment applauding friend for standing up for his gay best friend.

NTA and she needs to grow up . Platonic friendship is possible.

Friendship over girlfriend? NTA stands up for gay friend

Standing up against homophobia #NTA

Commenters discuss the trend of getting others to harass people.

Calling out homophobia – not cute or funny ️

Defending his friend: Man is not an a**hole for standing up for him!

Supporting friendship over toxic attitudes

Being funny should not come at the cost of hurting someone. NTA.

Jealousy or homophobia? Discussion on girlfriend’s behavior towards gay roommate

NTA. Don’t let her insecurities ruin your friendship

Support for OP setting boundaries with girlfriend’s homophobic behavior

Clear judgement: Not the a**hole, end of story.

Supporting the LGBTQ+ community, NTA stands up for acceptance

Respectful and supportive comment about a tough relationship decision.

Dump her. Her attitude won’t change and it’s not just jokes

Not the a**hole, good riddance to bad rubbish

Support for standing up to girlfriend’s homophobic behavior

Not the a**hole for setting boundaries with girlfriend.

Support for standing up to girlfriend’s intolerant beliefs

Support for not being the a**hole in friend dispute

Setting boundaries with sarcasm: NTA teaches us how.

Homophobia has no place in Mark’s home. Dump Hannah. ️

Supportive comment defends friendship against judgment.

Support for not being an a**hole towards gay friend ️

Supportive comment with no replies, use for solidarity.

Setting boundaries with roommates can be tough

Friendship over love? NTA chooses bros before Hannah’s woes.

Friend of 20+ years is family, NTA for choosing him.

Commenter calls out immaturity of girlfriend, suggests leaving relationship

️ NTA. Girlfriend’s gotta go according to this commenter.
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NTA. Putting your disrespectful girlfriend out was the right move.

Supportive comment. Good for you for sticking up for your friend!

Beware of the final red flag – her friends messaging you

Addressing girlfriend’s homophobia, OP is NTA but needs communication.

Girlfriend’s homophobia not welcome in relationship, NTA for setting boundaries

Joke repetition leads to relationship ultimatum. Eye roll-worthy behavior.

Maturity matters in a long-term relationship.

Defend your friend and don’t let drama ruin friendships.
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Stand up for yourself and your friend. NTA

Find a real woman who appreciates your friend for who he is ♂️

Standing up to immature behavior. Not the a**hole

Commenter slams the girlfriend and calls her multiple negative traits

Mark is family, her friends should butt out. NTA

Dump her and keep living the good life with Mark!

Acceptance and respect is key in any relationship ❤️ ️

Sarcasm and frustration over gay stereotypes in relationships. ️

Not the A-hole! Homophobia is never okay.

Girlfriend’s problematic behavior towards gay friend causes conflict. NTA.
