Did I go too far when I told my brother he got what he deserved?

What happens when a man becomes paranoid that his girlfriend is only interested in his money? A lot of auditions and tests, apparently. But when the girlfriend finally calls it quits, is it really her fault? One Reddit user shared the story of her brother’s relationship and his obsession with making sure his girlfriend wasn’t a gold digger. However, when his tactics backfired and she decided to leave him, he called her a b-word and turned to his sister for support. But when she called him out on his behavior, things turned ugly. Was the sister right to tell him he got what he deserved? Or is it understandable to want to protect your assets in a relationship? Read on for the full story.

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Sick of ‘auditioning’ to prove love, a relatable struggle ❤️

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When gift expectations ruin a relationship

When money matters more than love, breaking up is easy

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Clashing perspectives on wealth and relationships

Navigating relationships and money, is it fair or not?

When does being cautious become paranoia?

Is it wrong to test and audition your partner to see if they are with you for the right reasons? In a recent incident, a man’s paranoia about his girlfriend using him for his wealth led him to go to extreme lengths to test her loyalty. When the tests proved his suspicions, he confronted her, leading to a breakup. While the man believes he was being cautious, his brother, who is close to the now-ex-girlfriend, believes he went too far. Join the debate on whether it’s okay to test your partner’s loyalty and how far is too far in the comments below.

Brother’s testing behavior towards partners is a red flag.

NTA, brother is the only a-hole. She saved up for those things

NTA for calling out brother’s gold digging behavior

Commenter and replies criticize man’s terrible personality and dating approach

NTA for calling out brother’s unfair treatment of girlfriend

Paying $500 for dinner? Not cool bro, NTA.

NTA. Brother’s approach was wrong. Flowers are not custom orders

Comment thread roasts brother’s financial literacy and ego.

Money can’t buy class, and this person is NTA

The tables have turned. Who’s the real gold digger?

NTA. Your brother sounds like a gold digger

Agreeing with the NTA comment about absurd tests and reality check

Sad truth about gold diggers in dating.

Savage but true Your brother needs a reality check.

Winning a stupid prize for playing a stupid game

Support for not being the a**hole for brother’s mental issues ❤️

Commenter questions if brother truly ‘got what he deserved’.

When gift giving goes too far

Setting traps in a relationship? Not the a**hole for speaking up

Brother flaunts wealth over ex-girlfriend, NTA for supporting her.

The sad truth about being paranoid of gold diggers ❌

Commenter slams man, predicts bad love life.

Don’t be a bridge troll! Seek help for trust issues

Paranoid brother accuses genuine connection of ‘gold digging’

Forging a friendship with the sane one – NTA!

Brother’s entitled behavior called out in scathing comment.

Dodged a bullet and gained a friend, NTA wins

Agreeing with the commenter that it’s impossible to change minds. ‍♀️

Taking down a sexist brother

Is he a gold digger?

Learning to communicate is key. NTA. Hope ex finds happiness ❤️

Call out toxic behavior

A lesson in gold diggers.

Commenter shares interesting observation about entitled behavior

Supportive reply to calling out toxic behavior, NTA

Satisfying revenge plan with NTA judgement

Brother gets luxury, sister gets nothing: who’s the gold digger?

The commenter suspects the ex-boyfriend was playing a power game .

Encouraging someone to dodge a bullet

Commenter defends OP and calls out brother’s bad attitude ‍♀️

Not the a**hole – but what did your brother do?

Brother deserved it NTA wins this round

Brother’s emotional tests backfire. NTA for calling him out.

Commenter criticizes brother’s behavior, suggests it attracts con artists.

Is the ‘restaurant test’ unfair to women? NTA thinks so ️

Uncovering the reason behind the brother’s behavior