Imagine being 24, working part-time, studying full-time, and paying rent to your mom, only to find out that she’s been using your tax papers to her advantage. That’s exactly what happened to one person who decided enough was enough. They refused to hand over their T-1098 tax form for college, which led to a massive blowup between them and their mother. But who’s in the right here? Let’s dive into the story. ️♀️
Paying Rent and Covering Expenses

Sibling Support

Health Insurance Drama

Mom’s Financial Struggles

Tax Form Shenanigans

Refusing the Tax Form

Mom’s Angry Reaction

Standing Their Ground

A Compromise Offer

Mom’s Demands

Insurance Update

New Insurance Plan

Who’s the Real Money Grabber?
So here’s the situation: a 24-year-old is paying their mom rent, covering all their own expenses, and even offering to give her extra tax refund money for rent. But mom’s not satisfied – she wants both rent and the tax papers. With the mom lying about her other children’s financial contributions and dropping her child from her insurance without notice, it’s no wonder tensions are running high. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this financial fiasco…
NTA but be careful. Seek legal/tax advice. Move out ASAP

NTA, but time to move out

Commenter empathizes with OP’s situation and advises moving out.

Take control of your finances Demand receipts for rent payments.

Secure your paperwork and start looking for a new place

Commenters discuss the intricacies of employer-sponsored healthcare plans.

NTA. Parent-child relationships should not be based on taxes

Escape the financial trap! NTA for standing up.

NTA defends against mom’s tax fraud accusation

Mom falsely claimed me as dependent, cost me $14k

Empathetic comment supports OP’s decision to not give tax papers

Learned something new about taxes and independence

Struggling with family financial inequality , commenter shares their experience.

NTA. Moving out and filing taxes independently is the solution.

Commenter accuses mom of gender bias, others disagree

Escape the nest and keep your , NTA wins!

Commenter questions OP’s situation, calls both parties out. ♂️

Commenters provide helpful information and encourage OP to move out

Is OP still a dependent? Limited tax knowledge sparks debate.

Commenter empathizes but calls out bad behavior of OP’s parents.

Take control of your finances and leave toxic family situations.

Commenter tells it like it is with a sassy tone.

Tax break drama: NTA for not handing over papers

Escape plan needed! NTA comment encourages leaving toxic situation.

NTA. Suggests dorm living to avoid mom’s financial pressure

Refusing to hand over tax papers to mom. NTA, but risky

Debating the cost of family plans and insurance premiums

Mom can claim OP as a dependent, but she’s the a-hole.

NTA, escape the narcissistic mother ASAP

Commenter clarifies tax rules, supports OP’s decision.

Agreement confusion and rent owed, but not tax fraud.

Accountant advises OP to stand their ground and file taxes first

Curious about brother’s income and why sister is insulted

Mom accused of stealing from OP, NTA for not sharing papers

Not the a**hole. Mom can’t have it both ways.

NTA refuses to give tax papers to mom, calls out fraud
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Escape the family drama and find a new home

NTA, but be careful about villainizing mom. Consider declaring yourself.

Taking control of your finances and health insurance, NTA

Is OP financially dependent on their mom? INFO needed

Protect yourself from the IRS, consult a tax expert

NTA, time to fly the nest

Not the a**hole. Financial abuse from mother is unacceptable.

Encouraging reply to NTA comment about toxic family situation

Commenter supports OP’s decision to not share tax papers

Cutting out toxic family members is self-care

Former group health insurance worker questions mother’s claims

Contact IRS for tax help to avoid audit pain

Standing up to a narcissistic parent

NTA. Find a roommate and stop giving your mom money.

Don’t let your mom claim you as a dependent! #NTA
