Picture this: a 20-year-old living with their mum in the UK is forced to attend a mini dinner party with their mum’s colleagues. They’re not a fan of dinners or eating with strangers, but there they are, sitting in the garden, eating food they don’t like. To make matters worse, the dish is full of peas, which they absolutely despise. What happened next? Let’s dive into this dramatic tale of peas, ducks, and an unexpected connection with Mum’s boss.
The Unwanted Dinner ️

Forced to Attend

Peas, Please!

No Alternatives Allowed

Autism and Texture Troubles

Dependent and Learning

Feeding the Ducks

No Bread for Ducks

Mum’s Boss Takes Notice

Silence, Then Acceptance

A Kind Gesture

Peas for Ducks, Ice Cream for Me

Mum’s Reaction

Rude Behavior?

Understanding Importance

Mum’s Boss Speaks Up ️

A Pea-Picking Drama Unfolds
So, our pea-hating protagonist found themselves in a pickle, picking peas out of their dinner in front of Mum’s boss. To their surprise, the boss was understanding and even kind, giving them extra peas for the ducks and money for ice cream. But Mum wasn’t happy, calling the behavior rude and saying it showed disinterest in the guests. The boss suggested they eat something else next time, which upset Mum even more. Was this really such a terrible thing to do? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this pea-picking predicament…
NTA for picking out peas, commenters share similar experiences and opinions.

NTA and fellow autistic commenter recognizes the boss’s empathy and kindness ❤️


Generous boss defends 20-year-old’s food choices. NTA
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Saving peas for ducks is a kind gesture

Mom serves dish with peas despite knowing OP dislikes them. NTA.


Adorable 20-year-old picks peas, ducks are hungry, mom’s nervous

Picking peas out of dinner in front of mom’s boss

Managing dietary restrictions at dinner with mum’s boss


Sweet gesture from mum’s boss, but NTA for standing up.

Autistic OP picks out peas at dinner, mom’s boss present. Mixed opinions.

Don’t pick out your food at the dinner table! YTA mildly.

20-year-old with autism saves peas, mum’s boss pays, YTA/NTA/NAH/ESH

Neurodiverse 20-year-old picks peas, mum’s boss is understanding

Polite NTA but picking peas for ducks during dinner is awkward
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Playing with food is rude, but no harm done in end

Boss supports decision, mom embarrassed and lashes out. NTA.

NTA. Feeding the ducks was a great response . Fresh peas are delicious .

A heartwarming story of empathy and understanding ❤️

20-year-old avoids peas at dinner with mother’s boss. Mother overreacts.

Being an adult means having good table manners


Teaching kindness to kids and ducks
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Delightful writing and relatable OCD food aversions

Boss offers sympathy, mom misunderstands. NTA wins.

Selective eating habits cause social awkwardness. NTA for that.

Mother serves unwanted food at party, OP gets NTA verdict.

Hating peas is tough, but swallowing them like pills works!

OP has autism and may have food aversions. Soft YTA.

Don’t like peas? You’re not alone! NTA for skipping them ♀️

Breaking down the stigma of neurodivergent behavior. NTA

Mother defends son’s food issues, calls out nosy critics.

Mom’s boss is adorable . NTA and not your fault.

20-year-old acts immaturely at mom’s dinner party, receives YTA judgement.

Don’t worry, you’re NTA for picking out peas

Age is just a number, picky eaters unite!

Importance of showing respect for food, but considerate of allergies.

Boss defends 20-year-old’s dinner choice. Ducks enjoy peas

Asserting food preferences in front of mom’s boss

Frozen peas make for a fun snack on a warm day!

Commenter empathizes with post’s tone and feels sad

Misunderstanding with mom’s boss leads to wholesome outcome ❤️

Boss connects with 20-year-old over peas, NTA for picky eaters

Heartwarming comment receives no replies, but deserves all love ❤️

Mature 20-year-old politely declines peas, wins over mom’s boss
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Mom’s boss empathizes with OP’s autism and food aversions. NTA

Boss was just worried, not complaining. NTA for picking peas

Mom’s control issues over food? NTA for picking peas

Picky eater defends their right to choose what they eat ️
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Polite NAH declines peas at dinner, mom’s boss watches
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Encouraging independence and spotting bad vibes from the mom

Mom’s boss called her out, but OP is NTA for dietary restrictions

Boss empathizes, mom prioritizes appearances. NTA.
