Imagine working hard since you were 14, only to have your mom give away the things you bought to your siblings! That’s exactly what happened to this 19-year-old guy, who was treated more like a second parent than a child by his single mom. With four siblings to care for, he was expected to pay for their needs and even his own necessities. But when he finally moved out, he decided to take back everything that was rightfully his. What do you think? Was he in the wrong? Let’s dive into the story…
Working Hard Since 14
Four Siblings to Care For
Taking on Responsibilities
Paying for Their Needs
Mom Avoids Spending Money
Covering His Own Necessities
Grandparents’ Generous Allowance
Buying Electronics ️
Mom Gives Away His Stuff
Mom’s Threats ️
Storing Stuff at Grandparents’ House
Moving Out
Taking Back His Belongings
Siblings’ Reactions
Mom Goes Nuts ️
Taking Back What’s His: Right or Wrong?
So our hardworking 19-year-old finally moves out and decides to take back all the electronics and other items he bought, which his mom had given away to his siblings. While the older siblings seem to understand, his mom loses it, calling him a thief and causing a major scene at his new place. Was he in the wrong for taking back what was rightfully his? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this dramatic situation…
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Mom regifted belongings, NTA for taking them back
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Congrats on the escape! NTA. Yikes indeed.
Retrieved belongings, not the a**hole. Mom has no claim
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Taking back belongings after moving out: NTA, siblings need understanding.
Taking what’s yours – a justified move.
A heartbreaking story of a mother giving away her son’s belongings
Taking back what’s rightfully yours
Moving out success! NTA, congrats on the new place!
Take what’s yours! NTA comment section supports property rights
Commenter expresses anger towards mother, no replies.
Taking back what’s yours #NotTheA**hole
Taking back belongings from abusive parent, NTA. Keep receipts.
Cut ties and call the cops if mom tries again. NTA
Mom’s invasion of privacy is a red flag
NTA. Moving out was the right choice. Therapy can help.
Sibling drama resolved maturely. NTA and good communication maintained
Sibling rivalry and a thieving mother – NTA takes charge
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Commenter supports OP’s decision to take back belongings from negligent parent.
Helpful tips for protecting yourself and moving forward.
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Take care of yourself, cut contact if needed.
Encouraging words for a young man overcoming abuse and moving on
No drama here, just a clear NTA verdict
Heartbreaking childhood missed, but NTA for taking belongings back
Don’t let anyone disrespect your belongings, protect your stuff!
Clear and concise. No room for debate. NTA.
Taking back what’s rightfully yours. NTA for standing up.
Sibling theft? NTA. Explain to siblings and mom with receipts.
Clear cut judgement, no a**holes here
Taking back what’s rightfully yours
Sibling conflict resolved with a hug, NTA wins hearts
Commenter calls out OP’s mom, declares NTA.
Setting boundaries and taking back control.
NTA. Take what’s rightfully yours! Relatable story
Commenter shares experience of parentification and supports OP’s decision.
Protect your belongings! Keep receipts and stay safe
Sharing your location was a mistake. NTA.
Taking back what’s yours
Don’t forget to prioritize your own well-being
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Stand your ground, your belongings are yours
Protecting yourself from toxic family members
Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important.
Mature 19-year-old takes back what he worked hard to buy
Cutting ties with toxic family? NTA, do what’s best for you
Demanding payment for belongings from family? NTA or ESH?
Sibling drama resolved as 19yo takes back belongings
Cutting ties with toxic family members
Sibling drama resolved peacefully, NTA wins the day
Commenter agrees with article subject’s decision to take belongings back.
Reclaiming stolen belongings: NTA takes back what’s rightfully his
Cutting off toxic family members for peace of mind.
Agreed! Toxic family members are never worth sacrificing your happiness
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Taking back belongings after moving out, NTA strikes again!
Encouraging words for someone going through a tough time
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Taking back what’s yours , NTA wins the day
Justice served!
NTA and a gamer too? Invite the sibs for Xbox sessions!
Support for OP’s decision to take back belongings from abusive family.
OP stands up to siblings, commenters applaud NTA verdict
Block your sister if she’s unstable and stole from you
Supportive comment, no replies. NTA and bad mother.
Short and sweet, a supportive comment with a thumbs up
