A woman’s sister was arrested for drug possession and theft, leading the mother to ask for bail money. However, during a visit to her mother’s house, the daughter confronts her about her poor parenting skills and how it’s her fault that her sister ended up in trouble. The mother becomes furious and blames the daughter for not staying home to look after her sister. Was the daughter being too harsh or was the mother at fault? Read more to find out.
Confronting a toxic mother who put her daughter through hell.

Confrontation with mother after sister’s arrest for bad behavior.

Woman lends money to bail sister out, hears mother trash her.

Woman blames mother for sister’s arrest in heated confrontation

Confronting mom about sister’s arrest leads to family fallout

Confronting mom about sister’s arrest leads to fallout.
A woman shares her troubled childhood under her mother’s care, and how her sister’s recent arrest for drug possession and theft became a breaking point for her. After lending her sister bail money and visiting her at her mother’s house, she confronts her mom about her poor parenting, leading to a heated argument and ultimately being banned from her mother’s house. Read on for the reactions to this family drama and share your thoughts in the comments below.
Cutting ties with toxic family member? NTA wins.

Commenters sympathize with OP and criticize her mother’s behavior
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NTA. Engaging advice on getting help for sister and dealing with mother.

Don’t blame others for your parenting failures. Wake up call!

Confronting a failed mother and a sister needing to wake-up

Don’t give that *sshat of a mother another penny

Mother learns hard truth after daughter’s arrest. NTA wins.
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Support for confronting negligent mother and taking control

Don’t enable toxic behavior, even if it’s family

Support for confronting toxic mother in difficult situation.

Setting boundaries with family and offering support for sister’s success

Find your happy elsewhere #NTA

Commenter sympathizes with poster’s frustration towards negligent mother.

Stand up to toxic family members. You’re NTA. ✊

Commenter supports confronting mother for sister’s arrest, calls out neglect.

Commenter sympathizes with woman confronting failed mother. NTA

Don’t enable their behavior. Tough love. NTA.

Sibling bailing out sibling? Mother needs to step up.

Stand your ground and don’t enable bad behavior.

Don’t enable bad behavior, even if it’s family. ♀️

Stand your ground and stop enabling their financial irresponsibility

Compassionate response to sister’s arrest.

Sibling arrested, but commenter escapes trashy mother; best wishes

No more toxic family visits ♀️ #NTA

Brutal honesty wins, no a-hole here.

Consequences of bad parenting: a sister’s arrest and family divide.

User advises against enabling family’s addiction, praises OP’s maturity

Confronting a failing mother and saving a troubled sister.

Not the a**hole, but what led to this confrontation?

Mom not Mom of the Year, sister made bad decisions

Support for NTA commenter’s blamelessness stance

Confronting mother after sister’s arrest – user advises not to come back

Commenter supports OP’s decision to move out and confront mother.

Standing up to toxic family.

Supporting a sister in need, escaping an abusive mother. ❤️

Taking a stand for your principles. ✊ NTA

Daughter calls out bad parenting, internet agrees #NTA

Commenter supports sister and criticizes mother’s parenting choices.

Suggesting CPS intervention, not the a**hole

Cut toxic ties, keep your money NTA

Honesty always wins.

Protect your money: always get a written loan agreement ✍️

Stand up for yourself and focus on your own success

Responsibility as a parent

Standing up to family can be tough #NotTheAsshole

Sister’s arrest leads to family feud – commenter supports OP

Enjoy the freedom! Not the a-hole for confronting mom.

Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior, NTA verdict

Commenter not at fault, context unknown

Neglected sister’s behavior leads to NTA judgment for OP.

Tough love or too harsh? Confronting family after sister’s arrest.

Stand up for yourself and your finances

Bravely walking away from toxic people is the right choice.

Not the a**hole? Let’s see why

Not the a**hole? We need to know more

Confronting a bad mother: NTA but expect backlash

Sister claps back at mom’s blaming with no filter

Supporting a mother’s struggle with a touch of sarcasm
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Don’t expect to get the money back – cost of business

Sibling rivalry gets real. NTA dishes out some truth.

Take control of the situation and don’t let guilt consume you. ✌️

Navigating a difficult relationship with a narcissistic mother.

Going low contact with mom after sister’s arrest.

Not the a**hole: A refreshing take on family conflicts

Sister confronts mother’s failure and irresponsibility with receipts!

Offering a safe haven

Commenter suggests leaving people in prison with sarcastic tone

Take back control of your life!

Confrontation with enabling mother leads to sister’s arrest. NTA.

Cutting toxic ties for a brighter future ✂️

Confronting a parent about sibling’s behavior. NTA wins.

Not the a**hole? Tell us more

Mother’s greed exposed in heartbreaking post, NTA stands up

Sister’s arrest blamed on mother, commenter hopes for sister’s recovery
