Woman Asks If She’s A-Hole For Not Being Able To Feed BF’s Kids

A woman turns to the internet to ask whether she is the a**hole for being unable to feed her BF’s kids. The woman and her BF live together, and while he pays rent, she pays for everything else. Her BF has two children from a previous relationship, and while the woman loves them, she struggles to provide for them. When her BF tells her his kids are coming to stay, she realizes she cannot afford to feed them. Her BF gets angry, and the woman wonders if she’s in the wrong. Read on to find out what Reddit had to say about this difficult situation.

Opening up to strangers, seeking unbiased opinions on parenting situation.

Struggling to feed BF’s kids, am I an a-hole?

Supportive partner struggles with feeding BF’s kids.

Woman improvises to feed BF’s kids in delightful pancake surprise

Struggling to feed BF’s kids, is she the a-hole?

BF refuses to feed his own kids, blames partner.

Struggling to feed BF’s kids, am I a bad person?

Navigating blended family dynamics: Setting boundaries and expectations

The unexpected viral response to a simple post

Clearing up confusion – location is South Africa

Overwhelmed OP didn’t expect awards, just wanted advice

Overwhelmed woman seeks advice on feeding BF’s kids

Dealing with a BF’s kids and his emotional outbursts

Overwhelmed woman feels supported by positive comments ❤️

Why are some commenters so angry?

Can she feed her boyfriend’s kids? AITA?

A woman asks for judgment on refusing to feed her boyfriend’s kids. She is the breadwinner and is already struggling to make ends meet. Reddit users offer advice and opinions on the situation. Read on to find out more!

Being honest about financial limitations, NTA for not feeding kids.

BF’s anger may be a displacement emotion, OP is not responsible.

Commenter points out boyfriend’s responsibility to feed his kids.

Partner’s low income, not her fault. NTA for not feeding kids.

NTA, BF needs to grow up and ask for help

Boyfriend’s empty threats won’t feed his kids

Financial issues, custody disagreements and car troubles.

Commenter gets validation after asking if she’s NTA.

Lack of communication causing issues with BF’s kids’ visits

Budgeting advice sparks gratitude and relatability

NTA. The boyfriend needs to step up and be a real dad

Encouraging words and empathy for struggling couple during tough times ❤️

Redditors weigh in on toxic boyfriend behavior

OP asks if she’s A-hole for not feeding BF’s kids

BF taking advantage of OP’s kindness and stability

Don’t be taken advantage of . Stand your ground

Financial fairness in blended families – a voluntary contribution solution.

Let him sell his car. Mixing finances can get messy

Partner’s fragile ego causes conflict over food budget.

Balancing practical considerations and communication in blended families

BF should take responsibility for feeding his own kids! ‍♀️

When dating a parent, do you become an instant parent too?

NTA, BF needs to take responsibility. Suggest food assistance options.

Money talks : A comment suggests being upfront about finances.

Wishing for the best for all

Community offers practical solution to feeding BF’s kids

Financial struggles causing tension in household; compromise needed for visitation.

Struggling to feed BF’s kids, but NTA. Suggested excel solution

Financially supporting BF’s kids? NTA, but not feasible either

Feeding extra mouths and sharing household responsibilities causing tension.

Blended family struggles, NTA seeks advice on paid surveys.

Partner blaming you for financial situation? NTA, red flag

Boyfriend struggles to support his kids, but both are understanding.

Suggestion to visit a food bank for extra help

BF should prioritize feeding his kids over his own pride.

Being broke doesn’t make you a bad person.

BF needs to step up and contribute to feeding his kids

Struggling to feed BF’s kids – NAH, but need to budget better

Commenter asks a valid question about the boyfriend’s employment

Commenter judges man for not providing for his own children.

Money talk leads to stress and conflict – NTA wins.

Struggling to feed BF’s kids, ESH suggests food bank

Money for car or money for kids? Tough decision.

BF not meeting his responsibilities, NTA for not feeding kids

Struggling to feed BF’s kids, NTA for setting boundaries. Practical tips.

BF not pulling his weight with kids. Unhappy reaction from OP.

Partner refuses responsibility, woman not the a**hole for reality check

Partner’s financial issues affecting your family? NTA, set boundaries ❌

Supportive comment suggests BF should take responsibility

Partner needs to step up financially, NTA for not supporting.

Don’t feel guilty for not providing for your BF’s kids

Blood donation vs pizza debate in comments

Supportive comment shows empathy for struggling family situation ❤️

Commenter questions financial situation, OP explains hardships.