Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of family drama, courtesy of one exasperated brother-in-law. Meet Abby, the “childfree” sister-in-law who’s been giving our protagonist and his wife a hard time for years. From calling kids “crotchfruit” to bragging about her supposedly carefree lifestyle, Abby’s been a real thorn in their side. But when our hero finally claps back with a witty one-liner, things take a turn for the worse. Is he the a-hole for poking back at his sister-in-law’s antics? Let’s dive in and find out! ♂️
The Childfree Sister-in-Law Saga Begins!

Abby’s Outrageous Insults: “Crotchfruit” and More!

A New Baby Arrives, but Abby’s Attitude Remains!

Abby’s Imaginary Travels and Missed Opportunities

Late-Night Concerts? Not for Parents, According to Abby!

The Curious Case of Abby’s Unfulfilled Plans ️♀️

The Mystery of the Missing Concerts and Shows

Is Abby in Love with the Idea of Freedom? ♂️

The Last Straw: Abby’s Snarky Comment ️

The Comeback: Netflix and Chill-free Lifestyle?

Abby’s Fury: The Aftermath of the Comeback

Update: An Apology and a Revelation

The Untold Story: Abby’s Struggle with Family Pressure

Gratitude and Closure: Thanks, Reddit!

The Verdict: Who’s the A-hole in this Family Feud? ⚖️
Well, well, well! It seems our protagonist finally reached his breaking point with Abby’s constant jabs and decided to fire back with a zinger of his own. While some might say he stooped to her level, others argue that Abby had it coming after years of belittling their parental choices. ♀️ But wait, there’s a twist! After seeing the mixed reactions from the internet, our hero reached out to apologize, and Abby admitted she’d been pretty rude herself. Turns out, there’s more to this story than meets the eye, with Abby facing pressure from her mom to have kids. Talk about a tangled web of family drama! ️ So, what does the internet have to say about this wild ride? Let’s check out the top responses and see where the chips fall!
Not wanting kids is fine, but don’t be obnoxious about it.

Standing up to a child-hater sister-in-law. NTA strikes back!

Supporting childfree is great, but being an a** about it? NTA’s comment.

Child-free person defends parent’s choice, calls out derogatory language.

Confront her directly like an adult instead of stooping down to her level.

Don’t be a jackass, respect others’ life choices

Envious sister-in-law gets shut down with a great comeback!

Childfree sister’s obsession with your child. Is she pressured?
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Be assertive, communicate and set healthy relationship boundaries!
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Childfree person enjoys Netflix while friends envy their freedom

Childfree commenter defends against judgmental CFers, supports NTA husband.

ESH but you both have different struggles. Communication is key

Justified AH move! Mild comeback, Abby needs to grow up

Child-free commenter defends parent and calls out rudeness

Childfree person defends respecting people’s lifestyle choices.

Not a fan of children but will be civil. NTA.

Being child-free is valid, but don’t shove it in faces

Consider if your behavior comes off as ‘those parents’

Being childfree doesn’t justify disrespecting children, NTA.

Communication is key. Don’t stoop to her level.

Calling out childfree humor, NTA for defending kids against insults.

Using “crotchfruit” is rude and cringey. NTA.

Both ESH for sniping at each other. Relax and compromise.

“Child-free” is not the same as hating kids

NAH – Commenter suggests not taking it to heart, both parties innocent.

Redditor apologizes for being rude, acknowledges ESH judgments. NTA.

Childfree perspective on defending personal life choices in society. ♀️

Parent defends sister-in-law’s controversial comments on kids.

Understanding and empathy can go a long way!

Unity against boundary-challenged in-laws sparks joy

Childfree person defends sister-in-law’s choice, says live and let live.

NAH verdict after mature conversation and understanding each other’s perspectives.

NTA, but talk to her! ️ Productive heart-to-heart might help.

Support for calling out rude sister-in-law’s childfree comments.

Ignore the idiot sister-in-law, don’t let her provoke you
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Sibling rivalry at its finest – passive-aggressive jabs and ESH

Childfree commenter defends husband’s joke, shows empathy for sister-in-law.

NTA commenter suggests mature talk with SIL to resolve conflict

Controversial comment sparks debate about having kids in current climate
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Redditor expresses frustration with societal pressure to have kids.

A reflection on the unproductive nature of smug self-righteousness.

Navigating family relationships: when to distance yourself?

Support for choosing not to have children, criticism of insulting behavior.

Fair play! Husband defends wife against sister’s shocking comments.
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Childfree commenter defends parents against rude Abby

Sibling teasing over having kids vs Netflix binging

Child-free woman defends OP and speculates on Abby’s motives.

Child-free couple shows love to friends with kids. NTA clapback!

Respectful child-free commenter advocates for live-and-let-live parenting.
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Clapback to child-hating sister-in-law with NTA comment

Not the a**hole! Husband defends himself against rude sister-in-law.

NTA apologizes, resolves conflict with sister-in-law. Good job

NTA admits wrongdoing, apologizes, and improves relationship with SIL.

Struggling parent defends against family member’s criticism.
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Being the bigger person pays off!

Childfree commenter defends OP, fires back at rude sister-in-law.
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Standing up to a bully sister, set those boundaries!
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