Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, career, and broken promises that’ll have you on the edge of your seat! Meet our power couple who tied the knot fresh out of college, both with big dreams and even bigger ambitions. But life had other plans! Two unexpected pregnancies later, hubby found himself trading his briefcase for a diaper bag as a stay-at-home dad. Meanwhile, wifey’s career took off like a rocket! Now, with a dream job offer on the table, she’s ready to move mountains… but hubby’s not having it. Get ready for a wild ride of emotions, tough choices, and a whole lot of drama!
College Sweethearts Tie the Knot!

Surprise Baby on Board!

Tough Choices: Career vs. Family

The Promise of a Brighter Future

Another Little Bundle of Joy!

Blessed with Two Amazing Kids

Pandemic Struggles: Hubby’s Hardships

Skyrocketing Career: Wifey’s Wins!

Dream Job Alert! But Wait…

Hubby’s Not Happy: Dreams Deferred

⏳ Just One More Year, Honey…

Selfish or Supportive? The Ultimatum

A Brighter Future for the Fam! …Right?

Broken Promises, Shattered Dreams

The Harsh Reality of Being a SAHD

♀️ But We Have a Good Life, Right?

Dream Job or Dashed Hopes? The Ultimate Couple’s Conundrum!
Well, well, well… looks like our power couple has found themselves in quite the pickle! Wifey’s on cloud nine with her skyrocketing career , but hubby’s feeling left in the dust as a stay-at-home dad. Now, with a life-changing job offer that requires moving states, the tension is thicker than a bowl of oatmeal! Hubby’s throwing around words like “selfish” and “broken promises,” while wifey’s trying to convince him it’s all for the greater good of the family. But let’s be real, getting back in the game after years of changing diapers is gonna be tough for hubby. So, is wifey the a-hole for wanting to chase her dreams, or is hubby justified in his resentment? It’s a classic case of career vs. family, and we’re dying to know what the internet has to say about this one! Grab your popcorn, folks, because the drama is about to unfold!
User calls out OP for not being supportive of husband

User calls out OP for not considering husband’s career prospects

Husband pushed to make professional sacrifices for wife’s career

Husband gave up his career for 8 years, now wife wants more. YTA

SAHM sympathizes with husband, suggests childcare for high-paying job. YTA.

SAHM insults husband’s role, gets called out for being selfish

Wife called out for disregarding partner’s feelings and being selfish.
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User calls out OP’s selfishness for not sharing childcare chores.
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Partner feels neglected in career agreement; wife is ignoring needs.

Marriage is a team-work, not a one-person show

Yikes! This comment predicts a messy divorce and custody battle

Splitting chores and income is fair. Don’t break your promise!

Find alternate childcare arrangements, YTA and selfish

Husband accuses wife of breaking promise, YTA according to comment

User calls out OP for prioritizing money over family.
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User calls out OP for not valuing partner’s role.

Husband put career on hold for 8 years, now YTA?

Husband accused of prioritizing career over wife’s promise. YTA.

The importance of empathy in a relationship

Unilateral change in parenting plan: YTA! Divorce on cards?

Wife’s disregard for husband’s career causing resentment. YTA

Happiness at whose expense? YTA comment section.

User calls out wife for breaking promise, prioritizing her career
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Confusion over husband’s career after wife’s promotion and move �onfused

Consider your partner’s feelings before making life-changing decisions

User calls out OP’s disloyalty and treatment of husband. YTA.

Don’t be a YTA, hire help for the kids!

Breaking promises to stay home with kids: YTA with consequences

Entitlement alert! Commenter calls out OP for not caring about husband’s feelings. YTA.

User questions lack of consideration for alternatives in this situation.

User calls out inequity in spouse’s career and relationship dynamics.

Expecting husband to wait a year after moving? YTA

User questions wife’s fairness in controlling finances and free time.

Internet calls out TA wife for neglecting husband’s breaking point

Neglecting your husband’s feelings? YTA. Compromise and support each other!

Spouse’s new job offers more opportunities to them? YTA.

Listen to your husband. YTA

Marriage imbalance causing resentment, counseling needed to save relationship.

Suggests nanny for kids, but is it really that simple?

YTA with outdated attitude, lacking empathy and listening skills ♀️

Wife’s career takes priority over husband’s wishes. YTA.
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Suggests daycare, but why not let husband work too?

Harsh judgment on dad’s parenting choices sparks debate.

Divorce pro-tip overshadows YTA comment.

Harsh criticism for a selfish spouse.

Ignoring your husband’s feelings may lead to a broken marriage

Husband sacrifices career for 8 years, wife wants to break promise. YTA.

Achieving work-life balance as parents: daycare or stay-at-home?

Stay-at-home mom calls out working wife for putting career first. YTA

Spouse accuses wife of selfishness, calls her the a-hole

Ignoring stay-at-home dad’s feelings makes you YTA.

Opportunity for career growth, but don’t forget about your partner.

User calls out wife for breaking promise, warns of consequences.

Career success causing marital strain. Communication is key. YTA.
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Wife’s selfishness puts husband’s ambitions on hold. YTA

User calls out OP for being dismissive and possibly abusive
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YTA for breaking promise; asking husband to put life on hold

Engaging both partners in the workforce is key!

Selfish wife takes husband for granted in career pursuit. YTA ♀️

OP’s husband feels neglected and left behind in her career. YTA

Challenging the status quo of gender roles in childcare.

User calls out wife for not compromising in their marriage.

User calls out OP for selfishness in husband’s sacrifice.

Supportive reply suggests options for husband’s career and childcare

User calls out OP for breaking promise to SAHD husband. YTA

Wife’s career taking off, but YTA for breaking promise

Husband’s sacrifice and desires neglected by career-driven wife.

Husband feels neglected after wife breaks promise, YTA

User warns against sidelining spouse and offers advice for compromise.

SAHM calls OP out for being selfish, advises hiring nanny.

Redditor calls out OP for breaking promise – YTA

Partner unhappy, YTA ignoring it. Daycare an option?

Balancing career and family: Importance of spouse’s happiness

Husband feels neglected after wife reneges on promise. YTA.

Redditor calls out wife for not letting husband pursue career

Husband feels unappreciated, wife needs to be more considerate.
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User calls out OP for being dismissive and selfish

Husband unhappy as wife breaks promise, forcing him to remain unhappy
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Husband unhappy as SAHD, wife’s career vs family dilemma. ♀️ ♂️
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Husband sacrificed 8 yrs, YTA breaking promise. Selfish career move.
