Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Our leading lady, a 41-year-old divorcée, finds herself in quite the pickle when her cheating ex-husband’s new life takes a tragic turn. With a planned trip on the horizon and an unexpected funeral invite, she’s left wondering what the right move is. Should she put her life on hold for the man who broke her heart? Or should she carry on with her plans and let him deal with the consequences of his actions? ♀️ Let’s dive in and see how this messy situation unfolds!
Ex-Husband’s Tragic Loss

More Heartbreak Strikes

Feeling Bad, But Keeping Distance

️ News Through the Grapevine

Planned Trip to Escape Empty Nest

⚰️ Unexpected Funeral Invite

♀️ Ex’s New Woman Wouldn’t Want Me There

I’d Turn Violent in Her Shoes

♀️ Stopped Caring When He Cheated

Avoiding Potential Drama

♀️ Respecting His Girlfriend’s Grief

Ex Upset Over Kids’ Absence

♀️ Encouraging Kids to Attend, But…

️ Proceeding with Planned Trip ✈️

Ex’s Angry Accusations

Ex’s Double Tragedy Leads to Funeral Drama!
Well, well, well… looks like our leading lady’s ex-husband is facing some serious heartbreak. With the loss of his stepson and a stillborn child, he’s reaching out to his ex-wife for support. But our girl isn’t having it! ♀️ She’s got a trip planned and no intention of getting sucked into the drama. Even their grown kids are steering clear of the funeral. Now, the ex is blowing up her phone, accusing her of being heartless and turning the kids against him. Talk about a mess! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy situation…
No relationship, no obligation. NTA

NTA. Ex-husband can’t take his grief out on you or your children.
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Age difference in relationship raises eyebrows – NTA judgement

Ex’s inappropriate invite after affair & divorce – NTA

Don’t let him guilt-trip you, you’re NTA

Ex cheated, expects sympathy for new family. NTA. Keep blocking.

Autonomous kids, grieving ex, and crossing the line

Block him! Why the f**k is he looking you up on FB during this time???!!

No obligation to support ex’s problems. NTA

No obligation to attend ex’s stepchild’s funeral – NTA

No obligation to attend funeral of ex’s stepchild. NTA.

No obligation to attend ex’s family tragedy. NTA
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Betrayal has consequences. NTA for setting boundaries

Attending funeral of ex’s stepchild: NTA, it’s your prerogative.

Ex upset over ex-wife’s absence at funeral – NTA response

Ex’s inappropriate invitation and demands, NTA for declining.

Setting boundaries with ex-partners after a breakup.

Not the a-hole for not attending the funeral.

No obligation to attend. Don’t let him drain you emotionally.

Self-care matters. NTA for prioritizing your mental health

Ex’s children are adults. NTA for skipping funeral.

Ex cheated, no support needed. NTA.

No obligation to attend, NTA – ex made his choice

Ex regrets affair, takes it out on OP. NTA
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Respectful NTA chooses kids over ex’s stepchild funeral drama

Ex’s request to send his children to funeral is inappropriate. NTA

Encourage open communication with your kids & prioritize your mental health. NTA

Skipping funeral for ex’s stepchild and stillborn. NTA, be true to yourself.

Supportive comment with sound reasoning and empathy.

Family ties broken: NTA and estrangement from father.

You’re not the a**hole, he’s regretting his mistakes. ♀️

Advice on keeping ex away from personal life

Ex’s affair partner expects sympathy from the person she wronged.

NTA for skipping funeral of ex’s stepchild and stillborn.
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NTA for skipping funeral of ex’s stepchild & stillborn
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Ex’s husband lashes out, but NTA for skipping funeral.

NTA. Sympathy can’t be expected after laying waste to life ✨

Redditors agree that this post is a no-brainer – NTA

Ex-wife stands up for herself, says NTA

No relationship, no obligation. NTA. Narcissists never change.

Ex’s inappropriate invite to funeral, NTA for declining. ♀️

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself – NTA

Not responsible for grown children’s relationships. NTA

Avoiding ex’s drama after his loss – NTA

Ex’s stepchild & stillborn, NTA for not attending funeral.
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NTA for skipping funeral, he needs to leave you alone

Divorce is a blissful escape from a narcissistic cheating ex

Cheaters never prosper

Agreeing with NTA comment about cheating and consequences.

Ex cheated, left for younger woman & blames OP. NTA

Supportive comment with no replies. You’re not the a**hole.

Cutting ties with exes is important – YTA for expecting attendance.
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Putting yourself and your kids first is never an a**hole move

Ex’s entitlement is laughable. NTA for not cancelling trip.

Assertive reply shuts down judgement, zero replies needed.

Ex’s delusions don’t deserve your attention. Live your best life

Move on, change number, and enjoy life. He made his bed.
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Ex-husband drama? NTA, your family, your life

Cutting ties with ex’s infidelity – NTA

Ex-husband is an a**hole for guilting her and asking for emotional support during his affair partner’s loss. NTA

Ex is the a**hole for harassing her after cheating. NTA

Choosing not to attend ex’s stepchild’s funeral – NTA.

Ex’s insensitive invitation to funeral – NTA for declining

Supporting an ex’s stepchild is optional – NTA

Ex’s stepchild’s funeral and stillborn, NTA for not attending.

No sympathy for cheaters.

Cheating husband expects emotional support, commenter supports NTA.

Skipping the funeral was the right thing to do. NTA

Ex-spouse skips funeral, but is not at fault – NTA

No sympathy for cheating ex’s stepchild funeral? ♀️

Ex’s behavior after affair was wrong, NTA for not attending funeral
