Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of exes, new girlfriends, and a sweater that caused quite the stir! Our protagonist, a happily married woman, found herself in a sticky situation when she tried to do a nice thing for her ex-boyfriend’s new lady love. But as we all know, no good deed goes unpunished! Get ready for a wild ride filled with accusations, name-calling, and some serious drama! Let’s dive in and see if our well-meaning heroine is really the a****e in this messy love triangle!
Spicy Love Triangle Alert!
Flirty Exes Texting, What Could Go Wrong?
Happily Married… But Still Chatting With The Ex?
️ Just Another Day At The Office… Promoting Products!
⏰ Act Fast! Limited Edition Sweater Alert!
Feeling Generous… Sending A Gift To The New GF!
New GF Goes Nuclear! Name-Calling & Accusations Fly!
Apologies All Around… But Still Blocked!
♀️ Hubby Says It’s Cool, Friends Say I Crossed The Line! ⚖️
Thanks For The Feedback, Y’all! I See The Error Of My Ways…
Shoulda Offered A Discount Instead Of A Freebie! ♀️
New GF Slid Into My DMs First! I Swear!
It’s Not Like I Sent A Gucci Sweater, Folks!
I’m Friends With ALL My Exes! No Bad Blood Here!
Ex-GF’s Gift Sparks Jealous Rage! Is She The A****e?
Well, well, well! Looks like our protagonist’s attempt at being a sweetheart backfired in a big way! Her ex’s new GF went absolutely ballistic when she received the thoughtful gift, accusing our girl of trying to one-up her and win back her man! Yikes! Talk about a major misunderstanding! Our heroine swears she was just trying to spread some holiday cheer, but her friends think she crossed a major line. Her hubby’s got her back, but the internet is divided! ♀️ Let’s see what the masses have to say about this wild tale of love, jealousy, and a really nice sweater!
Sending a gift through a mutual friend, NTA
Offering a discount is nice, but ex’s gift still awkward
User acknowledges being in the minority for soft YTA verdict
User thinks OP is the a**hole for sending an expensive gift to her ex, sparking outrage.
Ex’s gift to girlfriend bought by wife sparks outrage and conflict ♂️
Communication is key! But is she the a****e?
Exes as friends? Nice gesture with gift, but overstepping boundaries. ESH
Sending your ex’s GF an expensive gift? YTA, very sus behavior
Sending gifts to ex’s can be a slippery slope. Soft YTA
Giving an expensive gift to an ex? YTA and manipulative
Sending an ex’s partner a gift they can’t afford? YTA
Giving an expensive gift to ex, soft YTA according to commenter
Ex sending expensive gift to ex’s partner is not okay
Did the wife have an ulterior motive?
NTA sends gift to friend’s ex-BF, sparks outrage!
Be careful with gift-giving, it could hurt someone’s self-esteem
Suggesting a discount could have given her some say. NAH.
Sending a gift to your ex’s GF? YTA ❌
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Manipulative behavior called out with a YTA verdict.
Buying gift for partner’s ex without consent is insulting. YTA
Giving a gift to your ex’s partner? YTA for sure
YTA for buying your ex’s new gf a gift
Ex’s wife goes too far in buying gift for his GF
Ex-wife sends expensive gift to ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend, YTA according to commenter.
Sending expensive gifts can backfire. YTA according to commenter.
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Giving free gifts to your ex’s partner is weird, YTA.
Sending a gift without consent can be hurtful and humiliating. YTA
Ex sends gift to wife’s husband, causing confusion and anger ♀️
Sending an expensive gift without context can be inappropriate. NAH
Crossing the line with gifts: a cautionary tale.
Ex’s gift to current GF sparks outrage, commenter calls OP stupid
Giving gifts to ex’s current partner? Soft YTA according to comment
Offering a gift to ex’s GF without permission: YTA
Well-intentioned move causes controversy
Sending a gift to your ex’s current GF? YTA according to commenters
Offering the gift first is better than sending it directly.
User receives criticism for poorly planned good deed.
Ex’s girlfriend may feel insulted, ESH. Jenni overreacted.
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Did OP have ulterior motives in gifting the sweater?
Redditors express divided opinions on whether OP is an a****e.
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Sending a gift through a third party? YTA and awkward
Unintentional YTA sparks discussion on gift-giving etiquette.
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User calls out OP for inappropriate and intimidating behavior.
Good intention, wrong approach. Soft YTA
Ex’s charity gift? YTA for thinking it’s a good idea.
Engaging in friendly conversation, while subtly calling out odd behavior
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Buying gift without input? Understandable how GF felt slighted
Giving expensive gifts through the new SO is not cool
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Sending a gift to your ex’s GF may not be the best idea
Offering a discount first could have avoided this a**hole move
Is OP still hung up on their ex? YTA comment thinks so.
Advice on boundaries with ex, avoid causing jealousy and drama.
Red flags raised in the comments, YTA called out
Exes and gifts can be a tricky situation
Sending an expensive gift through your ex? YTA according to commenters!
Keeping in touch with an ex: common or uncommon?
Ex sends gift to BF’s GF, accidentally crosses boundaries
Ex’s girlfriend upset over gift from his ex, ESH.
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Ex’s gift sparks suspicion and outrage, she’s not over him?
Ex’s hoodie gift causes outrage: YTA or NAH?
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Be careful with gift-giving politics, YTA. It may backfire.
Receiving a gift from ex can be upsetting, but YTA soft one
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Are you unknowingly sabotaging their relationship?
Good intentions, bad execution. ESH. Boundaries were crossed
Sending an expensive gift to ex’s GF? Bit cheeky, soft YTA.
Ex’s gift to new GF causes insecurity and discomfort
Being an a**hole with good intentions? YTA according to comment.
Assumptions and pity gifts can harm relationships. YTA. ♀️
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User calls out OP for giving a gift to a child and indirectly insulting the child’s parent’s financial status. Suggests apologizing.
Overstepping boundaries and not considering others’ perspectives
YTA for crossing the line, but not with bad intentions. Fake apology.
Redditors slam OP for insensitive gift to ex’s girlfriend
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Sending a gift to an ex’s gf without consulting her? YTA
Sending gifts to ex’s girlfriend? Socially oblivious and not respectful. ♀️
Being considerate of partner’s feelings is always a good move ❤
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Sending a gift to ex’s current partner: Soft YTA ♀️
Ex’s gift to GF seems manipulative, YTA according to comment.
Buying a gift for your ex’s GF? Soft YTA
User calls out OP’s condescending behavior, sparks agreement
Ex’s gift to partner’s GF causes unintended offense ♀️
Last Updated on April 4, 2024 by Diply Social Team
