A couple with a baby attends a family event, but they couldn’t agree on when to leave. The wife usually does the bedtime routine, but the husband wanted to stay for another four hours. The baby was getting upset, and the wife had to make a decision. Should she stay or should she go? Find out what happened and share your thoughts.
No more family events with husband after baby bedtime ignored

Early bedtime for baby causing family drama

Struggling to adjust to routine: Husband’s disregard for baby’s bedtime

Husband neglects baby’s bedtime, wife bans him from family events.

Husband’s stubbornness leads to bedtime chaos and family tension

Husband’s disregard for baby’s bedtime leads to wife’s ultimatum

Husband ignores baby’s bedtime, wife leaves party, and AH ensues.

Am I the a**hole for ditching my husband after bedtime?

Baby’s bedtime or family functions?
A wife shares her frustration with her husband’s disregard for their baby’s bedtime routine during family functions. Despite warning him about the baby’s schedule, the husband refused to leave the party, leaving the wife with no choice but to drive herself and the baby home. The husband later accuses her of ditching him and leaving him to find a ride home. The wife has now decided to stop attending family functions with her husband. Do you think the wife was right in prioritizing her baby’s bedtime routine over the family function? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
NTA commenter supports husband taking responsibility for bedtime routine.
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Parenting disagreements causing conflict in marriage.

This husband needs to step up his parenting game ♂️

Husband disregards baby’s bedtime and forces wife to find a ride. NTA.

Husband’s lack of empathy towards baby’s schedule causes marital issues
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Agreement on husband’s poor behavior with a touch of humor

NTA for prioritizing your child’s needs. Husband needs to step up as a father.

Commenter expresses concern for the well-being of the child.
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Commenter supports wife’s decision to exclude negligent husband from events.

Training course needed: being dad and being husband

Commenter questions if husband’s military training is relevant to behavior.

Commenter warns about potential red flags in husband’s behavior

Commenter and replies call out husband’s problematic behavior, NTA.

Mom claps back at husband’s disregard for baby’s bedtime

Parenting is teamwork and compromise, not a one-person job

Commenter calls out bad husband with no empathy for child

NTA. Commenter suggests leaving husband due to parenting and marriage issues.

Commenter suggests divorce and child support for disregardful husband

Husband being hypocritical and not acknowledging wife’s sacrifices.

Husband disregards baby’s bedtime, faced with NTA and criticism

Wife is NTA for nursing, husband is TA for disregarding baby’s bedtime.

Husband disregards baby’s bedtime, wife refuses family functions. NTA.

Commenter sympathizes with frustrated wife dealing with clueless husband.

Husband disregards baby’s bedtime; wife not obligated to accommodate. NTA ♀️

A warning from a military spouse, please take it seriously!

Husband disregards baby’s bedtime, calls wife an a**hole for not finding ride home. NTA.

Commenter supports new mom, calls out husband’s immaturity

Commenter calls out husband for bad behavior, declares NTA.

Commenter suggests petty solution to husband’s disregard of family routine

Redditors agree: NTA for prioritizing baby’s bedtime

Understanding babies can save relationships

Supportive comment: Encouraging father involvement and prioritizing childcare

Taking two cars to family functions from now on!

Consult a legal person for exit strategy. Not worth it.

Supportive NTA comment with a hint of humor

Commenter suggests drastic solution after husband’s behavior –

Husband neglects child’s bedtime, wife reconsiders relationship.

Commenter calls out husband’s behavior, doubts his ability to change

Respect baby’s bedtime, take separate cars to party with friends

Commenter supports wife’s decision and insults husband.

Commenter calls out husband for disregarding baby’s schedule.

Commenter draws chilling parallels with true crime case, NTA verdict.

Stand your ground! Breastfeeding is natural and baby’s routine is important

Husband needs a reality check, baby is in charge. NTA

Parenting responsibilities vs. childish behavior

Supportive comment calling out neglectful husband, NTA judgement.

Husband disregards baby’s bedtime, wife takes stand, NTA wins.

Military man shirks parental responsibilities, commenters call him out.

Divorce alert! Commenter suggests drastic action for inconsiderate husband.

Support for parent prioritizing baby’s bedtime

Commenter calls out father for putting own wants before child’s needs

Commenter supports OP leaving husband due to his bad attitude.

Commenter calls out military entitlement in parenting.

Commenter calls out useless husband, NTA for disregarding baby’s bedtime

User supports OP, advises to leave hypocritical husband.

Father disregards baby’s bedtime, tells wife to find own ride. NTA.

Commenter suggests leaving husband for disregarding child’s bedtime

Husband’s unreasonable expectations cause tension over nursing baby

Commenter sympathizes with OP, calling out spouse’s behavior

Commenter suggests divorce after husband ignores baby’s bedtime

Commenter calls out husband’s behavior as unacceptable.

Stand up for yourself and your baby. Take separate cars
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Putting baby first: Wife refuses to take disrespectful husband to functions.

Commenter doubts if man deserves title of ‘husband’

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize their own wellbeing ❤️

Respecting your partner and child’s needs is non-negotiable

Commenter sympathizes with OP, suggests divorce with a hint of shock
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