Picture this: you and your husband are invited to his boss’s house, and you finally meet the boss’s wife, Jen. She’s beautiful, funny, and you two get along great. But then, you notice your husband acting a little too interested in her, and you can’t help but feel a pang of jealousy. What would you do in this situation? Would you confront your husband, or let it slide? One woman found herself in this exact predicament and decided to take matters into her own hands. Let’s dive into her story…
Not Pretending to Be Nice

Pregnant Pals

New Job, New Friends

Meet Jen, the Boss’s Wife

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall

Opposites Attract? ♀️

Different Shapes and Styles ⏳

Punk Rock vs. Girly Girl

The Change in Hubby

Perking Up and Cracking Jokes

Jaw-Dropping Beauty

Even I Love Her, But…

A Warning Shot

Embarrassed and Red-Faced

A Low Blow?

Clarifying the Situation

Stop Drooling Over the Boss’s Wife!
Our protagonist noticed her husband acting a little too interested in his boss’s beautiful wife, Jen, during a social gathering. Despite being polar opposites, our protagonist and Jen got along great, but she couldn’t help but feel annoyed by her husband’s behavior. He was cracking jokes, doing his anxious eyebrow wiggle, and just couldn’t seem to take his eyes off of her. So, she decided to confront him, telling him to stop drooling over his buddy’s wife before he loses both his wife and his job. The confrontation left him red-faced and embarrassed, but later at home, he expressed disbelief that she would think so low of him. Now, let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Spouse confronts partner’s infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife. NTA.

NTA. Wife confronts husband’s infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife.

Trust your gut and confront infatuation before it’s too late

Partner’s infatuation confronted, NTA calls out unacceptable behavior

Husband’s crush on boss’s pregnant wife seems obvious. NTA.

NTA and a mature approach to handling attraction in marriage

A comment about a cringe-worthy moment at work.

Confronting smitten husband was risky but necessary, NTA

NTA calls out husband’s infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife

OP called out husband’s infatuation with boss’s wife. NTA wins!

Husband’s infatuation is childish and low-class, NTA.

Confidence and self-respect are always cool NTA

Confronting infatuation, shutting it down, and calling out disrespect. NTA
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NTA stands up to husband’s infatuation with boss’s wife

Dealing with your partner’s attraction to others during pregnancy ♀️

Husband’s infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife – NTA confronts the issue

Communication is key, and your edit revealed your true attitude

Is cozying up with the boss ever a good idea?

NTA stands up against boss’s infidelity, blames boss for fallout

Suggests discussing insecurities with spouse, advises therapy.

Wife calls out husband’s infatuation, gets YTA judgement. Ouch

Flirting with the boss’s wife? ♂️ Not cool, dude.

Spotting infidelity: signs, signals and red flags �yes

A blunt judgement with no room for debate

Support for confronting husband’s infatuation with boss’s wife.
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Don’t let him gaslight you, stand up for yourself

Husband’s infatuation with boss’s wife causes marital tension. ♀️

Woman called out for public confrontation with husband’s infatuation

User calls out OP for being rude to their spouse

Projection much? YTA for quick temper and infatuation.
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Chill out, he’s not cheating. YTA for being insecure

Wife confronts husband’s infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife. NTA.

Wife confronts husband’s infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife. NTA suggests dialing back.

A sympathetic comment about hormonal changes affecting relationships.

Wife suspects husband’s infidelity with boss’s pregnant wife.

Wife prevents husband’s infatuation from escalating, NTA.

NTA catches gaslighting husband infatuated with boss’s wife

Confronting husband’s infatuation with boss’s wife: when and how?

Don’t fawn over others in a relationship

User thinks the wife is TA for potentially costing husband’s job

An empathetic commenter suggests a different approach to confrontation

Insecurity and paranoia lead to childish behavior ♂️

A comparison to challenge double standards. YTA.
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Spouse confronts husband for infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife

Communication issues and workplace friendships cause drama

Wife confronts husband, gets support from commenter

Warning against mixing business with pleasure and setting boundaries

Supportive or not? Exploring a husband’s behavior.

Reversed gender roles, but the same verdict. YTA

Is the husband trying to impress his boss through humor?

User calls OP ‘YTA’ for being controlling and jealous.

YTA accused of lacking personality and being a POS

Body shaming is never okay, but advice on trust is valid

A self-reflective response to a similar situation.

Trust your instincts and prioritize your self-worth.

Confronting husband’s behavior was the right move, consider therapy.

Standing up to infidelity. Good on you!

Oblivious flirting and divorce threats? Sounds like a healthy relationship.

Don’t let insecurity ruin your relationship
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Wife calls out husband’s infatuation with boss’s pregnant wife

Wife’s epic response shuts down husband’s infatuation. NTA confirmed

Confronting husband’s infatuation in public: YTA with toxic behavior

Defending husband’s actions, accusing wife of jealousy and insecurity

User calls out OP for being unreasonable and controlling

Accusations without evidence, wild N.T.As, YTA for unbased assumptions.

User calls out OP for bias and overreacting

Spouse called unbearable for confronting husband’s infatuation with boss’s wife

Calling out infatuation with boss’s wife: NTA comment wins

NTA, commenter defends against projecting and reminds of platonic friendships
