Picture this: you’re getting married to the love of your life, and everything is perfect… until your mother’s severe OCD and germophobia start to take over the wedding planning. Our bride-to-be is dealing with a mother who insists on cleanliness rituals like washing hands and feet three times and flicking light switches 10 times. While the groom is understanding, the mother’s demands are getting out of hand. Will our bride stand her ground or let her mother’s OCD ruin her special day?
Wedding Bells and OCD

Cleanliness Rituals

Light Switch Mania

Motherly Love

Wedding Planning Begins

Venue Drama

Mother’s Disapproval

Silence and Wedding Dresses

Dress Shopping Debacle ️

Guest Hygiene Overload

Standing Firm on Venue Choice ️

The Final Straw

OCD Mom vs. Dream Wedding: Who Will Win?
Our bride-to-be and her fiancé, Wesley, have chosen a beautiful seaside castle venue for their wedding, but her mother’s severe OCD and germophobia are causing some serious drama. From disapproving of the outdoor venue to refusing to let her daughter try on wedding dresses, her mother’s demands are spiraling out of control. When she suggests having all 70+ guests wash their hands and feet three times at the wedding, our bride finally puts her foot down. But when she tells her mother it might be best if she doesn’t attend, her mother lashes out on social media, claiming she’s no daughter of hers. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
Bride’s mom’s extreme OCD demands at wedding, NTA not enabling.

Bride stands up to germophobe mom’s outrageous demands. NTA

Bride’s reasonable request for sick mom’s absence gets support

Standing up to a germaphobe mom’s outrageous wedding demands

Bride refuses to cater to mother’s germophobia at wedding

Setting boundaries with a germophobe parent: NTA but stay strong

Bride’s mom demands guests to dip their feet in bleach, NTA refuses

Setting boundaries with difficult parents is tough ♀️

Bride stands up to germophobe mom’s outrageous demands, NTA wins

Mother’s extreme OCD is causing wedding drama. NTA.

Stand up to your mother’s outrageous demands

Mother’s outrageous demands lead to public disownment. NTA wins.

NTA. Mother needs psychiatric help for her condition.

Supportive comment urges bride not to let mom hijack wedding ❤

Germophobe mom’s outrageous demands impact everyone else’s life. NTAH.

Bride’s tough decision to exclude mentally unwell mother from wedding

Wedding guests shouldn’t feel like they’re at a hospital ♀️

Germophobe mom vs bride: NTA prevails in wedding drama

NTA calls out germaphobe mom’s refusal to seek treatment

Therapy or medication, doing nothing isn’t the answer. NTA

Supportive comment suggests therapy for germophobe mom at wedding

Plan ahead for germophobe mom’s meltdown at the wedding

Bride’s mom holding wedding hostage with mental illness

Enabling a germophobe mom leads to outrageous demands

Advice on dealing with germophobe mom’s outrageous demands

Stream the wedding for germophobe mom to watch from home

Supportive comment, encourages seeking treatment for OCD. NTA
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Bride’s germophobe mom’s outrageous demands called out as *severe* OCD

Suggesting OP set boundaries with mentally ill, germaphobe mom.

Engaging comment calling out the mother’s denial of OCD treatment.

Stand up to toxic family members on your big day ♀️

Bride compassionately handles mom’s OCD, offers special bonding time ❤️

Setting boundaries with toxic family members

Bride sets boundaries with germaphobe mom ahead of wedding

Suffering from germophobia? Microban may ease your anxiety

Bride suggests live streaming wedding to germophobe mom

A NTA commenter shares their personal experience with OCD.

Struggling with OCD, commenter advises bride to not enable mother’s behavior.
NTA.

Guests asked to wash feet at wedding? That’s some outrageous demand

Bride’s mom with severe OCD won’t get treatment, NTA for standing up to her demands

Bride refuses mom’s outrageous demands for wedding, NTA wins

Supportive comment encourages therapy for bride’s germophobe mom. #NTA

Virtual attendance suggestion for germaphobe mom at wedding

OCD doesn’t justify controlling behavior at a wedding

Standing up to a germophobe mom for a drama-free wedding

Encouraging OP to seek help for her germophobe mom

Setting boundaries with a germophobe mom, NTA needs therapy

Setting boundaries with a germophobe parent. NTA

Bride’s mom needs therapy for OCD, germaphobia; soap is placebo

Insightful comment on OCPD vs OCD and offering advice.

Bride’s mom’s OCD demands go too far, and commenters agree.

Supportive comment calls for mental health help for controlling mom.

NTA commenter empathizes with germophobe mom’s harmful behavior.

Bride’s mom is a germaphobe, commenter suggests therapy

Bride’s mom demands for cleanliness may ruin wedding day

NTA but mom needs therapy instead of going to wedding

Outrageous demands? Clean room suits to the rescue!

Don’t indulge her compulsions, seek help for OCD

Bride rightfully stands up to mom’s outrageous demands

Compassionate reply suggests mom needs medical help for OCD.

Standing up to controlling parent with mental health issues

Bride stands up to mom’s outrageous demands on wedding day

Tough love needed for germophobe mom’s outrageous demands ✌

Encouraging comment suggests psychiatric help for the mom’s condition

Mom’s outrageous demands: a cry for help

Standing up to an unreasonable mother with a condition. NTA

Compassionate advice for bride dealing with germophobe mom’s demands ❤

Stand your ground bride! Your day, your rules ♀️

Stand up to mom’s outrageous demands , have a stress-free wedding ♀️

Difficult decision for germaphobe mom to attend daughter’s wedding

Supportive comment suggests therapy for OCD, sets healthy boundaries. ❤

NTA: Accommodating someone with OCD is nice but not mandatory

Empathy and tough love for a germaphobe mother. #NTA

Livestream the wedding for germophobe mom? Creative solution

Mom’s outrageous demands? NTA bride stands up for herself

Heartfelt concern for bride dealing with difficult mother

Setting boundaries with mentally ill parent for wedding day

Bride’s decision to stand up to mom’s outrageous demands praised
