Weddings are supposed to be a joyous occasion, but sometimes family drama can turn them into a nightmare! Our story today involves a tale of two siblings, a demanding mother, and the age-old question of who pays for the big day. Buckle up, because this rollercoaster ride of emotions is about to get bumpy!
A Tale of Two Siblings: The Wedding Dilemma!

Serious Relationship, Serious Talk! ️

Unprompted Wedding Expectations!

♀️ Mom’s Demands: No Eloping Allowed!

No Contributions, No Expectations! ♀️

The Harsh Reality of Wedding Costs!

Twin Brother Gets Engaged!

️♀️ Trying to Get the Scoop on Bro’s Wedding Plans!

Mom’s Double Standards Exposed!

The Real Issue: Mom’s Insistence vs. Financial Backing!

Salt in the Wound: Bro’s Wedding Paid, Mine Not!

Double Standards & Wedding Woes: Is Mom Playing Favorites?
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got a classic case of parental favoritism on our hands! Our poor protagonist is caught in a web of her mother’s double standards and unrealistic expectations. ️ Mom insists on a “nice wedding” for her daughter, but refuses to contribute a dime! Meanwhile, twin bro gets the royal treatment with half his wedding expenses covered. Talk about a slap in the face! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this family drama…
Mother’s favoritism towards son exposed, hope inheritance isn’t biased.

Insufficient context, but sounds like a family drama

Rollercoaster! NTA. Double standards aren’t cool. Have an honest talk.

Sibling rivalry or just plain favoritism? Share your story.

Engaging comment suggesting small wedding and dinner to celebrate.

Heartless sibling refuses to help sister after lavish wedding expenses.

Sister gets nothing? ☹️ Bride suggests petty revenge

One wedding rule for kids?

Mother refuses to pay for daughter’s wedding but pays for son’s.

Parental favoritism and grudges? Not cool.

Is the daughter’s second wedding the reason for favoritism?

Sibling rivalry at play or justifiable parental decision?

Age discrimination or wedding preference?

Family favoritism? Commenter asks for more context on situation.

Don’t let sexism and favoritism ruin your big day

Don’t let others dictate your wedding. You’re NTA.

Daughter sets boundaries with parents after unequal treatment.

Miscommunication with mom about payment, no support for daughter’s wedding

Sibling rivalry: ESH. Mother for entitlement, you for unrealistic expectations.

Setting boundaries with family is tough, but necessary for self-care.

Stand up for yourself and don’t invite them to yours! ♀️

Family dynamics and wedding expenses can be complicated

Context requested to understand mother’s mindset on second marriage.

Sibling rivalry taken to the extreme

Mother’s favoritism towards son’s wedding causing bride and groom stress.

Good advice for an NTA situation. Don’t mention stingy parents.

Control-freak mom punishes daughter for eloping; NTA, elope again

Mom’s punishing you for eloping, good thing you’re eloping again

Daughter not the a**hole, mom knows she’s wrong

Unfair treatment by parents towards daughter’s wedding plans

Don’t let a hypocritical mother ruin your happiness and finances.

Mother’s pride overpowers love for her daughter

Small weddings on a budget can still be beautiful and memorable!

Your wedding, your money. Parents have the final say.

Don’t let your mom’s actions ruin your special day

Wedding double standard? Bride’s parents pay for son’s wedding only

Don’t play your mom’s game. Stay indifferent to her pettiness.

Did the sister project her guilt on the commenter?

Daughter upset over unequal treatment, but commenters side with parents.

Mother refuses to pay for daughter’s wedding but pays for son’s.

Don’t let your mother ruin your wedding, keep it simple

Wedding favoritism? Not cool, Mom. NTA for sure

Mother punishes daughter for eloping, refuses to pay for wedding.

NTA. Sister gets cut off from family events and grandkids.

Sibling rivalry fueled by wedding financing favoritism

Mom’s mixed messages are rude. Have a talk with her

Sibling favoritism? NTA, sorry for your unfair treatment

Sibling jealousy over parental favoritism, eloping is the solution

Unfair gender bias in wedding funding. Threatened elopement as retaliation.

Don’t let her actions ruin your special day.

Opinion: Children on 2nd/3rd wedding are on their own

Brother’s first wedding funded by parents, OP is TA for expecting otherwise.

Unequal financial treatment breeds resentment between siblings. NTA.

Don’t be upset over mother’s involvement and payment for sibling’s wedding.

Don’t expect anything and be happy for your twin

Mother shows blatant favoritism, sister deserves empathy and understanding

Mom wants daughter to pay for wedding. NTA comment.

Wedding expenses should be covered by the couple, not parents.

Stand up for yourself, demand equal contribution or exclude them

Sibling tension spurs parental favoritism. YTA for not understanding.

Sibling gets wedding funds, sister eloped earlier. YTA verdict.

Sibling rivalry or just plain unfair?

Stand up for yourself, threaten to skip the wedding

Double standards and name-calling? Definitely NTA in this situation.

Sibling favoritism and unfair treatment by parents.

Unfair treatment by parents towards daughter, go no contact

Daughter gets no wedding funding, brother gets second wedding.

Parents pay for son’s wedding but not daughter’s, NTA seeks advice.

NTA. Express your hurt and disappointment to your mom

Mother’s toxic parenting affects daughter’s wedding plans

Mother upset over missing first wedding, daughter not wronged

NTA. A simple wedding can still be beautiful and meaningful ❤️.

Parents won’t pay for daughter’s wedding after son’s, NTA.

Daughter refuses to let mom dictate wedding plans.

Mom’s random call to punish daughter for past is absurd
