A 16-year-old girl is causing drama in her friend group after shaming a new student for receiving little notes in her lunch from her nanny. The girl, who is described as quiet and having a difficult home life, was invited to eat with the group and was met with criticism when her lunch notes were discovered. The original poster questioned the embarrassment of receiving such notes at their age, causing the girl to retreat and eat alone again. Was the poster in the wrong or was their comment justified? Read on to find out.
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Teenage drama over nanny’s sweet lunch notes
A new girl, Nicole(16), joined the school after winter break and she has been eating alone in her car, until a kind gesture from a classmate invited her to eat with them. Although, it was noticed that Nicole’s lunches had a small note from her nanny which she read and cherished. When asked about it, Nicole revealed that her nanny writes her a note every day. However, when one of her classmates asked if it was embarrassing, Nicole got defensive. This led to her eating alone in her car again and the situation sparked some unexpected drama. One of the friends got angry at the person who asked the question, as Nicole’s home life before moving here was apparently tough. In this post, we explore the issue and try to find out if the person who asked the question was in the wrong.
Bullying a girl over lunch notes?! YTA. Show some empathy

Don’t ruin a child’s source of joy and comfort. YTA.

Don’t be judgmental, live and let live. YTA in this case.

Don’t be a bully, be kind

Don’t belittle others for finding joy in small things. YTA.

OP accused of stealing joy from shy girl’s nanny notes

Don’t be a negative Nancy, appreciate the lunch notes! YTA

Commenter gets called out for bratty behavior

Don’t rain on someone’s parade, it’s the little things that count

Kindness is free, be generous with it.
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Bullying isn’t cute. Watch Mean Girls for reference. YTA

Commenter calls out OP for being TA over lunch notes

Don’t shame someone for finding comfort in an encouraging note ❤️

Apologize and make new friends with the lunch-note girl ❤️
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Commenter already knows they’re TA ♂️
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Don’t be a bully, spread kindness

Spread love, not hate! Writing notes is a sweet gesture ❤️
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Don’t be a jerk, YTA

Don’t shame her for enjoying a note. Apologize and move on

Don’t be a jerk, let her enjoy her nanny’s notes

Grandma’s love wins, YTA called out for lunch note shaming

OP is a massive YTA for ruining a sweet gesture

Commenter called out for rude behavior, deemed YTA

Commenter receives harsh judgment for their behavior.

Commenter called out for being judgmental, YTA

Bullying a new student? YTA. Do better

Commenter condemns shaming and calls out YTA. ♀️

Spread kindness, not hate! YTA commenter called out.

Commenter receives overwhelming YTA verdict for mocking lunch notes.

Don’t be an a**hole, appreciate the nanny’s efforts

Don’t be a party pooper, let the girl enjoy her notes

Spread love not hate! YTA, apologize for shaming her nan.

Don’t yuck someone’s yum! YTA needs self-examination!

Bullying is never okay Apologize and make it right.

Don’t be a bully. Let’s spread empathy and kindness. ❤️

Commenter calls OP a TA and a loser bully

Don’t be a YTA! Appreciate the cute little notes ❤️

Don’t be an a**hole, appreciate the love and care ❤️

Commenter called out for being YTA, urged to apologize and empathize.

Commenter accuses OP of being jealous and lacking affection.

A reminder to be kind and keep hateful opinions to self

Spread kindness and keep your thoughts to yourself

Spread kindness, not bitterness. YTA, learn from the shy girl.

Redditors call out OP for childish behavior. YTA

Don’t judge a book by its cover, be kind

This commenter calls out the original poster as the a**hole

Bullying a child for love notes? YTA, definitely not cool

Don’t be a lunch note hater! Spread kindness instead ❤

Commenter calls out bullying behavior in a powerful message ❤️

Let people enjoy things without judgement

Don’t judge a book by its cover: Lesson learned

Spread positivity, not negativity! YTA

Commenter receives brutal judgement for their behavior.

Don’t be an a**hole, it’s not cool

Don’t be a bully, even if it seems harmless

Partner lunch notes are sweet, YTA sounds petty and jealous

Commenter calls out YTA for bullying behavior

Don’t be an a**hole, appreciate the nanny’s sweet gesture ❤️

Choose kindness and inclusion over trampling on others’ joy ✨

Don’t be an a**hole, appreciate the nanny’s sweet notes

Bully gets called out for shaming girl’s nanny’s notes

Bullying hurts, spread love instead ❤️

Nanny’s sweet note gets backlash, YTA comment adds insult.
