Weddings can be a joyous occasion, but they can also put friendships to the test! When my bestie Jess got engaged, I was thrilled for her… until she asked me to be her photographer. I offered to snap some pics for free, but apparently, my amateur skills weren’t up to snuff. Fast forward to a week before the big day, and Jess is in full-on panic mode. She wants me to capture every moment, but I’ve got other plans. ⏰ Will our friendship survive this wedding day drama? Let’s dive in and find out!
A Bestie’s Big Day… But at What Cost?

Budgeting for Bliss on a Shoestring

An Offer She Could Refuse?

Thanks But No Thanks, Bestie

A Desperate Bride’s Plea

♀️ No Photographer, No Problem… Right?

️ A Partial Commitment

⏰ Prior Engagements vs. Wedding Duties

An Ultimatum: All or Nothing!

AITA for Drawing the Line?

Lights, Camera, Friendship Friction!
Well, well, well… it seems like this wedding photographer fiasco has struck a chord with the internet! Some are siding with the budget-conscious bride, while others are firmly in the bestie’s corner. Many are questioning why Jess didn’t secure a photographer sooner, especially if she’s in the catering biz. Others are calling out her ‘all or nothing’ ultimatum as a major red flag. And let’s not forget the commenters who are wondering if this friendship is even worth saving after such a dramatic showdown! Buckle up, folks, because the internet has some thoughts, and they’re not holding back!
Friendship over? Bridezilla shows true colors, NTA stands up

Friend demands photographer work full day for free, rescinds invite. NTA

Bridezilla demands pictures or no entry, friend is better off without.

Entitled bridezilla demands free photos, gets called out. NTA

Bridezilla demands free photos, OP declines. NTA wins.

Bridezilla gets what she deserves with snotty attitude

Photographer stands up to entitled bridezilla’s unrealistic demands

Bridezilla demands photos, but doesn’t schedule time. NTA wins!

Photographer offered free services, bride made impossible demands. NTA.

Wedding photography favors backfire, NTA according to commenter.

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let bridezilla push you around. NTA

Friendzilla alert! NTA, she’s being ridiculous

Weddings bring out the worst. Bridezilla tries to use guest. NTA
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“Memories fade, pictures last” – OP NTA for denying bride’s demands

Bridezilla demands free labor, gets called out by commenter

Photographer faced unreasonable demands from entitled bridezilla. NTA.

Friend’s entitled behavior and bad form. NTA.

Friendship over budget: Bridezilla demands too much. NTA wins.

Friendship should not be conditional. NTA for declining.

Bridezilla demotes friend from favor to unpaid job. NTA.

Bridezilla demands photos all day, but ‘NTA’ commenter says simple weddings are just as meaningful

Offered to officiate, but will help with planning instead

Bridezilla demands all-day photos, passes on pro photographer. NTA wins.

Skipping the wedding was the right move
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Setting clear boundaries, NTA is the way to go!

Kind photographer offers free wedding photography and takes over 500 photos

Friend rescinds invite over photo request, NTA prevails

Friend offered to do free photography, bride declined rudely, then expected full day of shooting last minute and kicked friend out of the wedding. NTA, cut her off.

15 years with her? That’s a special kind of love

Bridezilla demands, photographer refuses, internet supports. NTA wins.

Choosing beggar bridezilla gets what she deserves
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Former friend’s entitled behavior backfires, iPhone pics for her wedding.

Offered help, got uninvited: You dodged a bullet. NTA

NTA. OP handled the situation with grace and self-respect.

Bridezilla demands free photography, calls photographer NTA for refusing

Bridezilla gets a reality check from a no-nonsense guest

NTA and a good riddance to toxic clients like Jess

True friendship should not be based on wedding photos

Bridezilla demands free photos, then uninvites backup photographer. NTA strikes back.

NTA and lost a friend over a bridezilla? Nah, good riddance

Last minute bridezilla demands photographer or no attendance. NTA.

NTA’s shocked reaction to bride’s outrageous demand

NTA saves bride thousands but gets rudely declined. No sympathy.

Ungrateful bridezilla demands free photos, gets called out by friend.

Bridezilla demands photos but blames photographer. Commenter defends photographer.
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Bridezilla demands endless photos, friend says NTA for refusing

Friend demands wedding photographer, gets reasonable compromise. NTA wins.

Offered a solution but got ultimatum from entitled bridezilla. NTA.

A photographer shares their experience with entitled bridezilla

Bridezilla demands perfect photos, refuses what she’s offered. NTA prevails.

Valuing your time is important. Don’t work for free! ♂️

Photographer stands up to demanding bridezilla, internet applauds.

NTA! Good on you for standing up to a bridezilla

NTA stands up to entitled bridezilla, internet applauds
