Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Best friends, a questionable girlfriend, and a baby on the way – what could possibly go wrong? Our protagonist finds himself in a sticky situation when his BFF asks him to be the godfather to his unborn child. But there’s a catch… he wants a DNA test first! Is he being a total a-hole or just looking out for his bro? Let’s dive in and find out! ️♂️
A Weird Situation Between Best Friends

Brothers From Another Mother

Doubts About Derek’s Girlfriend Nicole

Love is Blind

A Baby on the Way

A Dangerous Job

The DNA Test Ultimatum

The Breakup That Raised Suspicions

Why Not Make Sure?

Nicole’s Shady Sister Situation

Lies, Lies, and More Lies

♂️ The Boyfriend’s Departure

️ Calling Out Nicole’s Behavior

Deep Talks and Tough Questions

Pushing for the DNA Test

♂️ Not Raising Someone Else’s Kid

Family Drama and Divided Opinions

Update: Derek Agrees to a Blood Test

Paternity Panic: Should a DNA Test Be Required for Godfather Duties?
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a real soap opera here! Our main man is caught between his best bud and a girlfriend he just can’t trust. ♀️ With a baby on the way and a request to be the godfather, he’s laying down the law: no DNA test, no deal! But is he being too harsh? The internet is divided! Some say he’s looking out for his friend, while others think he’s overstepping. ️ One thing’s for sure, this situation is messier than a diaper blowout! Let’s see what the masses have to say about this paternity predicament…
Godfather requirements stated, no AHs, NAH in this section

DNA test disagreement resolved amicably with NAH judgment.

NTA insists on DNA test for godfather request due to girlfriend’s history �na

Respect your friend’s autonomy and let him handle his relationship

Is Nicole’s pregnancy timeline suspicious or am I crazy?

Decline the offer if you don’t like the girlfriend. YTA

User calls out OP for pushing agenda on friend. YTA.
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Man in similar situation agrees and girlfriend is rare exception

Being a legal guardian is a huge responsibility, NTA for asking
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Distrust is a personal problem, not a reason to interfere.

User criticizes DNA test ultimatum, advises against interference.

User doubts authenticity of post and calls out OP’s edits

Politely decline offer as friend wants guardianship, not biology test.

Friend’s insistence on DNA test causes rift in relationship. YTA.

Defending friend’s girlfriend, criticizes paternity test request with profanity.

NTA insists on paternity test, but may be overstepping boundaries.

Suggests DNA registry bank for child support payments. Wise advice.

User questions paternity, defends friend’s right to requirements. NTA.

Friend calls out lack of creativity and inappropriate behavior.

Setting boundaries as a godparent. Good move!

Respect boundaries, don’t overstep. Accept role or decline

A skeptical commenter questions the godfather’s motives.
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User calls out friend for needing DNA test to be godfather. YTA.

NTA gets betrayed by promiscuous girlfriend despite everyone’s warning.

User calls out commenter for demanding paternity test, predicts ruined friendship.

Mind your own business, YTA. Respect your friend’s decision.

Oops! Lack of biology knowledge leads to hilarious misunderstanding

Don’t judge your friend’s love for the child. YTA.

Guardianship denied over sister’s incident, paternity test deemed unnecessary.

Setting boundaries as a godparent

Accusing girlfriend of cheating, YTA. Don’t push for DNA test.

Choosing someone you despise as godparent? ESH. Find someone else.

Friend accused of being TA for DNA test demand.
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User defends girlfriend’s sister and questions friend’s involvement.

Don’t let hate cloud your judgement. YTA for baseless accusations.

Curious commenter questions timeline of suspicious event during pregnancy.

Friend requests DNA test to avoid being trapped by girlfriend’s lies
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Responsibility matters. DNA test is a wise decision. NTA.

User calls out hypocrisy and timeline inconsistency of suspicious friend.

Insisting on a DNA test for a godfather role? NAH.

Godfather demands DNA test to secure future, friend disagrees. NAH.

Polite response shuts down nosy godfather request. NAH.

Calling out a dodgy move in an uncomfortable situation

Legal guardianship and avoiding the girlfriend’s dark secret

Legal complications make it hard to become a legal guardian.

User calls out the insensitivity of DNA test request.

Perspective on importance of biological relationship in raising a child

Plot twist: Pregnancy timeline exposes girlfriend’s infidelity!

Friendship at risk over DNA test demand for godfather role ♂️

NTA stands up for friend’s right to DNA test

Being cautious is important when agreeing to legal guardianship.

Blood bond doesn’t matter to friend, shouldn’t matter to you.

Don’t be a nosy and rude friend, just decline.

User calls out suspicious friend and questions girlfriend’s trustworthiness.

Friend accused of starting drama for insisting on DNA test.

Debate over DNA test shows varying opinions on paternity issues.

Friend demands DNA test to be godfather, called out for AH behavior.

Controversial comment about DNA test sparks no replies. ♂️

Respect your friend’s privacy and drop the DNA test request. NTA.

Curiosity about breakup leads to a cautionary tale.

Set your rules, but being legal guardian may lead to problems

Support for DNA testing and frustration with friend’s reluctance.

Friend’s love isn’t enough, DNA test or no godfather. NAH
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Stand your ground, but don’t push it. NTA.

NTA insists on DNA test to uncover girlfriend’s secret
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Curious commenter hopes for update on DNA test results

NTA suggests getting a paternity test to avoid potential future issues.

User believes OP is in the wrong and should decline.

Insisting on DNA test for godfather role due to red flags

Don’t force someone to do something they don’t want. YTA

Supporting DNA tests can be harmful without proper context.

NTA requests DNA test due to girlfriend’s dishonesty and potential legal/financial risk, but could have been more tactful in wording.

Support for DNA tests as standard practice. NTA approved.

The plot thickens! ️♀️ Is there more to the story?

Demanding DNA test for godfather role? YTA, check your entitlement.

Looking out for a friend’s best interest

Suggests DNA test due to girlfriend’s secret exposed, non-judgmental comment
