Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy roommate drama on our hands! Meet our protagonist, stuck in a sticky situation with their pregnant roomie, Holly. Things were already tense with the chore imbalance, but when Holly dropped the baby bombshell, it kicked the drama into high gear! Our protagonist found themselves covering rent, food, and more, all while Holly seemed to think they’d be her personal helper even after the baby arrived. Talk about a major freakout moment! So, what did our crafty main character do? They hatched a plan to escape the impending baby drama! ♀️ But did they handle it the right way? Let’s dive in and find out!
Roommate Woes: The Chore Struggle

♀️ Excuses, Excuses… ♀️

“It’s Your Fault I’m Lazy!”

Covering Rent for the Pregnant Roomie

Jobless and Expecting… More Help?

“You’re Such a Good Friend!”

Freakout Mode: Activated!

♀️ Time to Make a Run for It!

New Digs, Who Dis?

️ Bare Bones Apartment

Security Deposit Secured!

Rent Paid, Rest is on You! ♀️

Pregnant, Jobless, and Alone During a Pandemic

“I’m Struggling, Please Help!”

️ “Let’s Talk This Out!”

Conflicting Opinions from Friends ️

⏰ “You Should’ve Given a Heads Up!” ⚠️

♀️ “Not Your Fault!”

Avoiding the Guilt Trip

Pregnant Roomie Abandoned: A Dramatic Escape! ♀️
So, our protagonist made a daring escape from their pregnant roommate’s clutches, moving out without a word! They left poor Holly high and dry, 8-9 months pregnant, jobless, and alone during a pandemic. Talk about a tough situation! Holly was devastated, leaving voicemails pleading for help and a chance to talk things out. But our main character stood their ground, refusing to be guilt-tripped into staying. ♀️ Friends had mixed opinions on the matter, some saying they should’ve talked it out, others thinking they did the right thing. ️ Now, the question remains: did our protagonist handle this sticky situation the right way, or did they take the easy way out? ♀️ Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild roommate tale!
NTA and stood up for herself despite emotional manipulation. ♀️

Both parties made mistakes, but revenge isn’t the answer.

Roommate’s wrong but OP could have been firmer in boundaries

Both are TA: OP for bailing without communicating, and roommate for mooching.
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Both parties acted poorly in this situation.

Ghosting your pregnant roommate makes you the a**hole

Expectations unmet, communication lacking – ESH in roommate fallout

Communication is key. YTA for not having an adult conversation.

No communication led to a bad situation. Everyone’s at fault. ♀️

Leaving without notice? YTA. Roommate deserves better communication

ESH. Roommate using you, but you left her in a bad spot.

ESH, but the roommate’s behavior was cold-hearted. A heads-up would’ve been kinder!

User receives harsh judgement for being a ‘coward’ roommate

Former roommate acted like a nightmare. NTA for moving out.

User applauds OP for standing up to toxic roommate. NTA.

Leaving a pregnant roommate with no job is not okay

OP is the a**hole for not telling roommate she’s moving out

Pregnancy complicates but roommate was unfair. NTA.

Moving out while pregnant & jobless during pandemic is cruel

NTA. Roommate was mooching off you. You’re not responsible for her.

Roommate was a mooch and expecting you to help her. NTA!

Set boundaries to avoid repeating cycle with manipulative people. ESH.

Good advice for pregnant roommate, but is she really unaware?

Don’t let guilt-trips hold you back! NTA

Leaving a pregnant roommate in a vulnerable situation? YTA

OP left without warning, leaving pregnant roommate homeless. YTA.

Lazy roommate causes pregnant woman’s homelessness, commenters blame both parties.

ESH, lack of responsibility and communication led to difficult situation

Leaving pregnant roommate with no notice during pandemic is shitty
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Mutual dependence gone wrong. ESH for relying too much.

ESH, but learn to have uncomfortable conversations instead of running away ♀️

Friend used you, but you’re NTA. She needs to grow up.

Moved out without warning: justified or basic manners? YTA

ESH, commenter advises to grow a spine and set consequences

Blindsided roommate situation with tough communication, fault on both sides. ♀️

Avoiding confrontation made things worse for ESH Holly. ♀️

Dealing with a slippery roommate who takes advantage of you. ESH

Advice for a torn individual who left her roommate without notice

Roommate’s heartless move left pregnant woman homeless. ESH for communication.

ESH, but commenter calls out OP for inaction and delayed communication

Leaving a jobless, broke, pregnant person in a pandemic: ESH

ESH. Pregnant woman was rude but roommate should have given notice.

NTA commenter suggests finding a job & not depending on roommate.

Move out notice could have prevented conflict. ESH

Failed communication and boundaries led to mutual blame and dependency. ESH

OP was TA for not telling roommate about moving out

Conflicted commenter sympathizes with OP’s tough situation but calls out roommate’s entitlement.

ESH for lack of boundaries, but leaving without warning was wrong.

Op is a ‘f***ing adult’ who did a pregnant woman dirty. ESH.

Don’t let anyone take advantage of you! You’re NTA

Leaving without notice was justified, but still not ideal.

Roommate took advantage, poster should have communicated better.

Tough love or heartless move? Both roommates at fault ♀️

Both parties at fault for lack of communication and dependence. ♀️

Being honest could have helped avoid the rising flood. ESH.

Communication is key! YTA, but could have been avoided

Leaving a pregnant woman alone during a pandemic? ESH

Roommate drama! Commenter calls out both parties for bad behavior.

Enabling roommate leads to pregnancy and being stranded. ESH.

ESH. Roommate was wrong to take advantage, but moving out without notice was selfish
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Both parties share blame in housing dilemma. Homelessness a concern.

Roommate and OP share blame for poor communication and planning

Setting boundaries is important, but paying someone’s rent isn’t.

Don’t let detractors get to you, you’re NTA

Moving out was justified but could have been handled better.

Leaving a pregnant woman stranded is heartless and dangerous. ESH.

ESH for taking advantage of each other’s kindness.

The comment calls out OP for being the a**hole

ESH. Use your words and set boundaries to avoid resentment.
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ESH, but empathy is key especially for a pregnant roommate

Moving out without notice: ESH. Boundaries and communication matter.

Being upfront is key in roommate situations. ESH.

Doing what’s legal doesn’t always make you not an a**hole.

Communication is key! Both parties could have handled better

Both parties could have handled it better. Tough situation.

A cowardly move by the roommate leaves a pregnant woman stranded

ESH for not communicating future living plans and taking advantage.
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Advice given to stand up for oneself and give notice.

ESH verdict, but proper heads up could have avoided mess. ♀️

Both parties at fault. Communication could have prevented disaster.

Both parties made mistakes and could have been more considerate
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ESH, but set actual boundaries instead of ghosting

Roommate gets NTA judgement for eviction, despite warnings ♀️

Roommate sucks, but could have given a heads up. ESH.
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Not the a**hole for not owing her anything. Don’t move back in.

Polite advice to avoid being a**hole when leaving roommate.
