Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story here. Meet our stay-at-home mom who’s at her wit’s end with her husband’s entitled behavior. She gave up her high-paying job to be with their baby, but now she’s feeling more like a live-in maid than a cherished partner. The chores, the demands, the lack of appreciation – it’s all adding up to one big mess! Will our heroine stand her ground and demand fair treatment, or will she continue to suffer in silence? Let’s dive in and find out!
Heartbroken SAHM: Barely Seeing My Baby!

Tough Decision: One Parent Stays Home

Earning Thrice As Much, But Lifestyle Takes a Hit

From 50/50 Chores to 100% Me, 0% Him!

Beyond Exhausted: Asking for Help Occasionally

️ Benevolent God for Washing One Dish?

Cooking on Demand: What He Wants, When He Wants!

Paying Household Expenses from My Savings!

“This is What a SAHM Should Do” – Husband’s Perspective

Husband Throws a Fit, Wife Calls Up Old Job!

Earning & Coming Home to Baby > Being Husband’s Butler!

SAHM Ultimatum: 50% of Hubby’s Salary or Back to Work!
Well, well, well… looks like our stay-at-home mom has had enough of her husband’s entitled behavior! She’s giving him an ultimatum: either cough up 50% of his salary for household expenses and contribute at least 25% at home, or she’s dusting off her resume and heading back to work! Can’t say we blame her – being treated like a live-in maid is no way to live. ♀️ But wait, there’s more! Turns out her old job is practically begging her to come back. Talk about a power move! Meanwhile, hubby dearest is sulking in the corner, insisting she should be home with the baby. Hmm, maybe he should’ve thought of that before treating her like a servant? The internet has some thoughts on this juicy drama – let’s see what they have to say!
Go back to work, sad divorce, pay alimony. NTA.

Why not be a SAHF if she earns more? Totally NTA.

Lack of financial planning in marriage, conversation needed earlier.

Lazy husband expects stay-at-home mom to pay household costs from savings? NTA

Empathetic comment supporting stay-at-home mom’s ultimatum. ❤️

Putting family first NTA, but 100% should go to family expenses.

Supportive comment suggests husband should try being a SAHM too

SAHM deserves equal pay and appreciation. Lazy husband needs reality check.

Supportive comment encourages communication and possible separation if necessary.

NTA: SAHM is not a slave. Husband needs to step up.

Lazy husband prioritizes live-in mommy over his baby. NTA comment.

Money talk needed. ESH. Letting highest earner stay home impractical.

NTA. Partner should fund lifestyle and bills, not just chores. ❤️

Communication is key! Seek couples counselling and discuss priorities. ESH

Independent women, secure your future. Don’t let anyone leech off you

A dysfunctional relationship where everyone’s the a**hole

Clarifying the role of a SAHM and financial responsibilities. NTA.

Having financial independence is crucial, NTA made the right call.
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User sympathizes with stay-at-home mom, questions value of lazy husband.

Supportive comment advising the stay-at-home mom to stand up for herself.
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Empowering response to stay-at-home mom’s fair ultimatum

SAHM deserves equal share of household work, not just childcare.

SAHM deserves financial support, not to become a maid

Joint finances work best for both stay-at-home and working parents

Homemaking is a full-time job, hope husband appreciates wife more

Supportive dad acknowledges the value of a SAHM’s role ❤️

NTA. Housework is a full-time job and deserves fair compensation.

Empowering response to a lazy husband with a twist

Financial independence is key, NTA commenter encourages stay-at-home mom.

SAHM wants fair division of labor, lazy husband needs wake-up call.

SAHM offers ultimatum to lazy husband, gets NTA verdict.

Negotiate flexible hours to balance work and family

Stay-at-home mom asks for fair pay, but was it agreed upon?

Taking control or being a team?

Choosing financial independence over a lazy husband. NTA
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Stay-at-home mom’s ultimatum reveals financial abuse

SAHP should have joint money, go back to work, find new husband.

Don’t depend on him. Take steps to protect yourself. NTA
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Divorce lawyer needed as husband needs to step up for co-parenting.

INFO: Confusion over separate finances and premature ultimatums. Need agreement.
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Take control of your life, NTA. You deserve better

Sharing household chores is a fair deal for all

SAHM’s financial ultimatum raises concerns about family finances and abuse.

Suggests switching roles so husband can see being a doormat.

User slams couple’s decision-making, calls out equal financial contribution. ESH.

Curious commenter suspects deeper issues in marriage finances

Confusing situation with bad communication leads to everyone sucking here.

Agreeing with stay-at-home mom’s ultimatum to lazy husband

Lazy husband treated stay-at-home mom like dirt. NTA, go back to work.

SAHM not a doormat. Marriage is equal. NTA for leaving.

Keeping up with gender roles can be a trap. NTA

NTA, working mom advice and financial tips

Lazy husband gets called out for treating his spouse like trash NTA.

NTA, but finances should have been discussed before baby arrival

A logical question, why didn’t he stay home instead?

Financial planning and communication are key in a marriage

User suggests equal financial partnership for stay-at-home mom. ITA.

NTA. Couple’s finances should be shared. Husband needs a reality check

SAHM faces unfair expectations from husband, should consider divorce. NTA.

NTA for wanting husband to pay for being a SAHM

Suggesting a solution by asking a valid question.

Lazy husband wants a servant, not a spouse. NTA should go back to work and stop being taken advantage of.

Encouraging comment urges stay-at-home mom to consider leaving lazy husband.

Going back to work might save you from an inevitable divorce.

Supportive SAHM shares experience and advises counseling for couple’s issues.

Lazy husband wants stay-at-home wife to pay bills? NTA.

Defending the OP’s decision and calling out derogatory language.

Lazy husband expects free labor, remind him of childcare costs
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SAHM gives ultimatum to financially dependent husband, NTA according to comments.
