Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama on our hands! Meet our main man, a 31-year-old husband and father, who’s facing a tough decision. His troubled mom wants to move in with him and his wife, but their history is more complicated than a soap opera plot! Get ready for a wild ride filled with dinner disasters, wedding woes, and a whole lot of family tension!
Family Drama Alert!

Troubled Past Revealed

Dinner Disaster!

♂️ Hubby to the Rescue! ♂️

Wedding Woes

️ Dinner with a Side of Drama ️

Move-In Mayhem!

♂️ Firm Refusal ♂️

Putting His Foot Down

AITA for Refusing to Let Mom Move In?

Family Feud: Son Refuses to Let Troubled Mom Move In!
Our protagonist finds himself in a sticky situation when his brother suggests letting their troubled mother move in with him and his wife. Despite his mom’s rocky past and her history of making nasty comments about his wife, the brother’s wife practically begs them to reconsider. But our main man stands his ground, firmly refusing and wanting nothing to do with his mom. Now, the family is up in arms, calling him a horrible son! The internet is buzzing with opinions on this juicy drama. Let’s see what they have to say about this family feud!
Protect yourself from addict mom. Family wants you to help.

Family drama, brother’s unwillingness to help and kudos to OP
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Brother volunteers sister but won’t take mom himself

Putting family first doesn’t always mean sacrificing your own happiness.

Supportive comment, advocating for standing up to family pressure.

NTA suggests blocking and calling out hypocrites.

Protecting your child’s development comes first. ♀️

You don’t owe her anything. Protect your family ❤️

NTA. Moving mom in can strain marriage. Find suitable arrangement.

NTA. Brother and SIL passing burden, focus on family

Sibling conflict over drug-addict mom’s living situation, NTA wins

Brother should take in mom despite her being awful. NTA

Community suggests alternate options for housing drug addict mom.

Support for OP’s decision and confusion about wife insult misunderstanding.

User suggests low income or Medicaid supported housing for mother.

NTA, an awesome spouse & parent despite a difficult upbringing

NTA! It’s possible your sister-in-law was trying to avoid responsibility

Helping mom is important, but prioritize your family’s safety first ✅

Defending NTA choice, comment addresses possible concern from sister-in-law

Being kind to a drug addict mom can be thankless
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Ignoring family in need? NTA commenter stands by advice

Fair proposal for taking in drug addict mom in rotation

Cutting off family of addicts: courageous or cruel?

Setting boundaries with family.

Brother’s concern for mom, but won’t take her in? NTA

Setting boundaries with addicted family member is tough but necessary

Family refuses to take care of drug addict mom. NTA.

Choosing your child over your addict mother is NTA

Don’t sacrifice your mental health for an ungrateful addict.

Family dumps drug addict mom on son. NTA.

Don’t let others push their problems onto your family

Sassy response to harassment from judgmental family members. ♀️

Choosing not to help drug addict mom, brother now pressured. #NTA

Stand firm and don’t let family obligation guilt you.

Not obligated to take in abusive, sick drug addict mom. #NTA

Blocking toxic family members? NTA for protecting your child.

Don’t let guilt force you into enabling a drug addict
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Boundaries are healthy. NTA for choosing who to help.

Cutting off toxic family: NTA

Cutting ties with a toxic parent. ♂️

Setting boundaries and prioritizing one’s own family.
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Protect your family, say no to taking in mother.

Supportive comment applauds standing by spouse in difficult situation
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Not obligated to house and feed an insultive, terrible parent

Setting boundaries with toxic family members is important.

Choosing not to help drug addict mom – NTA verdict!
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NTA for choosing not to take in drug addict mom

Prioritize your child’s safety first. NTA! ♂️

Heartbreaking story of a past experience with enabling a toxic grandmother

NTA – Let’s guilt-trip one person to do something I will never do

User questions why family members feel entitled to decide for others.

Self-care and family first, not wrong to avoid toxic people.
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Family refuses to help drug addict mother – NTA
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Brother and SIL shouldn’t feel obligated to care for mother.
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Son sarcastically agrees to be a terrible son for mom’s sake ♂️

Family refuses to help drug addict mom, commenter called ‘horrible’

Brother’s hypocrisy exposed as he judges without helping.

Prioritizing mental health and family over addict mother.

Cutting ties with a drug addict mom- NTA
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Choosing to cut off toxic family for his wife’s sake

Living with disrespectful parents is hard. Suggests compromise for care.

Standing up for yourself and your boundaries, NTA

Protecting family from harmful people. NTA, mom made mess.

Putting yourself and your family first is not selfish!
