A concerned aunt debates whether to call child protective services on her sister due to her husband’s strict parenting of their daughter. The niece is miserable and has reached out for help, but her father refuses to ease up. The aunt is conflicted and seeks advice on whether it’s worth involving CPS to get the girl real treatment. Read on to find out more about this tough situation.
Rescuing my niece from ‘prison’ – to report or not?

Navigating ADHD treatment with family: A personal journey

Balancing pregnancy and ADHD with diet and exercise

Is Emma’s strict routine and diet too extreme?

Child’s creativity stifled by parent’s extreme discipline

Sister steals phone, banned from Christmas – CPS intervention necessary?

Sister in tears, divorce on the line, what would you do?

Navigating family conflict over parenting decisions without CPS intervention.

Concerned about sister’s parenting, unsure about contacting CPS.

Should CPS be called over sister’s parenting?
A concerned aunt is considering calling CPS after her 16-year-old niece called her begging to live with her. The aunt’s sister, who is the mother of the niece, has enforced strict rules on her daughter’s life, including a special diet, no contact with friends outside of school, and no phones or unsupervised computer time. The father of the niece is opposed to medication for her ADHD and has taken her mother’s attempts at an ADHD diet and exercise regime to an extreme level. While the niece’s grades have improved, she has been banned from celebrating Christmas with the family and all ‘distracting’ items have been removed from her room. The concerned aunt is worried this has gone too far and has considered calling CPS or the school. However, other family members believe it is not severe enough for legal intervention. The aunt is torn between her desire to help her niece and not wanting to cause a divorce between her sister and brother-in-law. What should she do? Read on to find out what advice others have given her.
NTA, but CPS might not act. Supporting niece’s future important

NTA for considering CPS, but unlikely to change custody.

Isolating a 16-year-old and monitoring their calls? CPS might be necessary.

Anonymous CPS reporting may lay groundwork for Emma’s safety.

Urgent intervention needed for isolated Emma, but CPS may not help

Commenter suggests daughter has control over situation, but replies support sister.

Understanding the misconceptions around ADHD medication and addiction

Broken home vs. f***ed up home: a tough parenting dilemma

Commenter suggests encouraging the sister to seek therapy and recognize signs of emotional abuse. Replies speculate on the possibility of the sister being abused as well.

Commenter is NTA but comment reply is cryptic

Isolating a 16-year-old from the world is abusive. NTA, explore options.

Custody battle and kids’ wishes may not align, tough situation

NTA. CPS may be a good option for niece’s well-being
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Expose emotional and mental abuse to CPS. #SpeakUp

Document the situation, CPS may handle it or not.

NTA. Call CPS and the school to help Emma ASAP.

Encourage BIL to allow sister to take meds, influence situation

Report to CPS with caution and continue advocating for Emma

Advocating for a child can be difficult, but there are better ways.

Controlling behavior towards daughter with ADHD- NTA suggests suicide risk.

NTA suggests reporting sister to CPS for emotional abuse. Encourage evidence.

Family feud over parenting – NTA suggests estrangement with family

Maintain contact with niece and open home when she’s 18.
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Strict parenting or borderline abuse? NTA calls it out

Supporting a niece in need, options to intervene with family.

CPS Intake offers advice on reporting bad parenting to CPS

Clean house doesn’t mean good parenting CPS standards are low

Medication for ADHD is necessary, CPS may not intervene much.

Helicopter parenting or abuse? Discussion on CPS involvement.

Reminder to sister: Daughter may cut ties when she’s 18

NTA. CPS may need to intervene but be prepared for outcomes.

Suggesting CPS visit for ADHD child’s wellbeing, NTA comment

Helping a child in need: Understanding CPS’s criteria for abuse

NTA suggests reporting sister to CPS for niece’s sake

Looking out for your sister’s well-being, but CPS may not help

Calling CPS might not be the best solution in this case

Sharing experience: CPS may not be able to help

Prioritizing grades over a child’s happiness? Not cool.

Struggling with a difficult partner? Here’s one solution

Offering to take in niece, but hesitant to report sister to CPS

Limited options for reporting troublesome parenting to CPS

Commenter calls out sister prioritizing marriage over child’s safety

A psychologist explains the most effective treatments for ADHD.

Compassion may be difficult, but CPS is not the solution ❌

Report the abusive father to CPS for the niece’s safety

Encouraging advice on documenting abusive parenting situation and setting boundaries.
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Offering a safe haven for a niece in need ❤️

Heartbreaking situation, commenter feels sorry for the girl
