Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy roommate drama that’ll make your jaw drop! Meet our protagonist, a 26-year-old gal with a heart of gold and a loyal pupper by her side. She’s been through some tough times, but nothing could prepare her for the emotional rollercoaster that is living with Janet and her man-child of a boyfriend, Brad. Grab your popcorn and get ready for a wild ride filled with boundary-stomping, gaslighting, and some serious red flags! Can our girl find peace in her own home, or will Brad’s antics push her over the edge? Let’s dive in and find out!
Roomie Drama Alert!

Meet Janet, the Bestie-Turned-Roommate

️ Brad the Food Thief & Property Destroyer

Hands Off My Pupper, Brad! ♀️

️♂️ The Case of the Mysterious Nighttime Visitor

Tears, Yelling, and Loopholes – Oh My!

️ Brad’s Verbal Assault and Gaslighting Tactics

Panic Attack Central ft. Insensitive Laughter

Red Flags Everywhere, But Janet’s in Denial

⏰ The 20-Minute Heads Up Request

Surprise! It’s Brad, Your Worst Nightmare

️ Brad’s Fake Apology and Boundary Stomping

❄️ Frozen in Fear: A Traumatic Experience

AITA for Wanting Some Peace and Respect?

Roommate Nightmare: PTSD, Panic Attacks, and a Boundary-Stomping Boyfriend!
Well, well, well… looks like our girl is in quite the pickle! Between Brad’s food thievery, property destruction, and unannounced visits, it’s no wonder she’s feeling on edge. And let’s not forget about Janet’s denial and gaslighting tactics – talk about a toxic duo! ♀️ Our protagonist tried to set some reasonable boundaries, like a simple 20-minute heads up before Brad’s arrival, but apparently, that’s too much to ask. Instead, she’s been “surprised” multiple times, leading to massive panic attacks and even a traumatic freezing episode. It’s clear that Brad has no respect for her feelings or personal space, and Janet’s enabling behavior isn’t helping matters. So, what does the internet think about this messy situation? Is our girl the a-hole for wanting some peace and respect in her own home? Let’s see what the masses have to say!
Roommate’s boyfriend is abusive. Get out for your safety. NTA.

NTA. Janet’s not a friend. Move out soon.

Roommate’s BF triggers PTSD, commenter suggests suspicious motive. NTA.

Stand up for yourself! Check your lease and kick him out!

PTSD sufferer terrorized by roommate’s abusive boyfriend

Escape the BF and the trauma – prioritize your safety!

Suggests moving out or asking roommate to leave for toxic situation

Concerned comment suggests moving out for safety and mentions lease.

Put your safety first, consider moving out or having her leave.
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Roommate prioritizes sex over safety. NTA for setting boundaries.

Roommate ignores PTSD, laughs at panic attack, NTA for safety concerns.

Set boundaries and find a new roommate for your well-being.

Collect evidence of damages and file a police report!

Roommate’s BF damaging belongings, laughing at panic attacks – NTA

Rocky Horror fan suggests breaking lease to escape terrible roommates. NTA!

NTA stands up to toxic roommate’s BF, recommends leaving ASAP.

Roommate’s girlfriend and her dog bullied commenter with PTSD

Prioritize your health and leave the toxic situation ASAP.

NTA. Horrid roommates have no respect for OP’s PTSD ♀️

Call for help! NTA, landlord, police, and trusted friends.

NTA. Stay with your boyfriend and reconsider living with Janet.

Roommate’s BF terrorizes with PTSD! NTA stands up to them

Roommate’s friend shows no concern for PTSD, time to leave!

Call the police and move out ASAP to stay safe!

Toxic roommate and her abusive BF, GTFO ASAP!

Managing PTSD is tough, but leaving may be the solution NAH

End a 10+ year friendship over less? This is torture. Get out ASAP for your safety. #NTA

Roommate’s BF is a hostile jerk, look for new place/roommate

Protect yourself from toxic roommates and their partners

Living together with a PTSD trigger? Time to move out.

NTA, time to move out and leave them behind
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Getting out of an uncomfortable living situation. NTA for speaking up.

Roommate prioritizes fwb over safety of PTSD sufferer. NTA.

Taking a service dog without permission?! NTA. ❤️

Taking legal action against triggering roommates
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Roommate’s cast iron skillet is salvageable, but living alone may be best for OP

Find a new roommate or place. Friend’s unsupportive, prioritize your mental health.

Roommate’s BF intentionally disrespectful and causing emotional distress. NTA.

Find new housing, prioritize therapy. NTA for leaving.

Roommate’s BF intentionally triggers woman w/ PTSD; NTA seeks safety measures

Safety first! NTA needs to move out ASAP.

Stand up for yourself and your safety!

Get out of there! Don’t let her manipulate you anymore.

NTA. Take care of your mental health and leave ASAP.

Friend won’t respect boundaries, dump her!

Supportive commenter advises leaving toxic situation for mental health ✔

Concerned commenter urges woman to leave unsafe living situation.

NTA OP is advised to leave and not engage with roommate.

Encouraging comment urging the woman to leave for her safety

Take it from the comments, banish the BF and stay safe!

Janet’s behavior is unacceptable. Time for a new roommate?

Roommate’s boyfriend terrorizes woman with PTSD, tenant offers advice

Get out now! Roommate’s BF is a bully and AH.
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NTA suggests surrendering lease and utilizing guest clause for protection.

NTA commenter advises OP to move out and sets boundaries

Break lease, get restraining orders against abusive roommate and boyfriend.

Move out, stay safe! Taking someone’s service dog is unacceptable
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Checking the lease for guest rules is a smart move

Respect PTSD boundaries or break the lease.

Supportive commenter offers to scare off abusive boyfriend.

NTA’s roommate’s boyfriend is an abusive bully, and she needs to move out ASAP.

NTA. Roommate’s BF and friend purposely trigger PTSD, destroy property, and steal assistance dog. Move out.

Roommate’s BF is a nightmare! ♀️

Escape abusive roommate and lease? NTA, do it for safety

Roommate disregards friend’s safety, NTA. Document everything and leave ASAP.

Janet and Brad are abusers, NTA needs to take action!

Leave now! Roommate’s BF is tormenting you & it’s dangerous. #NTA
