Picture this: you’ve already helped out your aunt, uncle, and cousin once by letting them move in with you after a house fire. But now, they’re getting evicted from their current place for being dirty, smelly, and downright irresponsible. They come knocking on your door again, asking for a place to stay. But you’ve got a pregnant wife and asthma to worry about. What would you do? Well, one person faced this exact dilemma, and their response has the internet talking. Let’s dive into this dramatic tale, shall we?
A Fiery Recap

️♂️ Accusations and Boundaries

My House, My Rules

Eviction Time

The Call for Help

Smoking Issues

Ungrateful Accusations

Time to Adult Up

No Vacancy: A Tale of Boundaries and Responsibility
Our protagonist had already helped their aunt, uncle, and cousin once by letting them move in after a house fire. But now, they’re getting evicted for being dirty, smelly, and irresponsible. When they asked to move in again, the answer was a firm no. With a pregnant wife and asthma, it’s just not a healthy environment. But Aunt Smokey didn’t take the rejection well, calling them an ungrateful spoiled brat and demanding they let them stay. Our hero snapped back, telling her to be an adult and take responsibility for her own mess. Was this response justified, or did they go too far? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Lesson learned! NTA. Tell pushy relatives to ask Auntie.

Prioritizing your family’s safety is important. Stand your ground!
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Don’t back down, you’re protecting your family

Protecting your pregnant wife from smoking relatives and toxoplasmosis

Supportive comment with NTA verdict

NTA. Don’t be guilt-tripped into letting them stay.

Protecting wife and unborn child from smoke

Former smoker sympathizes with couple’s refusal to house smokers. NTA

You have the right to refuse smoking relatives in your home

NTA. Prioritized wife’s pregnancy and health over smoking relatives.

NTA commenter calls out name-calling in smoking post.

NTA for setting boundaries with smoking relatives. Personal experience shared.

Putting your baby’s health first and prioritizing your mental well-being . NTA

Asking the tough question

Aunt calls OP a spoiled brat, but she’s the entitled one

Protecting your family from smoke and abuse, NTA

Protecting pregnant wife and asthmatic husband from smoking relatives

NTA. Let her face the consequences

Entitled aunt gets evicted and demands to move back in. NTA.

Support for standing up to smoking relatives and funny remark

Putting your wife’s and baby’s well-being first. NTA

NTA. Don’t risk your family’s health to accommodate toxic relatives.

NTA, prioritize your family’s health and well-being first

Standing up to entitled relatives

NTA. Offering to house children/cats is optional kindness

Standing up for yourself and your family

Protecting your pregnant wife and unborn baby comes first , NTA.

Not the a**hole for refusing to house smoking relatives.

Smoker agrees with pregnant couple’s smoking ban. NTA.
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Setting boundaries is important, but communication matters too! NTA

Protect your pregnant wife and avoid toxic guests. NTA

Clear NTA, family doesn’t excuse insensitive a**hole behavior

NTA for refusing to house smoking relatives and suggesting alternative options

Setting boundaries doesn’t make you an a****e.

NTA. Pregnant wife doesn’t need to house smoking relatives . Aunt is crazy

NTA. Pregnant wife and asthmatic husband refuse to house smoking relatives

NTA commenter suggests blocking annoying relative’s number

Cutting out toxic family members? NTA for refusing smoke exposure

Putting health first . Wife’s opinion not mentioned

Protecting family from smoke is not wrong.

Defending decision to not house smoking relatives. NTA wins!

Lesson learned the hard way, no more sharing space ♂️

Standing up to AH relative’s smoking, NTA praised.
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Stay strong, don’t let the aunt be everyone’s problem again!

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries with relatives ♀️

Don’t be a fool, social services can help her out.

NTA stands up to smoking relatives – karma strikes back
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Debunking the ‘ungrateful brat’ argument in AITA posts

Aunt calls them ungrateful, but she’s the one projecting

NTA. Don’t let selfish and dirty relatives stress you out

Last Updated on March 7, 2024 by Diply Social Team