Ho ho ho, it’s the most wonderful time of the year… unless you’re a pregnant mom-to-be facing the holidays alone! Our 31-year-old protagonist is expecting her first bundle of joy on December 30th, but her fiance’s family has other plans. They’re insisting he joins their annual Florida getaway, leaving his very pregnant partner to fend for herself. Is she the a-hole for wanting her man by her side during this special time? Let’s dive into this festive fiasco and find out!
Baby’s First Christmas… Alone?
Fiance’s Family Insists He Joins Their Annual Getaway
FOMO Fuels Fiance’s Decision to Ditch Pregnant Partner
Siblings Sync Up Schedules, Leaving Mom-to-Be Solo
FOMO Alert: Fiance Fears Missing Out on Family Fun
In-Laws’ Subtle Snubs: Not Quite Part of the Fam… Yet
Grandparent Emergency Keeps Mom-to-Be’s Parents Away
Facing a Lonely Christmas: Friends & Fam Busy with Their Own
Why THIS Year? Mom-to-Be Questions Fiance’s Priorities
Fights Erupt Over Fiance’s Loyalty: Parents vs. Partner
Silence Settles In: Mom-to-Be Stops Voicing Concerns
♀️ AITA for Wanting My Fiance by My Side for Baby’s Arrival?
Fiance’s Festive FOMO Leaves Pregnant Partner Alone for the Holidays
Our mom-to-be is facing a lonely Christmas as her fiance prioritizes his family’s annual Florida vacation over being there for his pregnant partner. With her own parents away dealing with a family emergency, she’ll be all alone during this special time. Fights have erupted over her fiance’s loyalty, with him feeling torn between his parents and his partner. She’s stopped voicing her concerns, wondering if she’s the a-hole for wanting him by her side. ♀️ The internet has some thoughts on this holiday heartache…
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Supportive commenter offers to take care of vulnerable pregnant woman ❤️
Pregnant and alone on Christmas? Not the a**hole, FFS.
Prioritize your health and baby. Re-evaluate your relationship
Trust your gut and seek support from friends and family
Importance of being present for childbirth discussed.
Fiancé prioritizing parents over family. NTA.
Fiancé’s shocking decision to leave pregnant partner for Christmas. Commenter advises setting boundaries and making a plan in case of labor.
Protect yourself and your child. Don’t marry him. NTA
Putting parents over pregnant fiancee on Christmas? Not husband material. ♀️
Therapist confirms partner is TA for leaving pregnant fiancée alone
Fiancé wants to leave pregnant partner alone for Christmas
Fiancé prioritizing Xmas in FL over pregnant partner. NTA.
Traveling to Florida during pregnancy amidst COVID season, NTA.
Future husband prioritizes Xmas over birth of his child. NTA.
A harsh reality check for a pregnant woman left alone.
Heartwarming story of a husband who prioritized his pregnant girlfriend/wife. NTA.
Heartfelt support for pregnant woman abandoned by fiancé at Christmas. ❤️
Sneaky plan to not notify fiancé of baby
NTA, but is marrying him really the best decision?
NTA commenter sympathizes with pregnant woman’s fiancé problem.
Congratulations on the baby! Husband’s behavior unacceptable
Stand your ground! Don’t marry into a toxic family.
NTA won’t stay for selfish fiancé’s return; moving out immediately.
Leave the a**hole fiancé and his family! You deserve better!
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Supportive comment, advises to prioritize self and baby over fiancé’s playtime.
Don’t marry him! You and your baby deserve better.
Husband prioritizes in-laws over pregnant wife? NTA stands firm.
Fiancé’s absence on Christmas shows his selfishness. NTA, speak up.
NTA – Being left alone while pregnant is unfeeling
NTA mama’s boy fiancé leaves pregnant partner alone on last Xmas together. Divorce immediately.
Suggesting a doctor’s appointment to inform fiancé about unpredictable pregnancy
Putting family before you and baby? Rethink relationship.
Fiancé’s parents prioritize Christmas over their pregnant son’s fiancée? NTA
Heartbreaking situation Seek a supportive environment for the baby
Hopeful comment wishes well for pregnant woman’s due date
Engaging comment! The commenter highlights the importance of the situation with emojis and rightly calls out the fiancé’s behavior. NTA
Leaving a heavily pregnant partner alone for vacation? NTA
Encouraging words for a pregnant woman being left alone for Christmas
NTA. Stand your ground and consider the future implications
Pregnancy travel struggles resonate with NTA commenters
Husband prioritizing toxic family over pregnant wife
Empathetic commenter consoles pregnant woman left alone on Christmas
NTA. Bold suggestions for pregnant OP to deal with absent husband.
Fiancé needs to learn his responsibilities and obligations ♂️
Husband’s sweet gesture vs. fiancé’s abandonment. NTA, leave him
Fiancé prioritizing parents over pregnant partner? NTA wins!
Supportive comment. Encourages OP to show fiancé this post.
Supportive comment calls out ex’s behavior and sets boundaries
Fiancé prioritizes family Christmas trip over pregnant partner. NTA.
Supportive comment calls out family’s behavior and offers sympathy ❤️
Fiancé prioritizes family over pregnant partner during holidays
NTA recommends serious action against fiancé’s red flags.
Husband prioritizing parents over pregnant wife #Selfish
Fiancé leaving for 2 weeks at Christmas while you’re due in 2 days? NTA
Heartless fiancé leaves pregnant partner alone on Christmas
Pregnant partner left alone for Christmas by fiancé. Heartless move
Protect your daughter’s future with legal custody agreement.
Prioritizing Mom over first child? Selfish AH alert
Ex-fiancé prioritizes family vacation over child’s birth. NTA.
Fiancé prioritizes mother over pregnant fiancée for Christmas? NTA.
Assertive advice for a betrayed pregnant woman.
Future husband prioritizes family over pregnant fiancee and child. NTA.
Supportive reply advises reaching out to friends for the holidays.
Sage advice on co-parenting and getting a court order
Fiancé ditched pregnant partner for Christmas? NTA and reevaluate.
Standing up for what’s right
Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! Ex got what he deserved. His mother doesn’t deserve to see the baby.
Set boundaries and seek therapy, don’t forgive missed birth.
Take control and file for custody ASAP. Be prepared
Pregnant & alone for Christmas?! NTA deserves better
Stand up for yourself and your child. You deserve better.
Hopeful comment on co-parenting with well wishes for future.
Sending his stuff to Florida! NTA strikes back
Heartbreaking situation Ex-fiancé’s family doesn’t deserve baby’s love ❤️
Supportive comment, expressing relief for missed toxic partner’s birth
Choosing co-parenting over counseling after family’s behavior.
Pregnant and alone on Christmas, fiancé is being selfish!
Putting his child before his parents is a no-brainer . Skipping the birth? Therapy needed
Partner prioritizes family poorly in a shocking decision. ♀️
Supportive comment about congrats on baby & ex’s behavior
Setting boundaries with toxic in-laws for a happy motherhood
Advice on setting boundaries with toxic family and co-parenting.
Congrats on baby girl, time for him & evil in-laws to face music
Supportive comment about giving birth without fiancé’s presence.
Harsh but true, better to cut your losses
Supportive comment. Asserts ownership of baby’s name and boundaries.
Trust your family and prioritize yourself. Your partner is toxic
Put yourself first. Cut your losses and distance yourself.
Heartless fiancé and family leave pregnant woman alone on Christmas
NTA, fiance needs to grow up and prioritize his family
Pregnant and alone on Christmas? NTA! What a tool!
Due dates aren’t a guarantee, and you deserve support
