When we think about “turn-ons,” many times, people associate these with sexual and intimate things that happen in the bedroom with partners. But, turn-ons can also be things that are totally nonsexual.
From physical features to the way in which someone carries themselves, individuals can have qualities that attract us without it totally being related to sex. Here are some of the “nonsexual” turn-ons that people swear by.
“Washing my hair.”
“He loves to wash my hair. Sometimes he’ll jump in the shower with me and the way he so tenderly makes sure to get every strand, even behind my ears… It makes me feel like the most adored and precious thing on the planet,” one person shared .
“Cooking.”
We all love someone who will go the extra mile for us and make us a home-cooked meal .
Having someone who can throw a great meal together isn’t always easy to come by!
“When she’s gardening.”
“Gardening. She comes in the house all sweaty and covered in dirt, her hair a bit disheveled and she smells like wet earth. Plus watching her bent over the vegetable garden gives me plenty of amazing views,” another shared .
“Watching him get dressed.”
While some consider a turn-on to be when someone gets undressed, one person shared that they like to watch her man get dressed.
Whether it’s a suit or just jeans and a t-shirt, something about it really gets her going.
“When she smiles.”
“When she just looks at me and smiles. My fiancé is beyond beautiful to me, all the damn time, and it doesn’t matter if she’s dressed to the nines or in her pyjamas with a sloppy ponytail, the second she smiles at me the rest of the world falls away,” shared another.
“Good relationships.”
One person shared that they are “insanely” turned-on by guys who have good relationships with their friends and their family.
Commitment is definitely a big turn-on, so seeing a stable and successful guy is definitely a perk!
“Being an awesome dad.”
“Being an awesome dad. He plays with our son, the little one’s face lights up like a Christmas tree, they laugh like crazy. I observe from the other side of the room, my heart gets filled with love, but in my mind we are all alone, and I’m stripping him down already,” said one.
“Waking up to her.”
One guy shared that waking up and seeing his wife of 31-years smile at him in the morning is a huge turn-on for him.
He said that it’s something he cherishes even after all of this time married together.
“When he works on my car.”
“When he’s working on my car. He’s all dirty and rolling around on the creeper… I just wanna hop on top and ride him into the sunset… like DAMNNNN BABEEEEE HOWWW ARE YOU SO FINEEEE,” shared one person .
“When he stretches.”
One woman shared that when her boyfriend stretches and his shirt goes up just a tiny little bit, she finds it to be incredibly sexy.
Seeing a little sneak peek can be totally hot for some people, for sure!
“He cares about animals.”
“He has a cat and will periodically proclaim ‘ARE YOU A GOOD BOY? Yes.’ to his cat. Out of nowhere. He also pays a ton of attention to my cats when he’s at my place. I LOVE that he just genuinely cares about other critters,” shared another .
“When she takes the first bite.”
One guy shared that watching his girl take the first bite of a meal, and the little sound she makes, is such a big turn-on.
He said it’s even better when he made the meal for her. “It drives me nuts,” he said.
“Talking in other languages.”
“Chatting up strangers in foreign languages. He’s super outgoing and won’t hesitate to talk to people even if his grasp on the language isn’t perfect. Even makes Dutch sound sexy,” said one person online .
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“When he leans on the door frame.”
One person said when her man leans on the door frame all “nonchalantly” with his sleeves rolled up, it gets her every time.
“I love muscle on a guy, and subtly showing that off is so hot,” she wrote .
“When she talks sh*t when playing video games.”
“I know this will be weird but I love it when my woman starts talking sh*t when she plays online games. It’s [the] biggest turn on for me, she can even talk shit to me and it’ll turn me on,” one guy shared on the forum.
