Family drama alert! Buckle up, folks, because we’ve got a doozy of a dilemma on our hands. Meet our blended family: a loving couple, their 18-year-old stepson Marc, and two 14-year-old daughters. But here’s the catch: Marc’s been struggling with some serious mental health issues, and his behavior has been causing major headaches for the fam. Now, with a big move on the horizon, the parents are faced with a tough decision. Should they bring their troubled teen along for the ride, or leave him behind with his bio dad? Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this family’s emotional rollercoaster!
The Blended Family Dilemma

Bio Dad in the Picture

The Struggle with Mental Health

The Secret Medication Disposal ️

The Volatile Teenager

The Hospitalization

The Rage-Filled Outbursts

The Medication Refusal ♂️

The Big Move

The Wife’s Concern

The Trust Issue ♂️

The Move Details ️

The Visitation Clarification

Involving Bio Dad ️

The Safety Officer’s Perspective

The Sisters’ Safety Concerns

⚠️ The Ultimatums

The Medicated Marc

Family Feud: To Move or Not to Move?
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of family drama! Our blended fam is facing a tough decision: do they bring their troubled teen along for their big move, or leave him behind with his bio dad? Marc’s been struggling with some serious mental health issues, and his behavior has been causing major stress for the whole crew. But leaving him behind? That’s a tough pill to swallow. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster! Grab your popcorn, folks, because the responses are bound to be juicy!
Parent’s dilemma: Abandon mentally ill son or stay trapped? ♀️
Redditor calls out YTA for considering abandonment.
Parenting a teen with ADHD & HFA is tough, but don’t abandon him.

NTA, dealing with mentally ill family members is tough

Caretaking for mentally ill family member, NTA for considering move

Setting boundaries with mentally ill family member. Compassionate but firm.

Living with a mentally disturbed son takes a toll on family.

Parent struggles with son’s mental illness and moving, seeks advice.
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Pushing the baby bird out of the nest
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Dealing with a mentally ill family member: move or stay? NTA suggests moving without him.
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Choosing between leaving mentally ill son or staying? NAH. Difficult situation.

Engaging solution proposed for moving with mentally ill son.

NTA suggests tough love approach for mentally ill son.

Adult son’s mental illness burdens parents to choose relocation. NTA.

Tough love for mentally ill son? Consider impact on whole family

Suggestion to explore reasons for stopping meds and therapy effectiveness.

Tough love suggested for mentally ill son. NTA.

Navigating tough choices as parents with mentally ill child.
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Considering the impact on the other kids amidst a tough decision

Insightful comment about mental illness and medication management.

Growing up with a mentally ill sibling can be terrifying . NTA, take care of your family first ❤️

Agreement on the difficulty of the situation and need for outside help.

Discuss options with Marc’s dad and let him decide.

NTA commenter commends OP for thoughtful consideration of mentally ill son.

NTA comment highlights the impact of mentally ill son on younger siblings.

Supportive comment from someone who understands the struggle of mental illness
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Mentally ill son’s dangerous behavior puts family in a tough spot

Parent receives harsh judgement for considering leaving mentally ill son.
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Navigating mental illness and family dynamics is tough for everyone

Personal story of recovery with advice for struggling families.
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Mentally ill son refuses meds: NTA parents face tough decision

Commendation for a supportive father amidst mental illness struggles.

Moving without mentally ill son is NTA, but plan carefully.

Choosing between mentally ill son and younger daughters. NTA.

Parent struggles with mentally ill son’s presence and safety concerns.

Living with a mentally ill family member who refuses medication

Sibling of mentally ill person supports NTA’s decision to move out

Empathetic commenter suggests seeking alternative treatment for mentally ill son.

Parent struggles with mentally ill son’s refusal of help. NTA

Prioritizing family safety over mentally ill family member. NTA.

Encouraging advice on dealing with a mentally ill family member.

Including mentally-ill son: medication-mandate better than rejection.

Encouraging tough love approach to mentally ill adult child.

NTA suggests leaving mentally ill son with father to grow up
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Not the a**hole for prioritizing safety of vulnerable girls.

NTA. Tough love for a grown-up child.

Supporting a mentally ill friend while setting boundaries. ❤

Living in fear: NTA family faces heartbreaking decision to move

Encouraging tough love approach to mentally ill adult child.

Setting boundaries and ensuring medication compliance is crucial for NTA

Supporting an adult child with untreated bipolar disorder is difficult.

Keeping mentally ill son unmedicated is a big no

Advocating for the daughters’ safety and mental health.

NTA – Adult son’s safety cannot come at the expense of teenage daughters’ safety. A difficult decision, but necessary.

Prioritizing safety of daughters over mentally ill stepson. #NTA

Taking control of your life. NTA

NTA with mental illness declines medication, family faces tough choices.

Refusing medication puts mentally ill son and siblings in danger. NTA.

Daughters’ safety is a priority. Involving father for fresh start. ✔️

Prioritizing safety of children while helping mentally ill son. NTA.

Mentally ill son’s behavior endangers family: NTA suggests hospitalization.
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Moving without mentally ill son is NTA choice.

Prioritizing safety when dealing with mentally ill family members.

Safety first: Commenter supports moving without non-medicated, bipolar son.
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NAH stepson needs help, move with conditions or seek therapy.

Sensible suggestion for moving with mentally ill son.

Moving without mentally ill son: tough, but necessary for support.
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NTA comment highlights crucial buried info about safety concerns.

Prioritizing daughter’s safety over mentally ill son’s choice not to medicate.

Parent criticized for considering abandoning mentally ill son

Sibling of bipolar brother offers advice on tough love approach.

Son needs to take responsibility for his own mental health

NAH struggles to find a solution for mentally ill son

Family communication key in deciding mentally ill son’s future

Sibling safety comes first: NTA for considering tough decision.

Parents face tough decision with mentally ill son. Commenter supports NTA stance to protect daughter.

Being raised to be independent is valuable. NTA.
