Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of friendship, motherhood, and some serious drama! Meet our protagonist, a new mom trying to navigate the challenges of adulthood while dealing with her BFF’s attachment issues. As priorities shift and tensions rise, will their lifelong bond survive this tumultuous chapter? Get ready for a wild ride filled with eye rolls, snide comments, and a whole lot of sass! Let’s dive in and see how this friendship fiasco unfolds!
Besties Since Birth!

L’s Tragic Backstory

My Family to the Rescue! ♀️

L’s Love Life Looking Up!

Puppy Love!

Baby Talk Taboo!

Surprise! I’m Pregnant!

️ Friends’ Predictions Come True!

Constant Messaging Madness!

Birthday Blues

No More Energy for Therapy Sessions

The Final Straw!

Eye Rolls and Snide Comments

“Your Daughter is the Problem!”

L’s Dramatic Exit!

Friendship Fallout: New Mom vs. Needy BFF!
Well, well, well! It seems our new mom is in quite the pickle with her lifelong bestie! L just can’t seem to accept that things have changed now that there’s a baby in the picture. From constant messaging to birthday blues, L’s neediness is reaching new heights! But the real kicker? When L had the audacity to say that the baby was the problem! Our sleep-deprived mama bear wasn’t having any of that nonsense and laid down the law. Cue the dramatic exit and friends taking sides! The internet has some thoughts on this one, and they’re not holding back! ️ Let’s see what they have to say about this friendship fiasco!
Having a baby changes priorities. Friend needs to understand that.

Setting boundaries with friends post-baby. Honest communication is key!

Cut off jealous friend who has beef with your baby

Sarcastic comment calls out unreasonable expectations of clingy friend.

BFF tells new mom to balance time better, NTA calls entitled.

New mom prioritizes child over clingy friend. NTA

Setting boundaries with a clingy friend. NTA.

Maintain friendships while prioritizing child’s needs. A gentle reminder.

Friends should understand new mom’s priorities. Not the a-hole.
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Friend failed to adjust to new mom’s priorities. NTA

New mom receives support after setting boundaries with clingy friend.

Understanding friend offers helpful advice to entitled BFF

Both parties need to communicate better. Friend has attachment issues.

Honesty is the best policy!

Friend feels entitled to attention, but baby is top priority. NTA!

Friend can’t accept new mom’s priorities, may need to let go

Protect your baby! Cut toxic people out of your life

Friend is jealous of a baby and it’s not ok

Friend crosses the line, new mom stands up for herself. NTA

Friend is selfish, NTA for setting boundaries as a mother

Good friends should be able to check each other.

Prioritizing your baby doesn’t make you a bad friend.

Growing up means priorities change. Friend needs to adjust

Friend demands priority over newborn, commenter disapproves. ♀️
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Toxic friendship alert . The commenter points out the friend’s possessive behavior and lack of empathy towards the new mom’s responsibilities.
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Being a responsible parent means setting priorities. NTA.

Friend with dependency issues: NTA, prioritize baby and boundaries.

Friend struggles with change, but NTA sets healthy boundaries
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Moving on from toxic friendships after major life changes

Supportive comment suggests seeking professional help for friend’s trauma.

Mom friend prioritizes her child, gets accused of being AH. NTA.

Finding balance as a new mom. NTA comment offers humor.
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Friend prioritizes motherhood over punctuality; gets excluded. NTA.
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Balancing new motherhood and friendship with mental health struggles.
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Shocked commenter questions validity of new mom’s post.
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You’re a mature mom, she’s an immature friend. NTA

Clingy friend gets put in their place, NTA wins

Setting boundaries with friends as a new mom. NTA
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Being a new mom means priorities change, friends should understand

Being a new mom is tough, but kindness and reassurance help ❤️

Friend may have BPD, suggest psych eval in caring way

Cut toxic ‘friends’ who don’t respect your motherhood journey. NTA

Red flags: NTA, but watch out for potential mental break.

Friendship with new mom ends after selfish comment. NTA.

“NTA. She needs to understand that a baby comes first.”

Supportive comment suggests therapy for friend and setting boundaries.
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Friendship advice: prioritize your baby, not a jealous friend.

Friend’s jealousy during pregnancy leads to permanent fallout

Jealous friend insults baby, needs talk; not your job babysit.

Navigating changing priorities with a childhood trauma survivor

Friend needs help transitioning to adulthood, suggest therapy. ♀️

Friend was inappropriate, NTA for setting boundaries.

Cutting off toxic friends who don’t respect your baby

“New mom sets boundaries with clingy friend. Baby comes first!”

Childless friends judged, NTA for prioritizing baby

Toxic friend refusing to support new mom and baby

“Friend guilt-trips new mom for spending time with her baby. NTA!”

Cutting off a toxic friend is self-care

Mother defends losing friends after having kids.

Friend needs therapy, struggling to accept changing relationship.

Setting boundaries is important, friends should respect them. NTA
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New mom defends herself against clingy friend. #NTA
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Friend needs to grow up and be supportive. NTA.

Friend’s expectations unrealistic, NTA for prioritizing new child.

One commenter suggests therapy for friend with abandonment issues. NTA.

NTA, but clear boundaries needed to protect your child

Friend needs to respect change and support new mom.

Is L really that bad? Commiserate with this commenter.

Friend prioritizes herself over new mom’s baby, commenter defends NTA.

Protect your baby from toxic people. NTA.

Prioritizing newborn doesn’t make her a bad friend.

New mom defends prioritizing her baby over clingy friend.

Compassionate comment on mental health, reminds us to show empathy ❤️

Choosing between a best friend and a newborn

Friend gets upset for new mom prioritizing her baby ♀️
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Friend upset she’s not priority over new mom’s child NTA

Friend’s one-way relationship is unhealthy. You’re NTA, cut cord.

“She needed tough love. Your daughter is your priority now.”

Compassionate response to NTA, suggests friend needs professional help

Encouraging a troubled friend to seek counseling for dependency issues

Toxic friend acting possessive and jealous over a baby. NTA.

Friend is NTA, but needs to understand OP’s priorities with child

Encouraging support for a struggling friend and mental health

Friendship vs Parenthood: Priorities Change with Age

Parenthood changes social life, NTA for prioritizing child’s needs

Friend called baby a ‘problem’, time to reevaluate relationship. NTA

NTA stands up for daughter, tells friends to STFU
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New mom’s friend jealous of her baby, needs therapy. NTA.
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