️ Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy family drama unfolding at the dinner table. Meet our determined mom, who’s on a mission to help her 13-year-old daughter shed some extra pounds. But when grandma’s birthday bash at the local greasy spoon turns into a battle of wills, things get spicy! ️ Will mom’s tough love approach win the day, or will the family’s eye-rolls and snide remarks send her packing? Let’s dive in and find out!
The Battle of the Bulge: Mom vs. Daughter

Mom’s Tough Love Diet Plan

Grandma’s Birthday Bash at Greasy Spoon

♀️ No Junk Food Pact: Daughter’s Idea

Family Eye-Rolls at Healthy Orders

Grandma’s Sneaky Trigger Foods

Mom’s Gentle Reminder: No Junk Food!

Dessert Dilemma: Daughter Reaches for Menu

Sister-in-Law Calls Out Mom’s ‘Healthy Lifestyle’

Sister-in-Law Questions Mom’s Methods

Sister-in-Law’s Unsolicited Advice

Mom Asks for Grandma’s Support, Gets Snubbed

♀️ In-Laws Exclude Mom & Daughter from Get-Togethers

Husband Torn: Mom Wrong at Restaurant? ️

Family Feud: Mom’s Healthy Eating Plan Sparks Outrage!
Well, well, well… looks like our determined mom’s healthy eating plan for her daughter has caused quite the stir! From grandma’s sneaky trigger foods to sister-in-law’s snarky comments, it seems like everyone’s got an opinion on how this mom should handle her daughter’s weight loss journey. But mom’s not backing down, even if it means getting snubbed from family get-togethers! The internet is divided on this one – some say mom’s doing what’s best for her daughter in the long run, while others think she might be taking things a bit too far. What do you think? Is mom a hero or a villain in this family food fight? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this spicy situation! ️
Enforcing a diet agreement at a birthday dinner? YTA

ESH, but comment suggests bigger issue: potential disordered eating & psychological damage.

A comment explaining the possible reasons for daughter’s weight gain.

Expert opinion needed to avoid potential harm to daughter.

YTA. Humiliating your daughter in public is psychologically harmful

Parental humiliation and deprivation leads to binge eating.

Heartbreaking comment on the damaging effects of food shaming.

ESH situation with focus on weight rather than health ♀️. Private discussion would have been better

Parent accused of causing eating disorder; limit unhealthy food consumption instead.

Parent slammed for policing 13-year-old daughter’s diet
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ESH. Well-intentioned but misguided approach to daughter’s diet.

Parent receives gentle YTA for policing daughter’s diet at dinner

Parent criticized for policing daughter’s birthday dinner diet. YTA.

Why go to a grease spot if you don’t care?
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Mom gets backlash for policing daughter’s diet during puberty

Just talk to your daughter ️ and be careful with body image

Parent criticized for pressuring child to lose weight.

A cautionary tale on helping kids lose weight

Supportive mom praised for helping daughter stick to healthy plan

Mom’s diet policing will affect daughter’s self-esteem ♀️

A personal story of a daughter’s struggle with weight and her mother’s fixation. ESH.

Moderation is key! YTA for policing your daughter’s diet
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Parent criticized for child’s diet, potential eating disorder concerns

Supportive comment defends mom’s actions and acknowledges room for improvement

Pressuring your daughter in front of others can breed resentment

Parent criticized for managing daughter’s diet without professional guidance.

Supporting a loved one’s decision sometimes means keeping them in check

Support for parent’s tough love approach to daughter’s diet.
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Parental weight obsession leads to potential eating disorder risks. YTA.

Concerned commenter questions daughter’s weight and eating habits.

13-year-old needs healthy relationship with food, not policing. YTA

ESH – Commenter criticizes both MIL and OP for food policing.

Supporting weight loss is important, NTA for policing daughter’s diet

Harsh criticism for mom’s extreme diet policing of daughter’s birthday.

A commenter criticizes the mother for shaming and policing her daughter’s food choices at a birthday dinner, and suggests seeking medical advice and encouraging body positivity instead. #BodyPositivity

Curiosity on whether daughter chose diet sparks debate.

Consulting a pediatrician before diet-policing kids is important!
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Supportive comment on daughter’s diet with a valid concern raised

Supportive comment defends mom’s decision to help daughter lose weight

Teaching daughter self control: NTA, family testing boundaries: A-holes

Teaching portion control and stopping overeating is important. NTA

Concerned commenter questions daughter’s weight gain with empathy
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Mother defends supporting daughter’s diet against MIL’s punishment.

Encouraging healthy choices is great, but labeling foods ‘bad’ is harmful

Struggling with weight? YTA mom policing daughter’s diet

Mom shamed for policing 13-yr-old daughter’s diet

Supportive comment applauds mother for helping daughter with weight loss

Criticism of policing daughter’s diet causing eating disorder. YTA

Teaching healthy habits with daughter, NTA.
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Teaching healthy choices is good, but focus on moderation and feelings

Supportive comment applauds OP for positive parenting amidst toxic family

User shares personal struggle with eating disorder, advises mom to change approach.

Empathetic reply encourages daughter to speak up for herself.

Parent criticized for enforcing strict diet on daughter’s birthday. YTA.

Supportive comment defending mother’s decision to police daughter’s diet.

Parent criticized for policing 13-year-old’s diet. YTA.

Angry commenter criticizes mother’s diet policing at birthday dinner

Mom criticized for policing daughter’s diet at birthday dinner

Restricting daughter’s diet can lead to eating disorders. YTA

Parent’s diet policing causes long-term unhealthy relationship with food. YTA

Criticism of mom’s public diet policing embarrasses her daughter

YTA took daughter to unhealthy restaurant and policed her diet ♀️

Mom criticized for policing daughter’s diet. YTA verdict given.
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A harsh but necessary truth with helpful resources

Formerly obese commenter gives YTA mom advice on unhealthy obsession.

Mom’s policing of daughter’s diet is criticized as harmful

Mom’s policing of daughter’s diet at birthday dinner criticized. YTA

YTA for policing daughter’s diet at her birthday dinner. Uncomfortable for all.

Mom’s diet policing at daughter’s birthday party is YTA.

Parent criticized for controlling daughter’s diet at birthday dinner.

Encouraging exercise over dieting in kids

Criticism of mother’s actions and potential harm to daughter’s relationship with food

Let her be a kid, YTA. ♀️

Weight concern at family dinner sparks debate on etiquette

NTA gently reminds daughter of their agreement to eat healthy
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13-yr old’s diet policing at b’day dinner=YTA

Defending mom’s decision to police daughter’s diet.
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Parent’s unhealthy approach to daughter’s weight concerns. YTA

Criticism of mom’s restrictive approach towards daughter’s diet.

Mother’s diet policing at daughter’s b’day dinner sparks outrage. YTA.

Supportive comment on parenting, with suggestions for better communication.

A cautionary tale about the dangers of policing diets.
