Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of trust fund drama and blended family woes that’ll have you on the edge of your seat! Meet our main man, a 46-year-old tech tycoon who’s engaged to his lovely lady, but there’s a catch… she’s got two sons from a previous marriage who aren’t exactly on the straight and narrow path. Meanwhile, our guy’s own sons are living the high life with a cushy trust fund and bright futures in the family biz. When his fiancé asks him to set up a similar fund for her boys, things get heated! Will he step up to the plate or stand his ground? Let’s dive in and find out!
Engaged Couple’s Dilemma: Trust Fund Trouble!

Sons Set for Success: Trust Fund & Company Inheritance

Family Fortunes: Ex-Wife & Sons Taken Care Of

Studious Sons: Oldest in Uni, Youngest Excelling in Private School

Fiancé’s Tough Past: Single Mom Struggles

Fiancé’s Sons’ Struggles: Legal Troubles & Pot Problems

Oldest Son’s Guest House Stay: Uni Tales & Work Excitement

♂️ OP Says No to Step-Son Fund: Bail & Lack of Plans

Fiancé Demands OP ‘Step Up’ for Stepsons

OP’s Dilemma: AITA for Not Funding Stepsons? ♂️

Ironclad Prenup & Will: Reviewed by Legal Team ⚖️ ⚖️

Stepsons Lived with Grandma, OP Rarely Saw Them

OP Had No Part in Raising Stepsons, Just Bail & Tuition Help

Oldest Stepson’s Brief Stay Before Being Kicked Out

Fiancé Upset but Respects OP’s No Marriage Decision

Stepsons’ Potential Company Employment: Separate Discussion

Trust Fund Tug-of-War: OP’s Dilemma with Fiancé’s Struggling Sons!
Well, well, well… looks like our tech tycoon is in quite the pickle! His fiancé wants him to create a trust fund for her troubled sons, just like he has for his own successful boys. But OP’s not having it, citing bail money and lack of life plans as reasons to say no. ♂️ Fiancé’s upset, claiming unfairness and demanding OP step up as a stepdad. OP offers them jobs at his company instead, but that only fuels the flames. Now, the couple’s headed to counseling, and marriage is off the table! Fiancé’s sons’ welfare is her responsibility, but OP will split costs 50/50. As for working at the company? That’s a whole other discussion. Phew, talk about drama! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild ride!
NTA commenter suggests helping with school or job, not trust fund

Protect your assets! ️ Pre-nup and trust funds are key.

Supporting adult step-sons? NTA says it like it is!

Concerned commenter questions fiancée’s dependant sons.

NTA. Fiancée’s sons not your responsibility. Silent treatment is AH move.

Reasonable limitations, but willing to help stepsons with goals

Not responsible for fiancée’s adult sons. Consider prenup.

Rare to see family businesses let family members earn it. NTA ❤
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NTA millionaire refuses fiancée’s troubled sons, prenup advised ⚖️

NTA millionaire hesitant to marry after troubled sons’ drama

Setting boundaries is important , good for you for standing up for yourself.
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Having a trust can be a blessing and a curse ♂️

“Fair” vs “Equal” – NTA for millionaire’s decision

Savage yet practical advice for the millionaire fiancé

Generous help, no obligation. Wife’s income could help too

Not obligated to support adult stepsons. Ex-wife in will odd.
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No obligation to support irresponsible adult stepchildren. NTA

Marriage for money? Not cool! NTA comments agree.

Engaging reply to millionaire’s refusal to fund fiancée’s sons.
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NTA. She can share her inheritance with her kids if needed.

NTA. Find someone who respects your hard work

NTA. Don’t marry her. You’re setting a bad example.

Gold digger alert! ❗ Marriage? Hard no.

Be there for them, but not responsible for their mistakes
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NTA. It’s not your responsibility to take care of her adult sons.

Plan a fair game for redemption and career growth

NTA offers help, fiancée demands money for entitled sons

Future step-kids and prenup concerns, NTA.
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Pre-marital counseling could prevent future conflicts with stepchildren

Be careful with enabling her sons.

Parenting, trust, and consequences. What would you do?

Millionaire refuses to fund fiancée’s adult sons, NTA.

Millionaire refuses to fund fiancée’s troubled adult sons , internet agrees NTA

Ex-wife & kids part of building blocks. Fiancée’s expectations unreasonable. NTA
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NTA. Let them be independent and responsible

Protect your assets . Think before you say I do.

NTA millionaire refuses to fund fiancée’s troubled sons. Tough love needed.

Generous job offer, entitled sons. NTA takes no BS

Money won’t solve their problems, but education and guidance will. ❌ ✅

Protecting your assets: NTA gets legal advice before break-up

Fiancée’s kids not your responsibility. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA. Not obligated to fund fiancée’s troubled adult sons.

Support and love > trust funds. NTA for setting boundaries ❤

Protect your assets and think twice before marrying into entitlement.

Establishing boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships

Fiancée’s expectations for millionaire to fund her kids’ lives – NTA

Suggests mentorship and financial assistance to troubled sons

Fiancé wants money for her sons with no expectations. NTA.

Stepfather-to-be not responsible for fiancée’s adult sons. NTA

NTA, her adult sons aren’t your responsibility. Keep prenup air-tight

Stepfather-to-be gets support for not creating trust funds

Generous offer to stepsons, but millionaire owes them nothing.

NTA, commenter shares personal experience and advises to secure will

Not his kids, not his responsibility. Fiancée was out of line

Wedding postponement due to Covid may have saved millionaire’s fortune

Red flags in fiancée’s entitled demand for money, reconsider marriage.

Pre-nup saves millionaire from funding fiancée’s troubled sons

Father refuses to fund fiancee’s troubled sons, offers them a job

Not obligated to fund fiancée’s grown, irresponsible sons

Generous job offer, NTA for not funding fiancée’s sons
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Stepsons should find jobs themselves, NTA.

Unhappy relationship downgrade sparks heated YTA comment.
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Stepsons not entitled to handouts, but help veteran stepson after.

Encouraging comment suggests alternative career paths for troubled sons

Mature millionaire sets boundaries with entitled fiancée’s kids

Think twice before marrying someone who feels entitled to your money

Protect your assets from future trouble with new wife.

Protect your assets, prenup is a good plan

NTA. Your kids come first. ♂️

OP is NTA for refusing to fund fiancée’s troubled sons.

Prenup before marriage, starter job for her sons. Fair enough

NTA millionaire fiancé faces cold shoulder for not funding stepsons

Grown ass men shouldn’t expect a trust fund from stepdad-to-be ♂️
